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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:33:18 PM EDT
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Lol. House rule; If I'm working, you're working. Ass sitting is greatly frowned upon. I won't suggest pulling the handle. Yet, push back calmly but firmly and challenge the thought process, and don't capitulate, or accept that you enable the behavior. Either you'll learn something of the dynamic you share or you'll learn something about yourself. It's as simple as that. |
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:33:26 PM EDT
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To be fair, if you can't follow simple instructions to pick up the right frikkin product, you might be either retarded or not give a shit.
Not saying I really care about soda, but some people do. |
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:35:05 PM EDT
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To be fair, if you can't follow simple instructions to pick up the right frikkin product, you might be either retarded or not give a shit. Not saying I really care about soda, but some people do. |
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:37:08 PM EDT
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I can see picking up tangerine over orange after a long day, shit happens. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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To be fair, if you can't follow simple instructions to pick up the right frikkin product, you might be either retarded or not give a shit. Not saying I really care about soda, but some people do. You learn to listen the first time you come back with Virginia Slims but not the 100s....you momma would make you cut your own switch. |
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:39:18 PM EDT
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Eject before she tells you to suck off her boyfriend.
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:39:22 PM EDT
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"...then bitched at me because i got god damn orange sparkling water instead of tangerine." "You should probably get those yourself, so there won't be any mistakes." "No" |
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:40:02 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Op obviously wasn't raised right. You learn to listen the first time you come back with Virginia Slims but not the 100s....you momma would make you cut your own switch. *Except for your mom of course. She probably picked up the habit at boarding school in Switzerland. |
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:41:22 PM EDT
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I was with you OP right up to the orange. You think she's some basic bitch?
20 lashes Heh, half the people that mentioned this got them mixed up from the OP even. 
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:43:30 PM EDT
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Question is, do you really think it is going to get better?
There is your answer. |
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:43:44 PM EDT
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Quoted: My MIL wont come over because she saw about three 5 gallons buckets of 223 brass and about stroked out lol 
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:46:23 PM EDT
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Oh. That simplifies things. When in doubt, there is no doubt. Go enjoy your life without her. You deserve it. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Kids? When in doubt, there is no doubt. Go enjoy your life without her. You deserve it. |
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:48:09 PM EDT
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Did she marry you or retain you as her Butler?
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:50:17 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Doing a few chores isnt being a bitch. I buy the groceries because she buys shitty gluten free and organic garbage. I buy food because i want to taste it. |
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:50:51 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I blame it on crossfit. She started doing that shit and is fully obsessed with it, and now thinks it constitutes "doing something" for the day. |
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:51:21 PM EDT
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CrossFit? How sure are you she’s not with someone in the side?
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:54:19 PM EDT
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Fuck that. No one should be the bitch of the relationship. Seems like that's what she's trying to make you be, and you're noticing.
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:55:36 PM EDT
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Tell me about it. When my wife goes shopping, she buys shit. Me, I buy the gourmet expensive stuff because when I eat it, I want to taste it. ETA oh shit is this a crossfit thread now? I'm out! |
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:57:44 PM EDT
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Ahhh. The never ending shit test game.  |
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Posted: 5/20/2018 11:58:12 PM EDT
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I was with you OP right up to the orange. You think she's some basic bitch? 20 lashes Heh, half the people that mentioned this got them mixed up from the OP even. |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:00:41 AM EDT
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My last GF was the same way. She'd bitch about the bathtub being dirty. I cleaned it the first few times, and usually always cleaned up around the house. The next time, she gave it a shot. She stopped halfway and said "I can't do it as well as you do", so I said, grab the brush and the Comet and I'll show you. Same deal, she gets down and scrubs, and says "See, it's not working". She was also horrible at cleaning bathrooms and the kitchen.
I said "Cool, if you don't want to do that, we'll split the $150/mo for a cleaning lady". Bitch eyes & tone come out "I'm not paying for that". I should have said "Well then keep scrubbing bitch". |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:01:44 AM EDT
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I'll be that guy - any chance she found herself a new "workout buddy" at Crossfit? That makes some women hate their husbands, and they get all shitty with them. |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:03:06 AM EDT
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Huh. Be a cold day in hell before I’d trouble myself with a man who’d put up with that kind of shit from me.
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:03:49 AM EDT
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Why didn't you go to the fair with her and her nephew?
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:05:52 AM EDT
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Shit tests, and you are failing spectacularly.
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:06:03 AM EDT
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My last GF was the same way. She'd bitch about the bathtub being dirty. I cleaned it the first few times, and usually always cleaned up around the house. The next time, she gave it a shot. She stopped halfway and said "I can't do it as well as you do", so I said, grab the brush and the Comet and I'll show you. Same deal, she gets down and scrubs, and says "See, it's not working". She was also horrible at cleaning bathrooms and the kitchen. I said "Cool, if you don't want to do that, we'll split the $150/mo for a cleaning lady". Bitch eyes & tone come out "I'm not paying for that". I should have said "Well then keep scrubbing bitch". |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:10:49 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Is this a thing? |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:13:22 AM EDT
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Yeah, I no longer participate in such games.
