The 9mm is really nice to shoot with a heavy buffer.
I made up a heavy buffer with the following:
(1) Ebay H3 buffer, this was a bit of an accident from a different project, but when they arrived I found they were steel bodies with steel weights.
(3) tungsten weights, used to replace the steel weights in the before mentioned buffer.
Ended up with about an 8oz buffer for $30, which was good enough and I didn't want to spend $100 on a heavy buffer from some of the online vendors.
I've had one of these buffers in my kick around Spikes SBR lower for several years now with no issues, and up until recently when I made a dedicated lower for my DOE, I was switching back and forth between my 9mm DOE upper with magwell insert and a suppressed 10.5" 5.56 upper.
As a point of reference, I do not run a spacer in my buffer tube and have not had any issues.
I did end up needing a 9mm mag catch, the regular one wouldn't hold the mag enough.