Posted: 9/25/2006 11:05:47 AM EDT
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I am interested in a divorced woman who was married for 7 years to a guy who was unfaithful, which ended their marriage. I have been corresponding with her for about 2 months now and since we are members of the same church, if things progress along the same lines they are now then there will be a marriage in our future. Here is the question...since I am in good shape but "average" (5'9" 160) and her ex was a big guy (6'4" or 6'5"), will intimate relations be somewhat less than thrilling (for her) based on "big" v.s. "average"?  P.S. I understand that there are different dynamics involved...love, communication, interest, attention, tecnique, foreplay, attending to specific needs, etc - and I am also making assumptions re. her ex based on height. Thanks in advance 
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Big in height doesn't necessarily translate to big in the shorts, if you catch my drift. If the love is there, the body's will respond. Don't be intimidated. Besides, if the ex was ALL THAT, she'd still be with him, right? I'm sure you'll be fine, don't sell yourself "short". And 5'9 isn't short, btw. You're taller than Tom Cruise, right! lol. |
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They key to being a great lover is being a great listener, a great toucher [appropriate stroking, caressing etc], a great kisser, a good lover [willing to take the time and dedication]. Just as it doesn't take a vagina for a man to have an orgasm, nor does it take a penis for a woman. What it does take is mutual love and respect and appreciation. This above all others is far more important than size. |
What Daisy said! +10 inches! D'oh!  FTR? I married a man who is 5'8" and find that most of the men I "check out" (I'm married, not DEAD, people  ) are usually between 5'7" to 6' in height. |
What they said. Besides, women want a MAN, not a PENIS. We look at the total package. You'll be FINE! (Besides, anyone with a Guaraná avatar HAS to be good!) |
THANKS MM!!  I burst out laughing when I read your response - I needed that. |
Beijos, meu bem. Você ê demais! |
Obrigado pelas palavras gentiis - e Parabens (atrasado  ) pelo seu casamento!  Muitas felicidades e anos de ternura para voce e o seu amado.  Eu acho que estou amando...mas so o tempo vai dizer o que vai dar. Beijos e aquele abraco, |
  Good answer Swingset, I guess I set myself up for that. |
Seriously, don't ever sweat the physical stuff. If she's with you, she's into you - and don't ever question why. Just enjoy it. If it's a contest, you win. You got her, the ex lost, and you are holding the proof. Women are odd about physicality anyway. Ask a woman what their ideal "type" is, and she'll say "Oh, 6' tall, blonde, piercing blue eyes". Then ask who they married. "Short, dark hair, brown eyes". They're crazy, them wonderful ladies. Crazy I tell ya. |
You're the best...and as usual, right. If it makes you feel at all better, the average male is just under 6 inches erect. (medical fact). Don't compare yourself to a guy 6'5 it doesn't mean his size was realative to his "size". When you consider most females have a G spot about 3 inches in and straight up you really don't need a bat to hit that button
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It is not just us...My hubby likes busty blondes. I am not busty nor blonde.  So I make sure all my friends are busty and blonde just to torture him. 
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 So true! My husband likes small, cute, redheads... at least I have the hair...
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HEY! I resemble that remark!!!!
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How 'you do'in