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Link Posted: 4/15/2021 4:12:51 AM EDT
[#1]
"Date" "fool around" "having fun" ... hell yes!  Go for it.  

An actual relationship... nope.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 4:31:46 AM EDT
[#2]
I definitely would. Women my age are too old.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 4:37:23 AM EDT
[#3]
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This. Half you age +7 is the formula. Anything younger is creepy.

You say she's 37 and you are 20 years older so 57. That gives you 35.5 as lowest so 37 is within range so you are good to go.
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Hmmm, I got one a little under the wire then. 74 & 40
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 4:48:18 AM EDT
[#4]
Late to the party and I have not read all 4 pages yet. But to answer OP's question: probably not. Not 20 years younger, maybe 40. I'm 67 and want nothing to do with the baggage any woman over 30 brings with her. Not to mention that women's appearance and attitude tend to diminish exponentially with age. Hard enough to find a young one that isn't a mental case or latent whale.

Would a 20-something want an old guy like me? Probably not, unless there was some money involved. Cheaper to rent than to own anyways!
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 7:11:28 AM EDT
[#5]
Date?  Sure, I would probably do that, but I am 56 so she would be at least old enough to know what she is doing.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 7:19:40 AM EDT
[#6]
If i was 6 years older than i am now I definitely would.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 7:25:32 AM EDT
[#7]
oh hell no
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 7:45:07 AM EDT
[#8]
Date, as in court...probably not.  Fuck, if I was single, sure. Though I might feel dirty afterwards.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 7:45:31 AM EDT
[#9]
Lady Rodent is ten years younger than me, and that's good.

Twenty years younger would be better.

Fifteen years younger would probably be the best balance.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 7:46:56 AM EDT
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I am 42 dating a 21 yr old and works because we outdoorsy shit, ride my motorcycle and have a couple of other similar interests.  The stuff we don’t share we each do solo, it also helps that we both have the ability to communicate openly and honestly with one and another.  We have also know each other since she was 12 as her family were regulars at my buddies restaurant.  Meeting her parents ( they are divorced) was a lil awkward but once I pointed would they rather have their daughter dating a boy who will break her heart or a man who will shown respect and concern for her...  We have together nearly 7 months and all good so far.


Now my exwife, well she is pissed

My 14 yr old daughter loves it because she now has a shopping buddy and as a bonus I don’t have to take my daughter shopping anymore

Yes the sex is AMAZING
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Wood, except as a few others pointed out my wife would murder me in my sleep.    
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 7:47:23 AM EDT
[#11]
LoL, yes. I was engaged to a woman 19 years younger than me. Then, I discovered she was a cheating whore. Now, I’m with my wife who is only 2 years younger.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 7:48:17 AM EDT
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Wood, except as a few others pointed out my wife would murder me in my sleep.    
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Friend, sleep is overrated. Seriously.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 8:00:05 AM EDT
[#13]
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Fuck that. Women in their early 20s are best for men of all ages.
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Half your age +7 is the ideal situation IIRC.

I failed at that... but my wife is my same age and it actually worked out pretty well for us.

Fuck that. Women in their early 20s are best for men of all ages.


It's all just a bunch of cope
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 8:04:10 AM EDT
[#14]
No, I love my wife. Now if something were to happen to her... hell ya I’d be into chicks 20 years younger.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 8:07:47 AM EDT
[#15]
That would be illegal.

Would I date an 18yo if I were not married? Certainly, if she and I had compatible intelligence and morals, and were mutually attracted to each other.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 8:10:11 AM EDT
[#16]
62/42? Of course.

Low 40’s are just getting horned up from pre-menopause and the kids are in HS or college.

TC
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 8:11:29 AM EDT
[#17]
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Fuck that. Women in their early 20s are best for men of all ages.
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We have daughters in early 20's... so that isnt even capable of registering in my brain.
I think once you hit your 50's, anything under 35 is just not compatible... and to me, they still look like kids.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 8:15:50 AM EDT
[#18]
Yes
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 8:18:57 AM EDT
[#19]
Date seriously, probably not.   Have a few romps in the hay with, absolutely.  I'm 50 though, not 35.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 8:39:42 AM EDT
[#20]
If I weren't married? Sure, I guess but it wouldn't take long and she would be looking for a younger man when she found out she couldn't keep up with my libido. LOL
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 8:39:55 AM EDT
[#21]
I've always told myself if I wind up divorced - I'll casually date nothing but women in their 20's for the rest of my life.

But, realistically, I'm not discriminating enough to hold to that, I would probably hook up with divorced single moms in their 30's too, with no intentions of ever really dating them, just like I did back in my 20's.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 8:42:42 AM EDT
[#22]
Considering that I'm 35? ....no.


