And a followup to some comments.
1) I didn't grease up the thread, I did use anti-seize
2) I was totally spacing and thinking the shims went between the barrel and receiver extension, which is obviously wrong. I think part of this is due to all the barrel mounting discussions where people are using shims, and I was thinking wrong about those shims.
3) On an ironice side note, I purchased another Strike Industries Gridlok rail, in 15" length.
This is because the JP Enterprises thermal dissipator I got for another build won't fit inside the STNGR VLCN handguard I am using. 1.375" needed, 1.35" in the STNGR.
So I ordered the main body of the Gridlok (I still need the pieces which are often colored, because I want FDE and its not instock), 1.6" ID of clearance
The GrikLok handguard arrived with ....... THE OLD STYLE BARREL NUT.
What I am thinking of doing, is when I order the FDE Gridlok parts from Strike, I'll get another barrel nut and remount the handguard.