The beat up coating on the bolt catch is normal, for something coated like that, the bolt hammers into the catch and will scrape off any coating in that area.
The hammer is making that chatter on your carrier, but I have never seen it so bad... but this is Aluminim which is a very poor choice for a carrier, because it is soft, and does not hold up well to abuse. See where the damage to the carrier stops near the front? That's exactly where the top of the hammer stops during fully rearward movement.
Lots of complaints on this chatter happening on Aluminum carriers, if you search. You can likely limit this by rounding and polishing the top of your hammer
It looks like you had a pretty significant burr on your hammer at some point..... but "chatter" like this is common on Aluminum carriers.
I have had fancy triggers that I had to stone the top before, because they would drag too heavily on the carrier. I have also had carriers out of spec, and sit slightly too low, which caused excessive drag.
The bolt catch *should* spring down (away from the carrier), and would not cause that damage on the recessed part, where you have the most damage. An out of spec catch height can cause some damage, but you'd see it near the very front of the carrier, where you have the least wear.
Here are other pics from a very experienced 3gunner who also saw similar results from Aluminum carriers: