I am not doing nuts and bolts install or specific brands (which is largely subjective). You need to understand every wire, component and purpose in a hybrid system like this or you will maybe burn your house down. Plus, if you need to install for code and inspection, ditch this idea. I figured it out, so can you.
Basics:
5 x 280w 24v panels
MPPT charge controller
4 x Trojan L16LRE batteries
3000w MSW inverter/charger. I am planning on installing a second smaller inverter (500w PSW?). The overhead draw on the 3000w inverter is pretty steep.
Components
12v led lighting -- Conventional AC light fixtures work fine with 12v led bulbs. AC wall switches WILL NOT WORK because breaking a DC contact is much harder than breaking an alternating current contact
12v ceiling fan
12v Fantastic fan for exhaust mounted horizontally in wall
10gal RV gas/electric water heater. On a 12v DC timer which powers up the electric side of the water heater daily between 1300-1600 hrs when my panels are usually throwing out surplus electrons. The water is usually still quite warm for evening showers.
50amp RV power center -- AC/DC connections with appropriate breakers/fuses. Also has a converter/charger for the 12v side.
6 circuit transfer switch as noted earlier.
110v chest freezer on a timer which shuts it off daily between midnight -0500
Propane stove --- NOT RV!
Propane heaters.
NO RV absorption fridge! Those things are crap. I have a small super efficient AC fridge.
The transfer switch is set up to receive power from two selectable inputs. Either AC from the inverter or AC from a generator that I plug into an outside receptacle.
You may notice the heavy reliance on RV components. I spent 10 years in an RV in the oil field off grid with generator power 24/7. I learned about some things that work and some things not so much.