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Posted: 1/20/2021 7:06:42 PM EDT
Or is it second nature to you? Did you grow up addressing people that way? How do you feel when people address you that way?
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:07:09 PM EDT
[#1]
No Ma’am.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:10:26 PM EDT
[#2]
Sometimes it's Cur.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:10:31 PM EDT
[#3]
I use it all the time but then I was taught to be respectful, especially of my elders- at least until someone showed that they weren't deserving of that respect.  Yes, I find it disrespectful when kids don't; it generally accompanies their other overall poor behavior.  
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:11:12 PM EDT
[#4]
The last time I called anyone Sir was Aug 14, 2006, the day I retired from the CG.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:11:49 PM EDT
[#5]

It's so ingrained in me that I have trouble not saying it.
I say sir and ma'am even to kids.

So if you hear me just say yeah then know it was intentional because I don't think you are deserving of that respect.

Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:12:53 PM EDT
[#6]
I address people as sir daily.

It's just polite/respectful.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:13:37 PM EDT
[#7]
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It's so ingrained in me that I have trouble not saying it.
I say sir and ma'am even to kids.

So if you hear me just say yeah then know it was intentional because I don't think you are deserving of that respect.

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This
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:13:38 PM EDT
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I use it all the time but then I was taught to be respectful, especially of my elders- at least until someone showed that they weren't deserving of that respect.  Yes, I find it disrespectful when kids don't; it generally accompanies their other overall poor behavior.  
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This.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:14:16 PM EDT
[#9]
I say it pretty regularly, and get called it pretty regularly.  

Never spent a spell ponderin' it, I reckon.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:14:54 PM EDT
[#10]
I wasn't born here, I still have troubles saying hello.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:14:55 PM EDT
[#11]
IBTP Sir...
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:15:17 PM EDT
[#12]
I'm not military.
I didn't grow up doing it.
I always thought I'd be self conscious about it.
My co workers do it, I took to it like a fish to water.
It's pretty much my go to.
So much so I threw it out once when it should have been a ma'am.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:16:00 PM EDT
[#13]
Even in the military 15 years...so no
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:16:06 PM EDT
[#14]
I have a hard time with people that insist they do not be called sir or ma’am. I’ve been doing this since I could speak, it’s a nicety, just roll with it.

ETA not an age thing either. Say it to 5 year olds and 85 year olds just the same. Subordinates and people I report up through
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:16:44 PM EDT
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I say it pretty regularly, and get called it pretty regularly.  

Never spent a spell ponderin' it, I reckon.
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Not even a single ioda of time?..
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:17:18 PM EDT
[#16]
I'm old so they have to call me sir.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:17:23 PM EDT
[#17]
Grew up with sir and mam.  Called an inspector on a job sir a few years ago. He told me not to kiss his ass.  I asked him how old he was then I told him you're older than me that makes you a sir.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:18:14 PM EDT
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I have a hard time with people that insist they do not be called sir or ma'am. I've been doing this since I could speak, it's a nicety, just roll with it
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...
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:18:46 PM EDT
[#19]
No. I grew up that way.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:19:55 PM EDT
[#20]
Nope, I say it to both the young and old.  That’s the way I was taught. If I responded to someone it was, yes/no sir/ma’am. Not sure how I will teach my future children to address the other 87 genders.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:21:24 PM EDT
[#21]
I pretty much address everyone as sir/ma'am, just the way I was raised.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:21:26 PM EDT
[#22]
Zero problems.   It is my default - raised that way.  It is default until you prove your self unworthy of the respectful term...
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:21:36 PM EDT
[#23]
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IBTP Sir...
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Good idea. Poll up.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:24:55 PM EDT
[#24]
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I'm not military.
I didn't grow doing it.
I always thought I'd be self conscious about it.
My co workers do it, I took to it like a fish to water.
It's pretty much my go to.
So much so I threw it out once when it should have been a ma'am.
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I like this answer!
I once had to fight a sergeant over calling him sir. He replied I Work for a Living and I laughed... But we're good buddies now.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:25:14 PM EDT
[#25]
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I'm not military.
I didn't grow doing it.
I always thought I'd be self conscious about it.
My co workers do it, I took to it like a fish to water.
It's pretty much my go to.
So much so I threw it out once when it should have been a ma'am.
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I've done this a few times, embarrassed about it, but didn't try and walk it back, damage done.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:25:35 PM EDT
[#26]
Yes, unless they are being an asshole.

