[ARCHIVED THREAD] - thanks (Page 1 of 3)
Posted: 12/14/2006 3:26:01 PM EDT
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That whole animal chemical thing is weird when you inject human intelligence into the formula. I had my best buddies gf kiss me right in front of him the first time we met, as we were both really into reading (though she was ridiculously attractive) and we really bonded, having a love for alot of the same books. The kiss was a weird, we were really attracted to each other kiss, though after that neither of us, nor my best bud, ever discussed th spontaneous kiss, and I think both of us knew we respected my friends rights to her first, if that makes any sense. |
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Relationships are built on trust. If she keeps things from you and you have to find out on your own or through interrogation than she isn't being open with you. So, if she isn't open with you about things how can you trust her? You'll always now question things about her, because she has a history of keeping things from you. The breakdown will soon follow and you'll turn into a jealous green monster who is paranoid. Do you want to turn into an ugly shell of a person or retain who you are and end it? Breaking up a three year relationship can be pretty tough and take some time to do, but if you don't you'll risk a downward slide that will bring you to a place you never really wanted to be. There other women out there and you wont die alone an old hermit. |
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If the trust is gone, you better move on. Don't try and hang on for another year or two, you best get the hell out now. I just gave up on a 7 year relationship with my old lady...same thing, I couldn't trust her anymore and haven't trusted her for the last couple years. I just wish I had done it 2 years ago, instead of trying to make it work for the last 2 years which have been hell and a waste of time. |
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It depends on where the kiss was delivered. I know several women who are good friends. They are also very married and very faithful. That doesn't stop either of them from hugging me and giving me a friend's kiss (on the cheek) when they see me. And they've both done this with their husbands present, and nobody even twitched. It's really no big deal if it wasn't a tonsil sucker of a kiss and was meant only in friendship. CJ |
