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Posted: 8/13/2017 4:42:02 PM EDT
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ARfcom is one of the only things that has made the last days better. Ya I'm an alcoholic, but by wife wanted me that way. I went to get treatment and she told me I wasnt "allowed", eight years later here we are. The non stop lying and pushing me into a corner.
I literally have no options left. My house would be taken, as well as everything else. I can't pay alimony child support and live. So to all of those that say we''re cowards, walk a day in our shoes. I will record it and send it to her to share and laugh at with her friends. Ya I'm drunk, been wet for 2 weeks. Now seems as good as any other time. I'm out, oh ya Aimless is a Closet homo...... 
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1. