I have a fair bit of experience with Co2 lasers, both RF excited US made and DC excited Chinese made.
None with diode lasers, tho.
Honestly, for the money I don't think you have much to lose. Even if it's slow and completely unsuitable for any kind of business use, still probably worthwhile from a hobbyist perspective.
I would take the power ratings with a huge grain of salt, tho. Unless they're testing the literal power expressed in the laser beam applied to a meter, it don't mean shit.
Can confirm that lightburn is the way to go. I use Lightburn to control my chinese Co2 laser.
As for wavelengths... there's IR and then there's IR. Co2 lasers produce IR light at a wavelength that is suitable for glass, leather, wood, stone, rubber... and kinda sorta on some plastics. Fiber lasers produce a beam at an IR wavelength that is suitable for metals and more plastics. Oversimplified but there you go.
If you're looking at a diode laser that is advertised as IR, get the actual wavelength specs for it. For example, this JPT M7 fiber laser source (popular source for metal engraving lasers) emits 1064 nanometer light
https://en.jptoe.com/product/m7-20w-30w-mopa-fiber-lasers/
By comparison, your typical co2 lasers emit between 9.6 and 10.6 micrometers light aka 10,600 nanometers.
If you're shopping for a laser to do metals, be sure it emits light in the wavelength suitable for it.