Posted: 5/11/2006 9:00:44 PM EDT
|
i thought my days of man-whoring were over. i chased every chick who looked at me for the last 10 years, with much success. then a girl i went to high school with but havent seen in 5 years since graduation came back into my life... we hit it off great, she had all the qualities i wanted... done with college, good job, smart, never been on drugs, doesnt smoke, can take her out with my buddies without her causing drama and issues... AWESOME body, super cute... funny, a very gernerous person. ive been seeing her for 6 weeks. she told me tonight that a job she applied for in Indanapolis in Janurary called her and she accepted it, and will be moving in 2 weeks. i was hoping if i buy this house i just looked at maybe shed move in with me and we could start a life down the line... now thats all fucking changed. shes moving away, and ill be back to square one, probably banging chicks from bars i shouldnt have anything to do with.... the idea of settling down has slipped out of my fingers again.... 
|
|
marriage defiantly isnt anything i want for at least 10 years and even then i probably wont take that plunge into hell. i like owning the stuff i work hard for. but i just wanted that fun girlfriend that i could take camping, take out to the bars with me and my friends, she got along awesome with my family, we just always had a good time no matter what the situation. laughed at the same things, etc etc... ive thrown so many girls away in the past who werent exactly what i was looking for, and the one i wanted to hang onto is moving away for a job offer. fuck. i told her i dont like the situation but i told her "you gotta do what you gotta do" cause its a good paying job for her and its what she wants... this is just something life has thrown at me so im just going to have to deal with it. |
not an option. i run my own small business here making twice a year what she will be making when she moves... i even said to her " is that bit of money even worth moving for??" theres alot more to that conversation than i care to type about right now. i cant leave my whole family and all my friends to move with a chick ive only been dating for 6 weeks. shes already made up her mind and i doubt i can change that. |
what goes around comes around... definantly, i agree. those girls in the past all had issues, were complete bitches / stuck up... i cxant believe i had anything to do with them but... typical guy that i am i never kept it in my pants in the past. i dont have enough money in the bank to consider moving, i own too much stuff / business equipment id have to sell before hand, my business is here and so is my family. i feel like a quitter for just giving up but, maybe this is just fate, maybe she will be back in Minnesota someday. maybe theres someone better out there even- theres a million fish in the sea. it just sucks cause i didnt expect it all of a suddenly. thanks for all of your words |
|
Well enjoy the two weeks that you have together. Do not let the fact the she will be leaving ruin the time that you have together because if you do it will change her opinion of you. And if she does come back to your neck of the woods she will not be as interested in picking up where you left off. Just my $.02 James |
Dude, I lost a woman very similar to this a little over a year ago. She was into off roading, drove a stick shift 4x4, liked shooting, wrestling, camping, ran track in college (since I run track that was a plus), double majored and graduated in 3 years, was tall, beautiful. She was absolutely everything I had ever wanted in a girl. We hit it off about 2 days after we met...but eventually, she graduated with her 4 year degree(s) and got accepted to grad school. I could have gone with her, but I was a fool and didn't. Now after a year of being apart, she just called me up and let me know she is engaged. She invited me to her wedding. Hard thing man, maybe you should do something...or you will end up like me.  -Ben |