No, OP, I'm not. Even when I worked as a LE Officer for 28 years, I never experienced all of the problems that you have experienced. Sounds like you have a defective gun and/or defective ammunition and/or defective magazines. I have carried various pistols in my career from .357 Ruger Speed Six revolver issued by the Border Patrol, to Sig Sauer P220 .45 ACP, CZ 75 pre B, HK P7 M13, HK USP, Beretta Brigadier 96D (which was a piece of crap, but, didn't jam up like your guns), Glock 17, Sig Sauer P226 .40, to Sig P229 .40. None of those pistols had the problems that OP is experiencing on an abnormal basis as he described. And I never felt the need to carry a back up pistol. We did have unauthorized, personally owned, back up rifles in our vehicles when I was in the Border Patrol. Mine was an FN FAL Paratrooper model while others carried HK 91's and various AK47's. Not a lot of back up pistols.
The very few times that I have experienced an issue like FTF was with ammunition on the range during one of our required quarterly firearms qualifications when one round out of 60 rds (for the qualification) might have a bad primer. But, we're taught to immediately conduct a quick combat reload (using the Tap, Rack, Bang technique) and continue firing the strung of fire in the event of a malfunction. Instead of a backup gun, Op should practice malfunction drills which include combat reloading a fresh magazine and continue firing which is just as fast as holstering your pistol and drawing a back up pistol. Our range officers used to load a spent cartridge casing in one of our magazines and have us start firing at the target and when the spent casing jammed (we didn't know where in the magazine the spent casing was loaded or which magazines had spent casings). Funny thing is that sometimes my Sig P229 would eject a spent casing and then load the next round which was the spent casing that was supposed to stove pipe in the slide. So, my gun would chamber the spent casing and I pulled the trigger on the spent casing and had to engage the Tap, Rack, Bang technique and combat reload and then continue firing.
Now that I've retired, I sold off my Sig P229 and carry a full size Night Hawk Custom 10mm with 5 spare magazines. The gun has been flawless and so have the magazines - some are Wilson Combat and others are Tripp Research magazines. As long as op has a decent quality pistol and nothing cheap, carries decent quality magazines (like Wilson Combat) and good quality ammunition (not cheap CCI Blazer practice ammo that tends to have bad primers or cheap Russian ammunition), then his equipment should function properly and won't need a cheap back up questionable quality item like a Lorcin, Hi Point, or other BS back up gun.
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