Texted an individual off/on for the better part of two weeks, after an argument. No threats of any sort conveyed, which she admitted to at the hearing. Her having me banned from a dating app, I did contact her new employer of about a week via social media, from an anonymous account claiming "xyz" should be drug tested" to which I later admitted to her and her employer, and in court...never admit to anything in court
The day she sent me a message saying not to contact her, I had already stopped trying to do so(deleted any way for me to reach her) and 3 hours later she went and got an ex parte no contact order.
So I went to the hearing, tried finding a lawyer but figured there was no case or she wouldn't show. She shows, judge takes out a restraining order for 6 months.
I screwed up, but kind of feel this individual has abused the process a bit, and let me continue texting, instead of blocking my number, for her own amusement and to strip me temporarily of my gun rights.
I'm lining up lawyers now, after the fact, to see what I can do from here.
I'm over the individual, was really over her by the trial, and just want to move on.
More concerned about the long term consequences as my BS is in Criminal Justice and it seems this would disqualify for most MIL/LE jobs.