Wow, looks like I missed an interesting exchange. In my jurisdiction we refer to the requirement as monotheistic. Also we do not "ask" anyone to be a member, but we can talk about Freemasonry and answer question that were are allowed to. If the profane cannot meet a simple requirement then maybe they should look to a moose lodge or Kiwanis for civic fulfilment. AF&AM, F&AM, and PHA will not drop the requirement that a petitioner must believe in God (your pick) as it is a fundamental of our work. Freemasons are steeped in tradition, empires have risen and fallen within Freemasons longevity. We are not going to change, for you. If a Person cannot meet our requirements, then Freemansonry is not the fraternity for that person.
Ps: if you find a Masonic lodge like the Grand Orient of France where atheists, & women are allowed then super for you. Just be advised, it has nothing to do with us, and is considered clandestine. You would never be recognized as a Freemason outside those doors. Whereas I can travel the world.
This was said, not to trifle with your feelings, but to impress upon you... Like the military, biker gangs and Freemasonry we are conformist organisations. Not the other way around. It then becomes simple, it either is or is not a fit for you.
Freemasonry is system morality, vailed in allegory, and illustrated by symbols. (I just wanted to throw that in for old time sakes)
Thank you for your time and attention, Aza