I rarely hear it used without heavy sarcasm.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:26:04 PM EDT
[#27]
The way I was raised you said yes sir, no ma'am, please, and thank you. If not, you would be picking yourself up off the deck. But that was back when the moral decay of society wasn't at the level of rot as it is now.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:31:39 PM EDT
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I've done this a few times, embarrassed about it, but didn't try and walk it back, damage done.
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I'm not military.
I didn't grow doing it.
I always thought I'd be self conscious about it.
My co workers do it, I took to it like a fish to water.
It's pretty much my go to.
So much so I threw it out once when it should have been a ma'am.

I've done this a few times, embarrassed about it, but didn't try and walk it back, damage done.

She could tell I was embarrassed.
I immediately apologized.
It worked out.

It was a big group meeting and she approached me from behind.

OTOH, when I was a kid, working the drive through, I called someone "Sir" on the speaker. The lady was not happy with me when she pulled up to the window.
She sounded like a "sir."
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:32:28 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:38:13 PM EDT
[#30]
I'm from N.Y. we don't do that shit....And I hate when people say it to me.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:43:49 PM EDT
[#31]
Now that I'm "older", it depends how much older they are and how much I respect them. When I was younger, everyone older was sir and maam.

I hate hate hate it when people call me sir, makes me feel old. Especially when people close to my age do it.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:57:13 PM EDT
[#32]
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 7:58:54 PM EDT
[#33]
I use miss, ma'am, or sir if I'm not using someone's first name. That's it.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:00:17 PM EDT
[#34]
Sirnofabitch
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:02:12 PM EDT
[#35]
I don't think I've ever called anyone Sir. When people address me as sir it seems weird.

Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:04:16 PM EDT
[#36]
I say it. I'm just polite like that.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:09:14 PM EDT
[#37]
Growing up in Los Angeles, no one was called Sir.

When I began to actually grow up I started using Sir and Ma'am/Miss for anyone that wasn't a close friend.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:11:36 PM EDT
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I say sir and ma'am even to kids.

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I do this too. I'd like to think it would help steer them into good manners.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:12:58 PM EDT
[#39]
I hate being called Sir. Makes me suspicious.  I would only ever say something like "Yessir" in jest.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:15:14 PM EDT
[#40]
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:16:48 PM EDT
[#41]
I was never in the military and Sir/Ma'am is not very popular in the northeast.  Fuck you, on the other hand is VERY popular.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:18:33 PM EDT
[#42]
LISTEN HERE BITCH!
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:18:47 PM EDT
[#43]
I say it to people at a certain level at work.

If anyone at work calls me Sir or Mr. Dunderway I tell them to use my first name.

I find myself using it less in public, and being called it more often as I've gotten older.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:18:53 PM EDT
[#44]
People earn respect.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:20:30 PM EDT
[#45]
Growing up in the south it’s hard not to say it and I’m almost 40.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:20:36 PM EDT
[#46]
Raised in the South. It’s what we do.

Having said that, we may also utter, “You, sir, may go and fuck yourself.” So there’s options with the word.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:20:45 PM EDT
[#47]
We say grace and we say ma'am, if you ain't into that I don't give a damn.
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:21:02 PM EDT
[#48]
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:22:06 PM EDT
[#49]
I ether use sir or hey asshole
Link Posted: 1/20/2021 8:22:18 PM EDT
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