Posted: 11/3/2008 6:03:45 PM EDT
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Take a good long look at the results of the latest US Census report.
You'll find that there are way more women than there are men. The only reason to be stuck on one woman is if you're married. I was stuck on one woman (my ex) for several years after we physically split up...but it was only a symbiotic relationship for financial reasons...primarily for her benefit. My ex and I lived in different homes in different parts of the state and rarely saw each other only in passing. We stayed "married" on paper for a couple of years  because she desperately needed my medical insurance coverage to pay for several back & neck surgeries...long post-op hospital stays and extensive physical therapy.
She also needed money to live on (that she would've otherwise paid in child support) and I really didn't need the money. To this day I still don't know why I helped her so much after she walked-out on us like she did. To the OP...if you're talking about a girlfriend...life is way too short to stay caught in a toxic relationship where your g/f has lost all emotional interest in you. Being stuck on one woman (for whatever reason, emotional or otherwise) after the emotional interest has somehow faded away really is an awful way to live...I know from experience. donne3 nailed it. Even if you're married... if she is willing to say that, it is high time you let her go. |
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Does she feel anything?
I ask, not to encourage you to pursue a hopeless situation with her, but so you might look into the possibility of depression. Of course, she might be trying to move on with someone else and sending not so subtle language. Some people carry numb spots on their hearts to avoid more pain, see? It doesn't make her statement right. It doesn't mean she's sane. It doesn't mean you should stay with her. Just look closely at HER, not your ego as it relates to her, not how she makes YOU feel. None of the above bodes well for the relationship by the way. |