So my girlfriend is out on a date...should I be worried? - Page 2

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Posted: 3/3/2006 3:31:33 AM EDT

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Sooo, your girlfriend went out on a date, got drunk, and ended up in a hot tub. You thought it was so cool that you not only posted about it, but arranged another date and oh look! This time YOU get to go.

Okay....got it.

It just sounds so much better coming from TheWind.

NO, no, no. You've misunderstood. I arrainged THIS date. It's all good, seriously. There's drama being created that isn't there. We're both totally cool with this. It's just the first time she's gone out alone, and she's called like 20 times tonight just to check in. It's all good, was just trying to throw out a lively topic. No drama, no jealousy, no using anyone. She's home now anyways, and she's actually kinda shocked at the reaction she's read so far. Wasn't trying to create a situation, was just throwing out a topic. Seems people are wanting to assume the worst of the situation and not accept that some people can handle this type of relationship. Nothing uncool about it at all. Live and let live. I was just tired of hitting refresh on Active Topics and seeing nothing new pop up. I'm watching the auction, so I needed something to keep me awake.

Posted: 3/3/2006 3:38:47 AM EDT

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The nest thread topic will be "Help! My girlfriend left me for her lesbian lover, what should I do?"

Seriously she is not your girlfriend. She is a friend who does kinky shit with you, enjoy it but don't think that you will have a lasting fullfilled relationship with her.

Posted: 3/3/2006 3:47:28 AM EDT

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The nest thread topic will be "Help! My girlfriend left me for her lesbian lover, what should I do?"

Seriously she is not your girlfriend. She is a friend who does kinky shit with you, enjoy it but don't think that you will have a lasting fullfilled relationship with her.

Nope, wrong again.

Mods, please lock this thread. I SOOOOOO regret starting it and it will never happen again. Too many people judging and saying too many untrue things about the way she and I feel about each other. She and I know what kind of relationship we have, and too many are judging us based upon their ideals, albeit I started it with a humorous, or so I thought, topic. WORRIED? C'mon, it was a joke. I say that, then in the post talk about being worried about her driving. C'MON PEOPLE!!! Lighten up. I'm not looking down on y'all for living a monogomous lifestyle, I've been there and done it and didn't like it. If y'all do, fine. BUT DAMN, this was intended as a light hearted thread, I didn't intend on people judging me/us and telling me how pathetic, poon whipped, used and abused I am. It was just an attempt to liven things up, I wasn't asking for a validation or damnation of my relationship. If you can't get a laugh, or make a good joke about it, then move on to another thread. Life is too short to get worked up over stupid sh*t.

Posted: 3/3/2006 3:51:37 AM EDT

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The nest thread topic will be "Help! My girlfriend left me for her lesbian lover, what should I do?"

Seriously she is not your girlfriend. She is a friend who does kinky shit with you, enjoy it but don't think that you will have a lasting fullfilled relationship with her.

Nope, wrong again.

Mods, please lock this thread. I SOOOOOO regret starting it and it will never happen again. Too many people judging and saying too many untrue things about the way she and I feel about each other. She and I know what kind of relationship we have, and too many are judging us based upon their ideals, albeit I started it with a humorous, or so I thought, topic. WORRIED? C'mon, it was a joke. I say that, then in the post talk about being worried about her driving. C'MON PEOPLE!!! Lighten up. I'm not looking down on y'all for living a monogomous lifestyle, I've been there and done it and didn't like it. If y'all do, fine. BUT DAMN, this was intended as a light hearted thread, I didn't intend on people judging me/us and telling me how pathetic, poon whipped, used and abused I am. It was just an attempt to liven things up, I wasn't asking for a validation or damnation of my relationship. If you can't get a laugh, or make a good joke about it, then move on to another thread. Life is too short to get worked up over stupid sh*t.

Well it worked...........I am not judging you, I am telling you from experience

arrangements like that hardly ever work out.

BTW this is arfcom YOU WILL BE JUDGED

Posted: 3/3/2006 3:53:35 AM EDT

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One man + one woman = relationship
One man + two women = kinky fun times, but not a relationship worth having.

Posted: 3/3/2006 3:56:01 AM EDT

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One man + one woman = relationship
One man + two women = kinky fun times, but not a relationship worth having.

+1

IBTL.

Posted: 3/3/2006 3:57:05 AM EDT

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One man + one woman = relationship
One man + two women = kinky fun times, but not a relationship worth having.

+1

IBTL.

That's a cheap IBTL!!! I asked for one! lol

Posted: 3/3/2006 3:58:25 AM EDT

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Somebody mention my name?

Posted: 3/3/2006 4:02:13 AM EDT

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Somebody mention my name?

Have reinforcements arrived?

