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6/17/2008 5:10:57 PM EDT
Would you want your wife working in the company as you?  

My wife is looking for a new job and there are openings in the company I work for in different divisions and possibly different locations.

What say you?


Here are the factors I could come up with, please add more.
Upside:
Carpooling
Decent Pay
Good Benefits

Downside:
All eggs in one basket


6/17/2008 5:15:23 PM EDT
[#1]
you allow her to exit the kitchen?
6/17/2008 5:15:59 PM EDT
[#2]

Quoted:
you allow her to exit the kitchen?


This.  
6/17/2008 5:16:50 PM EDT
[#3]
It works out okay if you never have contact with her during the work day.  If she's going to be working along side you... not so much.
6/17/2008 5:19:15 PM EDT
[#4]
You'll go to work together
You'll take breaks together
Have lunch everyday with her
She's knows your co-workers, hard to call in sick with wifey in tow.
Then the ride home.



You will be with her 24hrs a day. Gets old fast, you won't have any " me " time. Also becareful what you say or the jokes you tell, they will get back to her.


Meh
6/17/2008 5:20:02 PM EDT
[#5]

Quoted:
It works out okay if you never have contact with her during the work day.  If she's going to be working along side you... not so much.


Agreed. Nothing like having her pissed at you in the morning, and you get to deal with it at work all damn day and then on the way home and then at home all night and....
6/17/2008 5:21:42 PM EDT
[#6]
No way would I want both of our incomes dependent upon the same company.
6/17/2008 5:24:16 PM EDT
[#7]

Quoted:
No way would I want both of our incomes dependent upon the same company.


Yeah, that is kind of where I am but this company is soooo big that literally when one division is laying off there are two or three hiring.  I don't think job security is MAJOR factor but it is a factor.
6/17/2008 5:27:14 PM EDT
[#8]

Quoted:
You'll go to work together Possibly but that is good
You'll take breaks together White collar job, no breaks.
Have lunch everyday with her Possibly but not likely
She's knows your co-workers, hard to call in sick with wifey in tow.I don't call off.
Then the ride home. Possibly but that is good



You will be with her 24hrs a day. Gets old fast, you won't have any " me " time. Also becareful what you say or the jokes you tell, they will get back to her.


Meh


I met her where I use to work, different departments but believe me I know how the those kinds of politics could work.
6/17/2008 5:28:17 PM EDT
[#9]
so are you around her all day?

or complete opposite side of the building?  
6/17/2008 5:29:48 PM EDT
[#10]
Nope...I wrench for living....Wife drives a 60 foot articulated bus.
6/17/2008 5:31:23 PM EDT
[#11]
I would not want to work with my wife day in and day out.  We would get sick of each other.
6/17/2008 6:05:35 PM EDT
[#12]
My wife and I worked for the same company.  I had a heart attack, and they fired BOTH of us.  I would not recommend it.
6/17/2008 6:07:49 PM EDT
[#13]
I wouldn't do it.  Fuck no.  I love my wife, that's why I wouldn't do it.  I'm not made to spend (or made felt like I spend) 24 hours a day every day with another person.  
6/17/2008 6:10:57 PM EDT
[#14]

Quoted:

Quoted:
You'll go to work together Possibly but that is good
You'll take breaks together White collar job, no breaks.
Have lunch everyday with her Possibly but not likely
She's knows your co-workers, hard to call in sick with wifey in tow.I don't call off.
Then the ride home. Possibly but that is good



You will be with her 24hrs a day. Gets old fast, you won't have any " me " time. Also becareful what you say or the jokes you tell, they will get back to her.


Meh


I met her where I use to work, different departments but believe me I know how the those kinds of politics could work.



Just trying to point out maybe some Cons. But the Pro side is saving money on gas to and from. If it more of a casual office work place not a blue collar work place then should be fine.
6/17/2008 6:11:28 PM EDT
[#15]

Quoted:
so are you around her all day?

or complete opposite side of the building?  


It would be a different area of a massive building or even a different building, not sure.

We could not be in the same line of business.

There are several married couples working there in different areas and divisions.
6/17/2008 6:12:56 PM EDT
[#16]
i can only imagine the nooners at the restroom

nothing wrong with it, different depts...no biggie

you work for chase?
6/17/2008 6:13:06 PM EDT
[#17]
Don't get your bread and your meat at the same place.
j/k
6/17/2008 6:16:49 PM EDT
[#18]
Hard to say.... Completely unrelated divisions of an extremely large company is probably do-able.

The 'all your eggs in one basket' argument is a valid one, but it sounds like it's not really a huge worry for you.

I'd also be concerned if one of you made an enemy of some sort in management who then decided to get rid of both of you.


I like being in a somewhat related field as my husband so that I have an understanding of what and who he deals with at work.  But I'd never want to work at the same company as him.  The hours wouldn't be conducive to raising a family well while keeping a marriage healthy....
6/17/2008 6:19:21 PM EDT
[#19]
Lunch time Nooners in the fast food restrooms for the WIN!!!


If its a big company, then don't worry about it. If its small to medium sized then no, "all eggs in one basekt" type deal.
6/17/2008 6:20:17 PM EDT
[#20]
Hell no.
6/17/2008 6:21:00 PM EDT
[#21]

From personal experience I wouldn't do it again unless I had no choice.  
6/17/2008 6:26:54 PM EDT
[#22]
We liked it just fine, same company, same dept.

The only downside was comparing our Cocorans, I always got that "Why can't she get her boots to your standard" look from the NCOIC...

I was just OCD on boots, and she was decidedly... not.
6/17/2008 7:00:36 PM EDT
[#23]
If it's a very large company and you two are in two separate divisions, it may be workable.  However, if that large company takes a hit, both may be in trouble.  Sometimes its better for the "other" to work elsewhere that offers employment benefits that the other workplace doesn't give.  For instance, lifetime health care after retirement or free college for the kids.  Think about the value of either of those two benefits.
6/17/2008 7:03:20 PM EDT
[#24]
If it was a big enough company and a different department then I wouldn't care but not on the same team or in close proximity.  Nothing personal but it would get old and maybe even competitive (not good).
6/17/2008 7:05:41 PM EDT
[#25]

Quoted:
i can only imagine the nooners at the restroom

nothing wrong with it, different depts...no biggie

you work for chase?


Sort of, I work for JP Morgan Asset Management.  Chase is a different division.
6/17/2008 7:11:21 PM EDT
[#26]
My wife and I have worked at the same company on three different occasions, including our current company.  Never in the same group, and never in a situation where one reports to the other either directly indirectly.

Some folks adjust; some I would not recommend it to.  Usually it's a break for the company as they get two workers for the cost of one health plan.

6/17/2008 7:15:03 PM EDT
[#27]
My wife and I met at and still work at the same place together.

We both work for the Postal Service.  She's a Priority Mail Clerk and I'm an Electronics Technician.  

Upsides:
We carpool as we are only scheduled 1/2 hour apart and have Sat-Sun off.
We get to go everywhere we want to go together.
We only have to pay one insurance.
We get to sleep together every night.
(We get along great...she's my best friend)

Downsides:
If I get held over on overtime after work unexpectedly, she's gotta wait or come back for me.
If she gets pissed at me, I have to deal with it all night and all day.
I'd better not walk near her work area without stopping by.
If we both call out sick...because we are, supervisors get suspicious.

I would not recommend it but it can be made to work if you're both willing.
6/17/2008 7:16:23 PM EDT
[#28]
I worked with my wife.  She's now my ex-wife.

I can't say it's the cause, but man it sure as hell didn't help.