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Posted: 7/30/2020 4:00:48 PM EDT
[#1]
Yes.
And will. |
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Posted: 7/30/2020 4:23:51 PM EDT
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The judge granted attorney fees in my divorce. I just moved out of state and said good luck in collecting them. They will hunt you down for child support, but wont do anything for attorney fees.
That said if you have lost up to this point. Then you need to relax and let it ride for a while. Wait for the ex to screw up or the child to grow and chose you. Be a good dad until then. |
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Posted: 7/30/2020 4:32:51 PM EDT
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Did you appeal the judge's ruling? Being punitive as a hedge against you bringing future litigation may not be allowed in your state. You need to get the court transcripts from the hearing and verify the court reporter dictated what the judge said the way you think the judge said it. You'd be surprised as how inaccurate the record can be.
Consult with an appellate attorney your options. Their fee is going to between anywhere from $6,000-10,000 to draft and file an appeal, so if your court ordered attorney fees are less than that you lose money to appeal but you might win the moral victory. |
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Posted: 7/30/2020 4:55:24 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: That said if you have lost up to this point. Then you need to relax and let it ride for a while. Thanks, that's what I needed to hear. I can't do anything about it now. Just extremely upset that I'm losing more of what little I have left. |
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Posted: 7/30/2020 4:58:14 PM EDT
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Judges have unlimited power in their courtrooms.
Contempt of Court is a tool of tyranny. |
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Posted: 7/30/2020 4:59:37 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Judges have unlimited power in their courtrooms. Contempt of Court is a tool of tyranny. This. |
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Posted: 7/30/2020 4:59:54 PM EDT
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Congratulations on finalizing divorce proceedings. They are rarely enjoyable for anybody. Do your best to put it in your rearview mirror and move on with life. Pursue happiness and focus on the positive as much as possible.
Whether you continue to fight is a matter of cost. Is the financial and emotional cost worth it? Rarely is anything inexpensive when lawyers are involved. |
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Posted: 7/30/2020 5:19:15 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Did you appeal the judge's ruling? Being punitive as a hedge against you bringing future litigation may not be allowed in your state. You need to get the court transcripts from the hearing and verify the court reporter dictated what the judge said the way you think the judge said it. You'd be surprised as how inaccurate the record can be. Consult with an appellate attorney your options. Their fee is going to between anywhere from $6,000-10,000 to draft and file an appeal, so if your court ordered attorney fees are less than that you lose money to appeal but you might win the moral victory. |
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Posted: 7/30/2020 5:29:54 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Congratulations on finalizing divorce proceedings. They are rarely enjoyable for anybody. Do your best to put it in your rearview mirror and move on with life. Pursue happiness and focus on the positive as much as possible. Whether you continue to fight is a matter of cost. Is the financial and emotional cost worth it? Rarely is anything inexpensive when lawyers are involved. |
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Posted: 7/30/2020 7:13:32 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I have 4 kids with her so moving on isn't the easiest. We separated shortly after my youngest was born so I still have another 16 years to deal with this person. Congratulations!!! I have 11 more years. I see the light!!! |
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Posted: 7/30/2020 7:39:55 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Thanks, that's what I needed to hear. I can't do anything about it now. Just extremely upset that I'm losing more of what little I have left. You are just a victim of the belief that being a good provider and parent gave you a chance to begin with. You NEVER had a chance. It's built into the system at this point. |
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Posted: 7/30/2020 7:47:18 PM EDT
[#12]
yes
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Posted: 7/30/2020 8:13:36 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I have 4 kids with her so moving on isn't the easiest. We separated shortly after my youngest was born so I still have another 16 years to deal with this person. Since you have a high-conflict relationship with your ex I would strongly suggest using an app like Family Wizard for all communications, scheduling visitation/holiday time, etc. |
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Posted: 7/30/2020 11:33:43 PM EDT
[#14]
Misfire
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