If I was 57 like OP? sure
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 8:52:06 AM EDT
[#23]
I started dating one 22 years younger than me in 2016, we're still together. Fact, she has most of her stuff together 100% more than any of the older women I dated. She's far more mature than her age, and I guess that means I'm far less mature than mine. It works.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 8:58:23 AM EDT
[#24]
Sure.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:05:04 AM EDT
[#25]
I often wonder what it's like when the guy is 70 and he can't get up anymore if their younger say 55 yo girlfriend cheats.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:10:00 AM EDT
[#26]
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Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:11:44 AM EDT
[#27]
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57 and 37?

There are plenty of reasons to avoid whatever sort of relationship with a given person, but I don't think that kind of age difference is one.
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Agree based on this situation.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:13:02 AM EDT
[#28]
She’d be 31, so yes.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:13:28 AM EDT
[#29]
No, because in my case most women that are 20 years younger are going through menopause and a man should never have to put up with that but once in life.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:13:52 AM EDT
[#30]
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Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:14:03 AM EDT
[#31]
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Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:14:11 AM EDT
[#32]
She knows what she is doing.

You may know what you're doing.

I doubt you are both doing it for the same reason.

I'd fo with it.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:14:55 AM EDT
[#33]
Definitely not, that would be very, very illegal
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:15:19 AM EDT
[#34]
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I've been working with top scientists around the world to develop a pill for just such occasions. I'm wrapping up the details now, thinking about coloring it blue. The potential revenue is astronomical.

I don't normally do this, but I have room for a few more select investors at $100k each. Message me your wire transfer info and we'll get you in on the ground floor.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:15:38 AM EDT
[#35]
Half your age, +7


A buddy that has been divorced 2.5 times now still hasn't learned that lesson.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:15:41 AM EDT
[#36]
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This. I was 46  
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:16:48 AM EDT
[#37]
legally speaking, yes.

realistically speaking, I really don't think I'd have anything in common with a 21yo.  The sex would be fun, but that's probably where it would end.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:18:02 AM EDT
[#38]
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Low 40's are just getting horned up from pre-menopause and the kids are in HS or college.  TC
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I've seen lots of early 40s ads on dating sites that say they're wanting to settle down and have kids, or simply have *some day* checked in the Kids box.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:18:25 AM EDT
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We have daughters in early 20's... so that isnt even capable of registering in my brain.
I think once you hit your 50's, anything under 35 is just not compatible... and to me, they still look like kids.
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Fuck that. Women in their early 20s are best for men of all ages.


We have daughters in early 20's... so that isnt even capable of registering in my brain.
I think once you hit your 50's, anything under 35 is just not compatible... and to me, they still look like kids.


A few years ago I had a fling with a woman that was younger than my son. It didn't occur to me initially but once it hit me I felt odd. It was a fun time while it lasted but I knew there was no future in it. There was a 31 year age difference but we got along really well, if she hadn't had kids still in middle school it might have been different.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:23:10 AM EDT
[#40]
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I am 42 dating a 21 yr old and works because we outdoorsy shit, ride my motorcycle and have a couple of other similar interests.  The stuff we don’t share we each do solo, it also helps that we both have the ability to communicate openly and honestly with one and another.  We have also know each other since she was 12 as her family were regulars at my buddies restaurant.  Meeting her parents ( they are divorced) was a lil awkward but once I pointed would they rather have their daughter dating a boy who will break her heart or a man who will shown respect and concern for her...  We have together nearly 7 months and all good so far.


Now my exwife, well she is pissed

My 14 yr old daughter loves it because she now has a shopping buddy and as a bonus I don’t have to take my daughter shopping anymore

Yes the sex is AMAZING
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Congrats!  This guy understands it.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:23:13 AM EDT
[#41]
Yes.  Hard yes.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:27:11 AM EDT
[#42]
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This....

If I ever found myself single, I don't know that I could go more than 10 years younger for a serious relationship. Hard to say and hopefully I never find out. We've already done most of the hard parts of life. I'm enjoying the now and hope she is, also.

OP, there's only one way to know. Where's the harm?
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:27:19 AM EDT
[#43]
Hell yes.

My wife will be pissed, though.
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:29:25 AM EDT
[#44]
i would go to prison and be on lists, so no
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:31:25 AM EDT
[#45]
She would be 11 so nope not right now

Ask me in another 10 years
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:31:45 AM EDT
[#46]
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87% of my dating is 20 years younger than me
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Of course it is...
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:31:59 AM EDT
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On the fence on this one... hot, horny, and I've known her since she was 17.
What are the chances I wake up missing a kidney?
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Yes I have and will continue to date women at least 20 years younger than me.

37 is too old though
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:32:38 AM EDT
[#48]
Hell no, I want a women with the same aches and pains I got.  
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:32:44 AM EDT
[#49]
I am 37......uh NO

Now would I date a 57 year old with money and kept it tight.....OH HELL YEAH!

GET IT GRANNY!!
Link Posted: 4/15/2021 9:34:53 AM EDT
[#50]
If she were 37 and I 57. I would not be here writing about it.  I would be getting my hair cut with attention paid to any hair on my ears and tune up my eye brows, and get some new clothes.
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