I have done a lot of reading only to come back with a maybe so, I thought someone could give me some past experience as an example.
I will try to keep my sad tale of woe brief and thank you in advance for taking the time to read.
Brother dies in Florida and I try to do the right thing for his family, friends, and state.
I take two weeks of time off to drive 1400 miles there and back to clean out his residence, pay bills, dispose of personal property, give him a proper service and burial, etc.
Rent a trailer to haul his motorcycle, a few parts and a few tools back with me. (He was a simple guy and really didn't have much of value including a bike with 200k on the odometer)
Hired a lawyer there to initiate probate.
His estranged daughter finally materializes.
She switches lawyers.
I ask for reimbursement and the title to the bike from her and the new lawyer (or she come come and get it). Total so far, $6k and growing $50 a month for the bike storage.
Tried to stay in contact with her and the lawyer over the last
two years + and she goes silent. (Yes, there was money left behind but, no will)
Lawyer finally sends a check for $1k to cover the burial. I ask what about the title? (I was prepared to walk away from the rest bills for this one sentimental item)
He says he contacted her and she will sign it over to me if I send her the title.
I do so with instructions of where to sign, Bill of sale, return with a Letter of administration, and use the prepaid postage envelope I provided.
After a month of back and forth of where is it, he continues to say "all I can do is ask her".
By now I have had enough and filed a claim against the estate that is still open asking for the $5000 (documented) and not contingent on the title.
He finally contacts me and says now HE has the signed title but, will not send it until I send him a signed release of claim.
Basically I am being strong armed for doing the right thing and asking for one small item worth zero in return.
I am prepared to stand my ground and walk away from the bike and the executor can make arrangements to pick it up.
Knowing all this, does anyone think I will recover a dime or should I cave, sign the release?