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:15:19 AM EDT
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I never ask my wife to do anything. She asks me to do shit all the time, often with complicate instructions or very specific details. Things that she really should do. I, of course, always mess up and then she gets mad at me. It is a test, and i constantly fail, which is clearly proof i dont listen to her or care about her 
I started making her do whatever she was asking me to do. Since then she has reduced the amount of things she asks me to do, but still sometimes she asks me to do something while she sits on ass watching tv. I tell her to get off her ass and do it herself since she is so particular. Sometimes though, she sneaks one in and i end up doing something she tells me to do because there is a plausible chance of her asking me because it really is logistically easier. For example, picking up her exact brand, flavor, and specific can size sparkling water bullshit on my way home from work. Like today. I did all the yard work, cleaned kitchen, vaccuumed, and bought groceries. I had time in between to do my shit. I finished up a pocket knife i was making, i welded a metal frame together for a new heat treating oven, and i processed a dozen sets of bone for knife handles. Pretty god damn productive day. She went to a fair with her nephew, then came home and sat on ass, then bitched at me because i got god damn orange sparkling water instead of tangerine. Tl;dr never marry a girl from a rich family |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:15:41 AM EDT
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Why didn't you go to the fair with her and her nephew? |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:16:38 AM EDT
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Shit tests, and you are failing spectacularly. |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:20:55 AM EDT
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I noticed that too. I may show my wife this thread. Half the people cant remember immediately after reading the OP, it is effectively random. After a few days i will forget which it is, i have so much shit to do at work and home with everything going on, and house always needs some attending, orange vs tangerine is pretty fucking far down the list of things that i have on my mind. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I was with you OP right up to the orange. You think she's some basic bitch? 20 lashes Heh, half the people that mentioned this got them mixed up from the OP even. |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:23:26 AM EDT
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My friend's sister bawled out her husband because she told him to buy a specific food product. Why that specific product? Because it is good (I concur with her taste). He goes to the store, finds something cheaper and buys that instead. He's very proud about saving money and goes home to shows it to her.
 She gave him an azzchewing  and sent him like a whipped dog back to the store to return what he bought and to buy the right item this time.
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:27:08 AM EDT
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If I gave you hell over orange soda, it’d be because I want it a little rough and I’m giving you a pretext to spank my ass. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I never ask my wife to do anything. She asks me to do shit all the time, often with complicate instructions or very specific details. Things that she really should do. I, of course, always mess up and then she gets mad at me. It is a test, and i constantly fail, which is clearly proof i dont listen to her or care about her
I started making her do whatever she was asking me to do. Since then she has reduced the amount of things she asks me to do, but still sometimes she asks me to do something while she sits on ass watching tv. I tell her to get off her ass and do it herself since she is so particular. Sometimes though, she sneaks one in and i end up doing something she tells me to do because there is a plausible chance of her asking me because it really is logistically easier. For example, picking up her exact brand, flavor, and specific can size sparkling water bullshit on my way home from work. Like today. I did all the yard work, cleaned kitchen, vaccuumed, and bought groceries. I had time in between to do my shit. I finished up a pocket knife i was making, i welded a metal frame together for a new heat treating oven, and i processed a dozen sets of bone for knife handles. Pretty god damn productive day. She went to a fair with her nephew, then came home and sat on ass, then bitched at me because i got god damn orange sparkling water instead of tangerine. Tl;dr never marry a girl from a rich family |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:29:24 AM EDT
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Tell me about it. When my wife goes shopping, she buys shit. Me, I buy the gourmet expensive stuff because when I eat it, I want to taste it. Quote HistoryQuoted:
Quoted: Doing a few chores isnt being a bitch. I buy the groceries because she buys shitty gluten free and organic garbage. I buy food because i want to taste it. 
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:31:58 AM EDT
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Bad idea. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I was with you OP right up to the orange. You think she's some basic bitch? 20 lashes Heh, half the people that mentioned this got them mixed up from the OP even. |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:36:59 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Is this a thing? |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:39:03 AM EDT
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:42:44 AM EDT
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The only thing female related I have to tell is that A 22 year old sent me nude pics today. I want to thank the OP for reinforcing my decision to be a life long bachelor.
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:42:58 AM EDT
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my wife does the same thing except she doesnt speak english all that well and NEVER gives any detail on what she wants done. and if I say no she needs to pick whats for her birthday dinner or any choices there will be a 3 day long fight.
