My faves are the Hornady RapidSafe variants.
They use an RFID tag for opening. No fumbling around with button presses while adrenaline is flooding your half-asleep brain awakened by a noise. Just place the RFID tag/bracelet over/on the pad and it pops open.
There are pistol versions (which are NOT big enough to hold a pistol with attached suppressor), and an AR version, which fits great under a standard bedframe, and can hold a fullsize AR (or suppressed SBR).
The safes come with several tags and a bracelet.
For non-suppressed EDC pistols, the easiest/safest way to use one is as such:
- put an RFID tag in your wallet. Keep the RFID bracelet in the safe when the gun isn't in it.
- bedtime, use wallet RFID to open safe, put bracelet on wrist, pistol in safe. Wallet with RFID tag somewhere little ones can't get to it (or put wallet RFID tag in the safe with the pistol). If there's a bump-in-the-night, slap wrist with bracelet on safe, it pops open, and you're ready to go
- when you wake up and it's time to remove the EDC pistol, remove pistol, take bracelet off wrist and pop it in the safe and close it.
- extra RFID tags go in standard gun safe
This way, there's no chance of anyone else getting their hands on one of the RFID tags, which might allow them to open the safe, and you won't misplace the RFID tags/bracelet.
Multiple safes can be programmed to use the same RFID tags, so you could have both a nightstand handgun safe, as well as a closet or under bed AR safe that open with the same RFID tags. You can also get (and program) additional tags/bracelets for your SO to also be able to access the safes.
Safes can also be opened with a button code or a key (keep the keys in the regular safe).
P.S.
With little ones around, I wouldn't recommend the 'RFID sticker on the back of the phone' bit. Little ones like playing with phones and iPads. Too much risk they might grab that and inadvertently put it on the safe, opening it.