Posted: 3/3/2006 5:42:28 AM EDT
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Does your Spouse,GF or BF who is not into guns,know how to use them or knows what to do if they are loaded,etc....? Some of my Guy friends,who's wives don't like guns won't learn how to clear one or even learn to use a gun in self defense. This troubles me,because they are willing to be a victim if something does happen. I think that if you have a gun in your home. That it should be taught to everyone old enough to do so what to do if there is a loaded gun just laying around or how to use one if some stupid person decides to break into your home. Why be a victim,why put yourself in that situation when you can defend yourself? This is troubling to me,and maybe some of you can shed some light on this subject for me. Sincerely, Mona |
| I agree with you that everyone in the household that can should know about the gun for safety. I've never shot a gun and only recently have been around them. I'm not against guns, just haven't been around and I've lived in NYC and Long Island my whole life. I am looking forward to learning about guns more hands on but if it was in the house, yes definitely, as well as anyone else who would be around it. ht |
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I agree with you, Mona. We have friends that don't care for guns, but they have one in case of emergency. Their wives don't want anything to do with the gun, which amazes me. They won't hold it in their hands, learn to be proficient with it....nothing. I gave up trying to convince them that they don't want to be a victim, but I got tired of hearing 'Well, my husband will take care of it.' Um, HELLO?!?! Is he stuck to your side 24/7? Learn not to be a victim! 
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Before I met hubby.... I never even SAW a gun up close let alone held one to shoot. They scared me to death... FAST FORWARD... Someone tried breaking in to the house while I was home alone with the little one.. My only defense..... The Butcher knife from the kitchen and my 145 pound Rottweiller that I let Loose out the back door.. She chased them down the alley and I lost her for a good 15 minutes before she came trotting back all proud.. (they never got in) Next day... hubby has my at a friends shooting a hand gun for the first time... Takes me to lessons in propper handling and safety.. We buy our FIRST hand gun... 5 year later.. I have MULTIPLE birthday and christmas presents.. some I have not even touched yet!! LOL!!! But today... I would not be without em.... Even our 8 year old knows propper handling.... Some may turn their noses up at that fact but.... In 5 years when he is hanging out with friends he is not going to be: "hey check this out".. and wind up on the news for shooting his friend.. Like I tell my husband.. My first line of defense in the house... My Rottie!! Let him loose and he will give me enough time to get locked and loaded... |
| Some of the things we are taught when we were younger are difficult to shake. I used to be intimidated by firearms, mainly because when I was growing up we were not allowed to touch my Dad's guns. Besides the fact that they were dangerous, they were for the boys. My dad would not even have considered teaching me to use a gun. |
he was probably afraid his lil girl was going to out shoot him. Of all my years shooting, I took two differnt g/f's out shooting....both on thier first times, after getting familar with the rifle, were hitting things just as consistant as me, and at time further, which made me glad I'm on thier good side 
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There are so many people out there that have guns in the home. And these people need to take action and teach everyone in the household how to handle a firearm. It really makes me think on what I could do about that. When TBS and I first got together. I wasn't too thrilled about shooting or even owning a gun. But the neighborhood we lived in when we first moved here to Birmingham was bad. I was stubborn and everything. i wouldn't let him teach me anything. But now,I'm glad that he pushed me to learn and how to clear a gun if it's loaded in the house. Gun Safety plays a big part with me. Hopefully i can reach out to people in some way. so they'll know the importance of guns in the house,etc..... Thank you all,as I see that I'm not the only one who feels this strongly about this topic. Mona |
| I was talking to a friend of mine a few days ago about protecting herself. She is scared of her own shadow but is determined to be a victim. I suggested a firearm, "no, I'd just shoot myself". Well at least get some pepper spray or something "No, I wouldn't be able to find it it if I needed it" I was getting frustrated so I just gave up. I'll work on her again later. |
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My wife and I are both proficient with firearms. 20 year old daughter - crack shot with my Colt .45, thinking about a career in Law Enforcement 18 year old daughter - can't stand firearms, but understands how to handle them safely - load and unload etc. 16 year old daughter - prefers bows & arrows and knives, but can handle firearms safely and accurately - considering a career in the CIA or the FBI 13 year old son - has his own firearms (.22 rifle and a 20 gauge)and is a decent shot (popcans at 25 yards). 7 year old son - has his own firearm (.410/.22 combo) and is a decent shot. |