Quote History Originally Posted By DeputySC:
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn’t know him but I am not really familiar with anyone on here. I mainly like reading people’s funny opinions and comments in things.
But I am also a cop. Over the years I have lost several coworkers to suicide. When I was first hired at my department a guy that I considered my mentor shot himself in the head and I was the fresh young Deputy to found the body. He was also my school resource officer while in high school and helped out as a strength coach. A guy EVERYONE liked. I looked forward to working with him but that’s never going to happen.
The second guy parked behind our office. I walked to the parking lot and it looked like he was hunched over sleeping. What he actually just did was shot himself in the head/face while sitting in his patrol car. Not sure what pushed up.
Those were the two guys I really KNEW. Pulled up along side then during a crazy shift and made jokes about it. Guys I called for advise on things or played practical jokes on.
I’ve seen countless other civilian suicides.i will lie if I say it doesn’t bother me greatly. I typically get creepy haunted dreams about going to the same call but this time the dead person walks up and starts screaming at me or trying to harm me. And the dreams are vivid.
Honestly I have been down at times (relationship trouble) and felt that a 40cal round to the head woudnt be a bad pill to take. I can’t think of a better way I would want to go. But that’s some higher powers decision I guess.
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Same here. I was in LE for a while. It is different when it is someone you know. My brother shot himself in the chest first with a pistol. Lung shot. It didn’t do what he thought it would and you could tell he struggled to finish the job to the head. I had extremely vivid dreams nightly for about 2 years of walking in and him grasping ffor air choking. Wide eyed reaching for me. I would wake up amped up to level 12.
I had been around scenes like the one room he shot himself in. I knew what it would do to people like my Dad and Sister (who was a minor at the time) and wouldn’t even let them in the house. I did the clean up alone that night after they left with the body. Took me about 12 hrs IIRC. That was hard.
I have/had never been “triggered” if you will by any film until about two weeks after that happened. A couple family members were watching that stupid movie no pain no gain, and I was half watching and half reading. There is one scene where they cleaned up after a bloody death that just overwhelmed me. Silly as it may sound I had to get up and leave. I had seen dead people and had a guy die on me trying to free him from a wreck. None of that really bothered me, but what happened with my Brother...I walked into that room with him laying in there one man and walked out another.