[ARCHIVED THREAD] - Dating a stripper? (Page 1 of 4)
Posted: 11/13/2007 11:57:07 AM EDT
| What do you guys think about this? |
| Why, do you have the opportunity? Fuck it, go for it. Broads are fucked in the head already, no matter their occupation. Most any woman you find will be up on some other dude at some point in your relationship anyway, so fuck it, you know it's going to go down; just enjoy the cash she brings home. Not to mention, she may even want to bring some of her co-workers over for a little b-day surprise for you, or a casual "put it in my friends hole while she goes down on me" encounter. |
|
Buddy of mine married a stripper...smart..12 years younger...a monster in the sack...He bought her a nice house..fake tits....had a kid..travelled everywhere etc, she quit stripping ..they started a photography side business where they took photos of models/dancers.....life seemed good. Until last year ...she quit watching the kid...started stripping again..started banging the club owner..gave up custody the kid (and another kid from a previous marriage) and apparently has started whoring for dope money.. On a lighter note my buddy dropped 30 lbs in 2 months on the "My life is fawked" diet plan  |
BTDT and +1. As long as you keep in mind that they are already fucked in the head (just by being female) and 99% of the time are even moreso, roll on it. Like most relationships, it will end in disaster anyway, so why not? |
|
My buddy ran a couple of Valet co.'s for various strip-joint and he said he was offered free stripper-pie many times. He always stayed clear of it as he said that they were ALL completely bat-shit crazy with severely fucked up childhood and current lives. No "sane" (I use that term VERY loosely) woman becomes a stripper cos it's a "good job". Either Daddy touched her as a kid or something else brain-fucked her at an early stage. Not to mention the shit that could go down if some sicko-pervert with a crush on a stripper you were "dating" saw you with her. YMMV but I wouldn't date a stripper if you paid me. Back in the day I may have banged one ( double bagged) if offered the chance, but it never happened and it's probably a good thing. The whole "having to wash your genital with peroxide after getting home" requirement wouldn't be worth it. |
man...I left the door wide open on that one didn't I?  Now I'm gonna have to go get some TRG repellent while explaining what I really meant was they are a bunch of psycho hose beasts who are out to just steal all your mojo, ruin you, suck the life force from your very being and drain you financially....... |
|
BTDT 1. don't think of her as a stripper. think of her as a woman, and evaluate her behavior (good and bad) on the same scale as any other woman. 2. be aware of the common issues associated with strippers (intimacy issues, codependency, poor impulse control, etc.), but don't automatically assume that they are the motivation for her behavior. this kind of thinking becomes self-fulfilling prophecy. 3. if you have to tell yourself that you can "deal with her job", you can't. 4. it's a tough balance to find, but you have to find the line between not getting manipulated and accepting her for who she is. if you don't have a rock-solid sense of who you are, you're going to run into difficulty. 5. never listen to the advice of someone who hasn't dated and been friends with multiple strippers. 80% of the advice you're going to get is from guys who would kill to date a stripper, but can't. in addition, a lot of guys have hooked up with one or two, and make judgements about the profession without an adequate sample size. most of their opinions are worthless. 6. finally, make up your own mind. posting the question is ok, but constantly soliciting advice is a sign that you're too into what other people think of your prize. once again, you have to know who you are. she isn't a stripper. she's a woman. it's worth finding out if she's the right one for you. |