You do need to follow recipies. Exact hull, primer, wad, powder. Take a little time and compare some loads with nothing but one component changed and look what it does to pressure. Spend some time looking at hodgdons site, pick a hull and look at the data. Something like Universal Clays will have data for multiple wads and primers and will show pressures. SAAMI pressure for .410 is 12,500psi. Good idea to stay below that as a reloader, maybe 11,500 psi for a load, that gives some wiggle room if you have drop to drop powder variations, or your crimp is too deep, or your shot drop isn't accurate.
A 1oz slug isn't the same thing as 1oz of shot. The shot column can constrict going through the forcing cone and the choke while a slug can't. Different internal ballistics entirely.
You don't get pressure signs with a shotgun like you do with metallic. The weak link is the chamber or barrel, not the primer or case.
It isn't difficult, but you do have to play by the rules.
One problem you'll have, especially now, is trying to find components for the load you want. Do not go buy what you can and then try to find a load for it. Find a load, then go find components.
.410 can be especially tricky because it is very sensitive to stack height. You have to have it right or it won't crimp well. There is very little forgiveness in .410 loading. The best hull by a large margin is .410 AAHS winchester hull, a distant second would be Rem STS. Most of the other hulls are load once and throw them away, you'll get a lot of failures where the hull separates from the base even on the first load.
For .410, 1/2oz target loads, try to find h110/w296 powder or lil' gun. AAHS hulls, and I prefer the Rem rxp wad. I use a primer you're not supposed to use for .410, so I'll tell you to use Remington 209 primers or Win 209 and leave it at that.