Update:
Got back a while ago but just got around to posting. My observations:
-Had to pay six bucks for parking; this wasn't mentioned on invitations or by word of mouth so many guests were pissed about this.
-No open bar. The 'bar' was improvised by the catering company and consisted of three types of wine and a couple cases of Labatt Blue. Bartender expected tips for handing people a beer bottle or pouring wine from a bottle.
-There were no water glasses or drinks served with dinner. I found this very odd. The only non-alcoholic drink available was hawaiian punch.
-The ceremony was more traditional than I expected. Both fathers walked the brides down the aisle, they were both wearing white dresses, there was a bridal party but no groomsmen, they were married by a woman wearing a robe and stole and calling herself an Elder, and there was prayer so it was some type of Christian ceremony, there was an exchange of vows and rings, and then the Elder announced them married and did not announce "you may kiss the bride".
-The food was not bad; stuffed chicken, pork tenderloin, some vegetable stuff, pasta dish. Just wish I had something to drink
-Cake did not have two brides as a topper
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-The "DJ" was an iPod hooked up to someone's surround sound system. There was no dancing or dance floor.
-My girlfriend was fairly pissed because there was no receiving line and the brides and families did not circulate amongst the guests and thank people for coming. She felt like there was little show of appreciation for the people who came out to offer them support.
All in all, it was nice and not as weird as I expected. It just appeared hasty (which supposedly it was not), not well planned out, and not very elegant. I have been to classier weddings and I have been to tackier weddings, but certainly more of the former.
On a side note, this is the first time my new LCP rode in the front pocket of a pair of dress pants to a social function. It performed admirably in a Destantis nemesis holster. It did not shift, bulge, print, or drag at my pants. This gun/holster combo is a winner.