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10/1/2007 9:23:30 AM EDT
My brother has been fighting cancer for five years and isn't in good shape today. He was put in the hospital Sat night with low blood pressure and a high fever. His Dr. had him put on a ventilator this morning until they can figure out what's wrong. He believes strongly in the power of prayer and knows that it's the prayers of family and friends that have allowed him to fight this long. When he was first diagnosed, he told told that he had a less than 10% chance of surviving for one year. That was five years ago and he's still fighting.

If you don't mind please keep him in your thoughts and prayers.

Thank you,

Adam


PS.  Since it started he has always ended his e-mail updates to family and friends with a stupid joke, so here's one for him.



 Potential & Reality  

 A kid comes home from school with a writing assignment. He asks his father for help. "Dad, can you tell me the difference between potential and reality?"
His father looks up, thoughtfully, and then says, "I'll demonstrate. Go ask your mother if she would sleep with Robert Redford for a million dollars. Then go ask your sister if she would sleep with Brad Pitt for a million dollars. Then come back and tell me what you've learned."

The kid is puzzled, but decides to ask his mother. "Mom, if someone gave you a million dollars, would you sleep with Robert Redford?"

"Don't tell your father, but, yes, I would."

He then goes to his sister's room. "Sis, if someone gave you a million dollars, would you sleep with Brad Pitt?"

She replies, "Omigod! Definitely!"

The kid goes back to his father. "Dad, I think I've figured it out. Potentially, we are sitting on two million bucks, but in reality, we are living with two sluts."
10/1/2007 9:39:48 AM EDT
[#1]
I'll pray for your brother.
10/1/2007 9:46:48 AM EDT
[#2]
Prayers sent.

I liked the joke too.  IMHO a good sense of humor goes a long way.
10/1/2007 10:15:55 AM EDT
[#3]
Prayers inbound.

10/1/2007 10:17:31 AM EDT
[#4]
I'll pray for him, I like the joke, its pretty good.
10/1/2007 10:17:59 AM EDT
[#5]
Prayers sent.

Mark
10/1/2007 10:42:22 AM EDT
[#6]
Prayers sent.
10/1/2007 12:23:08 PM EDT
[#7]
May God have mercy on him and your family.  May He love and comfort your brother and your family.  May He grant you the wisdom and strength to accept His will.
10/1/2007 2:35:19 PM EDT
[#8]
Thank you for your thoughts and prayers everyone. It means a lot to me and my family. To give an update, we still don’t know what’s wrong with him. The bad news is that the Drs are still don’t know for sure what’s going on. We are waiting on the most recent round of blood cultures to grow, the most recent set of chest x-rays to be examined, and for the Dr to do a bronchoscope (sp?) to why he can’t breathe on his own. The good news is that while low, his blood pressure has stabilized and it doesn’t to be pneumonia (which he has been prone to getting since removing ¾ of his left lung to get to a tumor 3 years ago) or ARDS (acute respiratory distress syndrome, which almost killed him last fall and had him on a ventilator for 3 months, 2 of which he was in a medically induced coma). We are waiting patiently for more test results, but his Dr says that he is stabilized for now. I’ll post more when I find out.

Thanks again,

Adam
10/1/2007 2:58:53 PM EDT
[#9]
Prayers sent.





Good joke.


Chris
10/1/2007 3:50:43 PM EDT
[#10]
One more on the way.
I like the joke too.
Hang tough Adam.

ARH

10/1/2007 4:07:35 PM EDT
[#11]
prayers sent.
10/1/2007 4:08:57 PM EDT
[#12]
I just received anther update from Memphis. My brother is stabile. His breathing difficulties are being caused by an accumulation of blood in his lungs, possibly a side effect of new chemo. He's involved in FDA trials of a new chemo drug that hasn't been tried in adults with his type of cancer yet. His Dr says that the condition is easier to treat than the ARDS that he fought last year. They are going to give him blood, additional platlets and broad spectrum antibiotics. They are going to keep him sedated for a few more days, until they can start trying to take him off the ventilator. They say they he's is still very sick and weak, but stabile. He will hopefully be out of the hospital in a week or so if all goes well.

Thanks again,
Adam
10/1/2007 4:21:29 PM EDT
[#13]
prayer sent
10/1/2007 5:15:08 PM EDT
[#14]
prayers are in to the big guy
10/1/2007 5:19:09 PM EDT
[#15]
prayers sent
Tell him to hang tough and keep scratchin
my mother just finished chemo for the second time in 3 years. that's what i've told her every day!!
tom
10/1/2007 5:23:58 PM EDT
[#16]

Quoted:
When he was first diagnosed, he told told that he had a less than 10% chance of surviving for one year. That was five years ago and he's still fighting.


prayer changes alot of things.  my father was told he had less than 6 months to live from his cancer too.  that was in 1990.  I will pray for him, and for you and the rest of his family.  my father said alot of times that he thought it was harder on us than it was on him.
10/2/2007 6:09:19 PM EDT
[#17]
I just got a call from my mother. He has gone critical again. The respirator is at 100% and they can only get his blood oxygen level to 83%. If he shown no improvement in 12 hours, I'll be heading to Memohis in the morning.
10/2/2007 6:36:00 PM EDT
[#18]
I'm heading to Memhis first thing in the AM. My brothers Rabbi is on the way to give him the equivilent of last rights.
10/2/2007 6:43:05 PM EDT
[#19]
Prayer sent
10/3/2007 9:17:56 AM EDT
[#20]
Prayers sent!!
10/3/2007 9:36:31 AM EDT
[#21]
Prayers sent. May He help you through these times.


I liked the joke.
10/3/2007 5:25:24 PM EDT
[#22]
Sent!!!
10/3/2007 7:09:20 PM EDT
[#23]
One more on the way.

ARH

10/3/2007 7:28:06 PM EDT
[#24]
prayers sent.
10/4/2007 8:39:47 AM EDT
[#25]
Thank you for your thoughts and prayers in this difficult time. Richie passed away last night, surrounded by his family who loved him, remembering the good times.

Adam
10/4/2007 8:58:51 AM EDT
[#26]


So very, very sorry to hear of his passing.  He is in a better place and you'll again see him.  My prayers are now for the loved ones he leaves behind.

Mark
10/4/2007 9:17:38 AM EDT
[#27]
My heart goes out to you and your family.

I am a cancer survivor.......this hits close to home for me....

Prayers sent again!!!!
10/4/2007 9:46:50 AM EDT
[#28]


I am sorry to hear that Adam.
More prayers for you and your family.

ARH

10/4/2007 10:03:15 AM EDT
[#29]
Adam, I am sorry to hear about the passing of your brother.  Like Book said, he is in a better place where his cancer can never follow.  Times are going to be tough.  Believe me, I know.  My father passed away almost 3 months ago, and not a day goes by that my heart doesn't hurt.  When I eat with my mom, or sit in his chair, or drive by certain places I can't help but tear up.  Being around family eases the pain, but only time will ever make it go away.  Remember the good times, and don't be afraid to get emotional.  My sincerest thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
10/4/2007 10:56:34 AM EDT
[#30]
I am very sorry to hear about your brother passing. Nothing i can say will make the pain go away, but he most certainly is no longer suffering. My prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time.