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Change "people" to "pets," and yer GTG.
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Pets don't lie.
When I'm meeting a new client and am determining whether or not I will work with them, I pay more attention to their pets than I do to them because their pets tell me about the kind of person they are.
As to the idea, I have discovered that when I feel I wasn't treated right, I had actually given them permission to treat me wrong by something that was already wrong with me.
And while I'm not totally certain this applies to every personal situation, I have been noticing that it applies the more I look at myself rather than getting angry at others. I found that anger has the power to fixate attention upon the object of anger rather than on me. The more I have been noticing the flaws in myself, the better others treat me.
The nearest Biblical parallel I know of is the parable of the log and the speck, however I did not come upon this idea from the Bible, but rather my own direct personal experience.