I don't think it's an issue of post count or "elitist" junk that people talk about. I have met a LOT of guys and they never hold any thoughts of "cliques" or "groupings" on the site, they are just GUYS. (And yes, I include GALS with my "guys" comment...)
The real issues usually stem from where things were posted and when. I also take responsiblity for the lack of responses lately because the site's speed becomes a factor in that.
Don't ever give up, I would welcome any and all comments via email and am willing to hear your complaints and see what we can do to fix them. I am not trying to sugarcoat anything, topic's attract attention, not names or frienships. I never look at the author of posts, but maybe that's just me...
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I hate seeing anyone leave... but I hate seeing the "well f' off" responses even more.