My step father, who I have known since I was 5 (I am 37 now) was a River Rat. 3 Tours. One bullet wound. in 32 years I have NEVER heard him utter more than 2 words about his duty there. "Bad, Son".
Upon returning from VN, he came into San Diego and started the Seal course. Finished and turned down the job. I asked why once, "I saw enough death, I just wanted to see if I could do it".
This man has been in Grenada, Cosovo, and god knows what else. I heard a few stories of Grenada, mostly about a medal he won after pulling a fellow out of a burning tent. Having to blow up a stuck dozer, etc. Never any firefight stories other than "yeah, we had a few".
I remember when he retired , I think it was while stationed on the USS Barnstable County. The Skipper walked in and tripped over the table while looking at his medals, Skip, then PROUDLY stood and saluted this man as if he were the CIC! I didnt understand it til later in lfe.
He retired as a CWO4, with god knows how many medals, awards and such respect aboard any ship he was on , so much as I was given the same treatment as royalty when i was a kid ( I miss dependants cruises). I never saw an XO or CO that didn't damn near kiss his ass.
This man is about as quite as a mouse, rarely gets excited, and to this day has NEVER gone to a range to shoot with me. I stopped asking years ago. Although it would be nice.
Funny, my Mom was also in the Navy, My brother was in the Marines. I couldn't get past MEPS, on MED, for hearing, even with a waiver. I'd still be in if they would have let me. The closest I have gotton is working BRAC, and numerous contracts of really cool deals. Like helping out in prepping the Nimitz for re-fuel. Closing down White Oak (anyone Know this place?). Now I just haul a lot of gubment goodies and help out during hurricanes for FEMA. Worked on most bases in the NOB area and for the Jarheads in Cherry Point.
ANY Marine or Navy SpecOps has always gotton my 100% respect. Well most anyhow.
And to this day, if I hear ANYONE bad mouth a troop I start fighting, be it verbal or other.
OK-- bable over
OH, forgot to add when a few buddies were in the 82nd, I was introduced to a few GB's, beards and long hair, got noting out of them other than training was hell gettin in and We dont play like the rest of these Grunts. They do however have a really cool facility on Bragg. OH, and DONT EVER try to stop in front of it, it is not a happy ending, M16's and 60's pointed at you makes you wish you had a pair of depends