That never was my thing when I was in high school. There were a few girls around at dances who wanted you to whirl them around, I just wasn't that interested when I was 16, 17 years old, I had my sights set elsewhere at the time. If I knew then, what I know now, it might have been a different story and I might have accidentally fathered some children.
At A&M in the 90's, if you wanted it, it was there. Wasn't a bad place to hang out and drink a few beers. Don't know the situation now. With the Aggie Wranglers club, it seems pretty popular, I know they started a North Texas branch, but it's jr high and high school kids. My niece is involved, but I don't know the particulars.
I went with some friends to Cowboys on East Grand before it went to Tejano, to an Ace Hardware and YMCA to a Tom Thumb. Can't say that I miss it. Same for a place we went in Arlington, Red River maybe? My first wife liked to dance, my second wife not so much. I'm good with that. The Neon Cowboy is halfway between my job and my house, there's been enough people shot over there that I don't feel the need to stop over there and check it out.
The world's not what it once was if you live in town (the big cities). People are rude and they suck. Not friendly at all. I used to wear boots 7 days a week and don a bangora straw hat in the summer, felt in the winter, 13MWZ cowboy cut wranglers. I've moved over to lace up work shoes and a baseball cap. I do have a weakness for the Cinch white label jeans though, they fit pretty well, that's about as cowboy'd up as I get any more.
I reckon if you get away from Dallas and Houston, and I mean really get away, like west of I35, I think you'll still find that kind of culture in small towns.