It's your gun/hand/eyes if it goes wrong so don't blame any of us if it gets bad. But based on the known info, I'd concur, 3.6 is probably not likely to kill you.
Ideally you use QuickLoad to find another powder that produces the same velocity at the same charge weight with all the know data (eg the 115 grain load). That does NOT mean you can substitute that powders load data, it just gives you something to guess with when you substitute your bullet/load data and find somewhere around say 28kpsi estimate to start with.
Next, read this write up first, pay attention to using primers for pressure guessing. http://www.natoreloading.com/9mmmajor/ (you are not trying to load to 9mm major, I just mean look at how he looks at pressure signs)
The other fairly reasonable gauge of pressure is velocity. Use a chronograph and stop a bit short of where the 115 load data says.
If I was doing what you are planning, I'd do all three of the above.
Or the total redneck method (I am not recommending this), load to 3.6 blindly, wear welding gloves, a thick jacket, and a face shield for the first shot, and if somehow 3.6 isn't enough to lock back the slide on an empty mag, work up .1 grain at a time till it is. If it's already enough to lock back the slide and the brass and primers look OK, stop there.
YMMV good luck