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:43:37 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: If I gave you hell over orange soda, it'd be because I want it a little rough and I'm giving you a pretext to spank my ass. |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:44:04 AM EDT
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Any real man knows a relationship isn't about keeping score. I have no problem cooking, cleaning, doing laundry and grocery shopping.... The way I see it is my warden never asked or expected me to change a diaper when my kids were young, I never was expected to get up in the middle of night to feed the kids. Her job was tending to the kids and my was providing for the family.
If I didn't have kids I'd still participate in the day to day running of the house, my kids are grown and gone know and still do my far share and then some. BTW the last thing you want the warden to do is hold you hostage by relying on her to do everything. |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:53:13 AM EDT
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The only thing female related I have to tell is that A 22 year old sent me nude pics today. I want to thank the OP for reinforcing my decision to be a life long bachelor. |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:53:39 AM EDT
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I couldn’t be with a man who used Comet. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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My last GF was the same way. She'd bitch about the bathtub being dirty. I cleaned it the first few times, and usually always cleaned up around the house. The next time, she gave it a shot. She stopped halfway and said "I can't do it as well as you do", so I said, grab the brush and the Comet and I'll show you. Same deal, she gets down and scrubs, and says "See, it's not working". She was also horrible at cleaning bathrooms and the kitchen. I said "Cool, if you don't want to do that, we'll split the $150/mo for a cleaning lady". Bitch eyes & tone come out "I'm not paying for that". I should have said "Well then keep scrubbing bitch".
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:54:35 AM EDT
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The only thing female related I have to tell is that A 22 year old sent me nude pics today. I want to thank the OP for reinforcing my decision to be a life long bachelor.
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Posted: 5/21/2018 12:59:18 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Hence why i am asking for solutions. Making her do shit helped a lot but she still sneaks them in and i dont always see it coming. She will walk away confused about what just happened. |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 1:12:12 AM EDT
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You need to sit her down and explain all of this to her.
THEN start telling her no. If you just start telling her no out of the blue she's going to get shitty on you and think you're just being an asshole. If you tell her no with the points you made during your talk backing you up she might get pissed off but deep down she will understand. If that doesn't work then you have a serious problem on your hands. |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 1:13:33 AM EDT
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Sometimes I'm a prick to my wife. I dont do it on purpose, just the stuff I say comes out wrong. I almost always apologize. Sometimes she asks me to do things that clearly don't need done. Sometimes I do them anyway, sometimes not.
i do catch her making up stuff for the kids to do, fabricated so they can be "doing something". It pisses them off, and rightly so I think, but I try to always take her side in kid arguments as moral support. Later I tell her if I found it over the line. I told her I thought it better if she made a list of expectations for them and went over it with them - a chores list so to speak. Then it's clearly communicated as an expectation and we stick to it. i guess what I'm trying to say is this: marriage ain't all bunnies and butterflies. I don't know if what OP is bitching about is a couple of one-off incidents, or these "shit tests" that others referenced. Does the wife even recognize what she's doing? OP referenced her as a "rich girl" earlier. Maybe she really has no idea? if OP has talked to her about this purse swinging and it still continues, then it's an entirely different situation. |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 1:15:18 AM EDT
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You need to sit her down and explain all of this to her. THEN start telling her no. If you just start telling her no out of the blue she's going to get shitty on you and think you're just being an asshole. If you tell her no with the points you made during your talk backing you up she might get pissed off but deep down she will understand. If that doesn't work then you have a serious problem on your hands. |
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Posted: 5/21/2018 1:23:44 AM EDT
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I'm not married so my opinion means shit all, but fuck that noise.
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Posted: 5/21/2018 1:24:35 AM EDT
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I never ask my wife to do anything. She asks me to do shit all the time, often with complicate instructions or very specific details. Things that she really should do. I, of course, always mess up and then she gets mad at me. It is a test, and i constantly fail, which is clearly proof i dont listen to her or care about her
I started making her do whatever she was asking me to do. Since then she has reduced the amount of things she asks me to do, but still sometimes she asks me to do something while she sits on ass watching tv. I tell her to get off her ass and do it herself since she is so particular. Sometimes though, she sneaks one in and i end up doing something she tells me to do because there is a plausible chance of her asking me because it really is logistically easier. For example, picking up her exact brand, flavor, and specific can size sparkling water bullshit on my way home from work. Like today. I did all the yard work, cleaned kitchen, vaccuumed, and bought groceries. I had time in between to do my shit. I finished up a pocket knife i was making, i welded a metal frame together for a new heat treating oven, and i processed a dozen sets of bone for knife handles. Pretty god damn productive day. She went to a fair with her nephew, then came home and sat on ass, then bitched at me because i got god damn orange sparkling water instead of tangerine. Tl;dr never marry a girl from a rich family In 20 years you will be furniture. |
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