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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:12:56 AM EDT
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I find that many women have NPD or some other personality disorder. The law in the US, favors the women, being leftover from the days when men worked and the took care of the house and the kids. Today women are too busy working at a job, which is one reason why there is a huge decline births.
I wish him well. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:13:01 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: fpni Would have, if they left out the ‘probably’. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:13:49 AM EDT
[#3]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She probably fucking someone else |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:16:19 AM EDT
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FPNI
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:16:58 AM EDT
[#5]
MGTOW thread.
When will men wake up? There is no going back this time; it'll get much worse and then the Lord Jesus Christ returns. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:17:13 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Women are like Monkeys, they dont let go of one branch without a firm grasp on another Especially if the later branch is about four inches longer than that former short dick sprig. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:17:32 AM EDT
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Why stay together if you hate each other?
Life is short find someone you like. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:20:29 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: MGTOW thread. When will men wake up? There is no going back this time; it'll get much worse and then the Lord Jesus Christ returns. Marriage rate is 6 per 1000. Men are starting to get it and women are freaking out. Look at social media. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:27:19 AM EDT
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She is screwing someone else. Same thing my ex wife did. Then comes the I love you but I am not in love with you anymore.
Tell your buddy to act like it doesn’t matter and move on with his life. Detach himself from her. Chasing her will just make her split that much quicker. Hire a PI like I did and get proof of the affair and eject. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:28:44 AM EDT
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Every time I've heard or seen a dude's wife because "I'm unhappy", either she was already cheating on him, went lesbo, or was just chronically unhappy with themselves.
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:30:40 AM EDT
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She probably has despised him for years and just doesn’t give a shit anymore. I get it and understand her feelings.
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:33:15 AM EDT
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I would bet one United States dollar that he gave her a waffle iron or a vacuum sweeper for Christmas.
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:36:23 AM EDT
[#13]
Here’s the answer, women are whores without worth
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:44:53 AM EDT
[#14]
OP's friend chose poorly.
MGTOWs will surely disagree with me, but the clues are there, you just have to know where to look. It's not all about BJs and sandwiches. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:46:53 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Women are like Monkeys, they dont let go of one branch without a firm grasp on another |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:54:35 AM EDT
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Sometimes it's like that with people.
My ex fiance (damn that was long ago) we're going strong or so I thought. I literally woke up the morning of her birthday and realized I just wasn't happy. It was hard because she was really really nice and good person but I had to get out. To this day I still have ZERO idea why. Just left her on her birthday. She then accused me of having a side piece and I really didn't. But I did end up getting married two years later. Sometimes human emotions he like that. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 1:55:23 AM EDT
[#17]
New squeeze has been pressuring her to leave but she probably said... "Not till after Christmas, for the kids..."
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:00:12 AM EDT
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Two Years ago tomorrow the neighbors dropped into a couple new years partys (last one at our house) and then went home and right after midnight he told her he's done...
We all thought that was strange and had no clue. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:02:04 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Two Years ago tomorrow the neighbors dropped into a couple new years partys (last one at our house) and then went home and right after midnight he told her he's done... We all thought that was strange and had no clue. Got tired of her shit sounds like.... 
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:07:03 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: She probably fucking someone else FPNI |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:07:45 AM EDT
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This reminds me of another thread where the in-laws wrote a nasty letter to son in law, wife and kids still go to Christmas at in laws. Marriage is strong and he won, not in laws
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:10:33 AM EDT
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For my 40th birthday I got told “I’m not happy, I want to sleep with random men I pick up in bars” , and “you are a good guy, you don’t deserve me sleeping around on you so I want a divorce”
this is 12 months after i changed careers taking a 25% pay cut, refinanced house, and car to shorter terms(based on 2 incomes). So buy your buddy a beer, see if he needs a crying shoulder, and help him shovel her shit into a dumpster . |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:10:48 AM EDT
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The "It's not you, I'm just unhappy" is a smokescreen. That gets said so you won't respond to the Spouse bailing by immediately hiring an Attack Lawyer for an At-Fault Divorce, rather than simply agreeing to a No-Fault so her lawyer can get down to the nitty gritty of how much of your money she'll take.
The second your Spouse tells you she's (or he's) ending it.....the next words out of your mouth need to be uttered over the phone to a lawyer. I'm not sure if it's like a gunfight, where the first person to clear leather has an advantage....but it can't hurt. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:13:16 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: This. She has an exit plan lined up. He needs to plan on being single. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: She probably fucking someone else This. She has an exit plan lined up. He needs to plan on being single. Yep, and her friends are coaching her every step of the way. It all starts with this one right here. Ready? Here it is: Friends (lol, "friends, who convince you to end your marriage because they're miserable coonts"): YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE HAPPYYYYYYYY!!! After that one it's only a matter of time. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:14:22 AM EDT
[#25]
100% there's another dude. Poor guy. Sucks but fuck her. Dump her and move on. Look at it as an opportunity.
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:16:12 AM EDT
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:18:11 AM EDT
[#27]
Brutal
Quote HistoryQuoted: In before the usual "he's a man so it's his fault regardless" crowd.  Attached File |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:18:57 AM EDT
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:19:05 AM EDT
[#29]
O boy. The regular "well, I'm not the only one" thread, right on time as I'm sitting here thinking about miserable crap.
As I have been told, they're never really yours, it's just your turn. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:19:56 AM EDT
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Women are incentivized to cheat by the US government. Plain and simple, a marriage will always fuck over the man, but we can't help ourselves.
