I'll jump in here, to hopefully tone down the rhetoric and return things to a more civil way of discussing things.
My service does not give me any extra points in terms of winning debates or having opinions, just as someone's lack of service does not disqualify anyone from expressing theirs..
However, I can say this:
In my current position and for the past several years, I have been able to witness the effects of deployments on the lives and financial well-being of reservists. Since 1986, in addition to serving on active duty, I have been a reservist from time to time. While serving as a reservist, I have also been: a college student, college teacher, employee, employer, business owner, home owner, renter, landlord, single, married, father, penniless and well off.
I have three Marines who are right now trying to get Hardship Discharges because of the impact being a reservist has on their ability to earn a living.
In all of their cases, SINCE JOINING, they have chosen a career that requires them to work on weekends. Trade Shows, Casinos, Catering, etc.. Not a wise choice of a career, if you have a pre-existing commitment to the Marine Corps.
ONE of these Marines can't pay his bills (many kids and a Mother inlaw). His I approved.
The other two are simply frustrated that they can't make the big bucks. So sad, too bad.
I've known Doctors who were deployed and took a hit. Smart guys, they should have realized the possibilty and prepared for it, OR don't take the money for school.
I've known Lawyers who were deployed and took a hit. Smart guys, they should have realized the possibilty and prepared for it, OR don't take the money for school.
I know Marines who built small businesses with employees. Roofing, Contracting, Garments, Cleaning services, Landscaping, etc.
For these guys it's a shame, because they were in throughout the 90's and never deployed. Their civilian careers did as careers often do; they grew and changed. For them, deployments hurt their businesses.
Good partners are hard to come by, and many of these businesses suffered. As did mine.
But then they/we all knew the possibility. Had we not been ready for it, we shouldn't have signed on the line. If things are tough, don't re-up.
Many of the committed reservists are tailoring their careers towards something that will allow for future deployments, without impacting on their lives more than necessary. That's the future of the reserves.
My current unit is WAY over T/O. We have more men than we need. We live in one of the most expensive areas of the country, too. (New Jersey).
We can deal with it. Others should suck it up, and deal with it too.
War is hell. What did they expect?
From the faded poster on my Recruiter's wall:
"We never promised you a Rose Garden..."