I've actually undertaken the transition to pistol with RDS as well.
After doing my research I concluded that ZEV was a good way to go for the slide. Since their merger with Mega Arms they have one of the most impressive shops in my opinions in the firearms industry, they've been in business for some time and have a good reputation. It follows that they therefore have some good tooling and an experienced work force and that's critical. Also, I will say that it helped that I heard from Lucas Botkin of T.Rex Arms that he was a fan of the ZEV slides and had heard good things about them from Trijicon sales reps. Apparently the ZEV slides are known for having a very low slide cut that makes picking up the dot easier when presenting the pistol correctly.
The lead times are what they are right now. After about two weeks from when I ordered ZEV sent me an email telling me that my order would take about an additional four weeks to ship, which is fine since that is within their advertised lead times for the slide right now on their website and I knew that going in. Still, I was pleased to see that they have such efficient customer service that THEY email their customers to update them on the progress of their purchase's shipment.
From what I understand the best way to transition to a red dot is to master your presentation of the pistol. The more consistent one draws and presents the pistol the more likely you'll have the RMR's dot in your line of sight, or so the reasoning of some people far more experienced than I am goes. That's a great thing too, because it means with a lot of dry fire practice I can improve myself, which is good during this ammunition shortage.
Honestly, for my first pistol RDS I had considered the Trijicon SRO as a good entry into the red dot world. However, unfortunately the Safariland holsters that I like do not accept the SRO without modification and I'm hesitant to modify something that has to work (would suck if I couldn't draw the pistol free from the retention system). I was less concerned about the durability than the holster issue. I looked at the Aimpoint and wasn't very happy with its battery life. I looked at the Holosuns, but from what I understand they are manufactured in China and I don't trust anything made in China enough to depend upon it no matter how good the reputation. So, I'm not a big fan of the RMR's open emitter or the need to to have to take it off to change the battery and rezero, but life is often a series of trade offs.
From what I understand the RMR screws require a T10 Torx bit and I'm using a torque driver to screw it down when I get it at approximately 10 inch pounds with blue locktite applied. The zeroing is going to be a process. I have Ameriglo Suppressor height sights coming that are blacked out, they are strictly back-up sights and I didn't see any reason to clutter my sight picture with any fiber post or night sight. I'm going to be installing those sights myself and I'll need to sight those in and bring my universal sight pusher tool to the range. Frank Proctor recommends 25 yard zero for irons and says that you should be shooting a 2 to 3 inch group at that distance, of course, resting the pistol on a stable surface. Then I'll have to go back home and install the RMR, clean the screws in acetone let them dry, apply locktite and torque to the spec then allowing the locktite to cure overnight before going back to the range to zero. For the red dot I've heard everyone recommend something different, some say zero for 10, some say 15, some say go out to 25. I think I'm going to start at 10 and go to 15 for the red dot and then try for 25, it should be a process.
I'm curious what others here have to say about zero distance. From what I understand there isn't that big a variance between 10, 15, and 25 yard zero distances. I'm also waiting for a new barrel and that could take me until mid March unfortunately, so it might be awhile before I can zero anyways so I'm doing my research in the meantime before I make a firm decision.
The other issue of concern for me is ammunition. If I zero it then I want to zero it for a specific type of ammunition. If I zero it with expensive Federal HST or other defensive ammo then it will be off when I'm using range ammo and presumably that should make a difference that could lead to issues. I don't want to train and get used to my POA and POI with one ammo and then have something different for defense. To that end, I'm considering going with 124 grain NATO pressure FMJ ammo for the zeroing and using that for defensive loads as well. Not ideal, but I may at some point get a second ZEV slide and RMR then zero that for practice and zero the other ZEV RMR slide for defensive loads.
To me accuracy is king. I spend probably a lot more time on accuracy work than I do on anything else, because I think it's the area of pistol use that requires the most skill. Pistol draw, presentation, and manipulation are in my mind a bit easier to do especially since you can dry fire practice those things a lot more than you can actually firing that is necessary to improve accuracy. I am going with the RMR with the 3.25 MOA as a start, but I hope to be able to in a year or so go to the 1 MOA dot. However, I didn't want to go down to the 1 MOA for my first go. I feel like the 3.25 MOA for me is a good starter dot size.
Sorry, random thoughts spilled out in an incredibly too long post, but I wanted to share my thoughts and open them up to critique.