I use the Magpul MOE stock on my .500 Phantom with the .8" recoil pad and do not find the recoil to be all that bad. I also use the same stocks on the .338 Federal, .308, and .260. The .470 Rhino has a wooden stock with the Pachmyer Decelorator recoil pad on it and it does an excellent job of reducing recoil but I don't see how you could fit the Decelorator or the Limbsaver to the Lancer stock and have it look worth a damn.
Since you like the looks of CF, you could have the Magpul MOE Hydro-dipped. I have two A2 stocks Hydro-dipped in CF, one in black, and one in OD green, and you'd really have to look close to realize they are just paint jobs.
This is an old picture of the .338 Federal (before switching to the Magpul MOE) and while the lines of the carbon fiber do something to muck up the picture on the screen, the forend is CF and in real life the two look almost identical. The entire butt stock in actuality looks like it does right up next to the receiver, not out on the butt plate area.
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