Posted: 3/3/2006 4:04:44 AM EDT

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Reporting for duty, sir.

Posted: 3/3/2006 4:08:23 AM EDT

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It should be a "never the time" thing if you guys are planning on haveing an exclusive
relationship.

We do have an exclusive relationship. We love ONLY each other. Just because we don't toe the company line as to the "accepted" idea of what a relationship should be does not make it wrong. At least not for us. Just like gun control isn't the right approach for most on this board, a sexually restrictive relationship isn't the correct approach for us.

Posted: 3/3/2006 4:09:27 AM EDT

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It should be a "never the time" thing if you guys are planning on haveing an exclusive
relationship.

We do have an exclusive relationship. We love ONLY each other. Just because we don't toe the company line as to the "accepted" idea of what a relationship should be does not make it wrong. At least not for us. Just like gun control isn't the right approach for most on this board, a sexually restrictive relationship isn't the correct approach for us.

Posted: 3/3/2006 4:30:05 AM EDT

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Rakky how old are you?

Posted: 3/3/2006 4:31:59 AM EDT

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Rakky how old are you?

34, 35 in April. So no, not a young dumbass. Old one mabye, but not young.

Posted: 3/3/2006 4:33:33 AM EDT

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Rakky how old are you?

34, 35 in April. So no, not a young dumbass. Old one mabye, but not young.

Posted: 3/3/2006 4:36:53 AM EDT

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Rakky how old are you?

34, 35 in April. So no, not a young dumbass. Old one mabye, but not young.

BTW, I was impressed with how you handled the loss to Miami in that thread a while back. Not so sure I could've taken it that well.

Posted: 3/3/2006 4:39:17 AM EDT

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I had a cousin who did this, about a year later his WIFE left him for another woman, took all his money and he ended up fileing bankrupcy. He Lost everything for a short term double piece of ass. Not saying its not fun or nice, but be carefull. I witnessed first hand how situations like this can turn out. Fortunetly hes now doing well, new fiance, new job, new place to live.

Be carefull..

Posted: 3/3/2006 4:42:08 AM EDT

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Rakky how old are you?

34, 35 in April. So no, not a young dumbass. Old one mabye, but not young.

BTW, I was impressed with how you handled the loss to Miami in that thread a while back. Not so sure I could've taken it that well.

Thanks though that was tough but the loss to FSU was even harder to take.......FWIW Miami played like a top 5 team that night I don't know if any team could have beat them. Shit happens.....

Beamer is doing lots of house cleaning, firing one coach and bring in 3 new fresh faces. Vick was a huge distraction hopefully the '06 season the Hokies will get back to playing football like they did in '04

Posted: 3/3/2006 4:43:17 AM EDT

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I had a cousin who did this, about a year later his WIFE left him for another woman, took all his money and he ended up fileing bankrupcy. He Lost everything for a short term double piece of ass. Not saying its not fun or nice, but be carefull. I witnessed first hand how situations like this can turn out. Fortunetly hes now doing well, new fiance, new job, new place to live.

Be carefull..

Tried the marriage thing, took my vows seriously. My ex is the only person I will ever marry. I still consider her my wife, and she still thinks of me as her husband. That love and bond will never die. Won't do it again.

If things go downhill with this one, there are always others. But I will NEVER get married again, so I don't really feel like there is any financial risk. If this one goes south, oh well, DFW has one of the most active "lifestyle" scenes on the planet, there are plenty more to choose from.

Posted: 3/3/2006 4:45:54 AM EDT

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It's no big deal until she comes home with crabs crawling out of her mouth.

Posted: 3/3/2006 4:46:20 AM EDT

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Rakky how old are you?

34, 35 in April. So no, not a young dumbass. Old one mabye, but not young.

BTW, I was impressed with how you handled the loss to Miami in that thread a while back. Not so sure I could've taken it that well.
Thanks though that was tough but the loss to FSU was even harder to take.......FWIW Miami played like a top 5 team that night I don't know if any team could have beat them. Shit happens.....

Beamer is doing lots of house cleaning, firing one coach and bring in 3 new fresh faces. Vick was a huge distraction hopefully the '06 season the Hokies will get back to playing football like they did in '04

+ a million on Vick. Destractions, especially at the collegiate level, are a bad bad thing. Plus, his attitude and character are bad for the program in general. Best to be rid of him now then have him distract the team for another year. Kudos to Beamer for handling that like a man.

Posted: 3/3/2006 4:46:58 AM EDT

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It's no big deal until she comes home with crabs crawling out of her mouth.

But I LOVE seafood!!!!

Oh, those crabs.

ETA
It's still protein! So question, if the SHTF, is it good for your significant other to "obtain" the creatures?

Maybe I should start a thread in SF?