<- happily married |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:22:33 AM EDT
[#31]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She probably fucking someone else Must be....... That was the "new friends" present. Wait till HE gets the NEW FRIENDS PRESENT in a few years good riddance. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:25:27 AM EDT
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My first wife told me she wanted a divorce a couple of weeks before Christmas. She wanted me to stay in the house until after Christmas for the kids. I kicked her out of bed that night and told her to sleep on the couch until I leave.
Fifteen years later I kicked my fiancé out of the house a couple of days before Christmas, because I was tired of her shit. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:29:26 AM EDT
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Quoted: Not sure I have the heart to say it, but when a woman nopes out of the relationship because she's unhappy, there's usually a side piece waiting to step in. Six months and she'll be with her new Prince charming. Did NOT fucking see it coming. But it worked out for me in the end.... Found and married me a MUCH better woman 
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:30:11 AM EDT
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If only he would of asked her if she needed help getting the house ready for Christmas, this wouldn't of happened!
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:33:41 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: She probably fucking someone else That first post thing again. ETA: tell your buddy to not take her back, when it doesn’t work out with the new rod. Typically takes a couple weeks to months. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:35:32 AM EDT
[#36]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She probably fucking someone else |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:44:57 AM EDT
[#37]
Sounds familiar.
Type O Negative had a song about this 30 years ago. “Unsuccessfully coping with the natural beauty of infidelity” Previously recorded as “I know you’re fucking someone else”  Unsuccessfully Coping with the Natural Beauty of Infidelity |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:45:13 AM EDT
[#38]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She probably fucking someone else |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:50:51 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: When a woman decides it’s over it’s usually a long process that she agonized over and once she finally reveals her decision nothing can be done This seems to be true, although I don't know how much "agonizing" some of them actually go through. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 2:58:51 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Human relationships are more complicated than designing nuclear weapons.  |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 3:12:12 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: She already had someone else to go to. My first left and reduced me to a blubbering drunk until I realized she was not coming back. I crawled out of the bottle and had the time of my life until I met #2, she settled me back down, kept me out of prison. Often refer to the first as my practice wife. Been with second for 30 years now. If she left, I would be sad, a little while, then on to whatever else I could find to get into. It does happen all the time, with men and women. #1 has been married 4 times, so I guess it was not me, nor do I care. Live on, our time here is too short to cry over. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 3:45:14 AM EDT
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Happened to me in 2000. Surprised with the standard "I'm not happy." I was upset but started preparing. Within a week, I caught her with new bf. It took some surveillance on my part. I used her desire to get a divorce as leverage, it saved me some money but I still paid plenty. There are signs, you just have to see things from a deceptive point of view. My ex convinced me 3 months earlier to use my 401k to pay off her new car and some debt, all stuff that she'd be stuck with. She'd been squirrelling away money for a couple months. I was better off in the end. 6 months after divorce she asked to come back, I said no.
The wifes cheating, she waited until she was sure of the other guy before she dropped the bombshell. There's no chance. You need to get 100% into survival, personal recovery mode. Detach feelings, get over it NOW. She's emotionally detached long ago. She'll look to leave you emotionally and financially destitute. Get a lawyer, a good one. Get a legal separation and hope for a smooth divorce. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 3:49:28 AM EDT
[#43]
Chad has already been laying the pipe in her tunnel.
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Posted: 12/31/2021 3:55:11 AM EDT
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Good chance she has a boy friend on the side. Maybe even sleeping with him.
Just sayin', it's possible. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 4:04:51 AM EDT
[#45]
Is it too late for him to get us xmas gift back?
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Posted: 12/31/2021 4:32:15 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Marriage rate is 6 per 1000. Men are starting to get it and women are freaking out. Look at social media. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: MGTOW thread. When will men wake up? There is no going back this time; it'll get much worse and then the Lord Jesus Christ returns. Marriage rate is 6 per 1000. Men are starting to get it and women are freaking out. Look at social media. I wonder what women will do to change the course. Some UTube personalities say women will merely join "harems" of alpha males. Generally said women would rather share a man with multiple women than settle for the lesser men. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 4:41:24 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: On the bright side this works both ways. Dude is getting a second chance to find someone younger and better. https://external-content.duckduckgo.com/iu/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fmedia4.giphy.com%2Fmedia%2Fl0ErFafpUCQTQFMSk%2Fgiphy.gif&f=1&nofb=1 Good market I would think. Enjoy. Life is too short. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 4:46:59 AM EDT
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Everyone always wants to say there were no warning signs. She hit me with it out of no where. I said the same thing when it happened. Once you get space and reflect back things start to pop up and it can make you feel real dumb for missing them.
I saw a therapist during my divorce because I was convinced there was something wrong with me. He was the first to tell me he has heard this story so many times before. He said to work out focus on myself and eventually I will find some one new (paraphrasing). He also said that she will realize her mistakes or get jealous and she will try to get back together. He was right about everything. I wish I would have listened because we got back together again. We lasted a year before I realized I had so much resentment towards her from the way she handled things. |
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Posted: 12/31/2021 4:50:54 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: FIFY Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Not sure I have the heart to say it, but when a woman nopes out of the relationship because she's unhappy, there's usually a side piece FIFY 
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Posted: 12/31/2021 4:57:34 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: When a woman decides it’s over it’s usually a long process that she agonized over and once she finally reveals her decision nothing can be done In my experience, yes. |
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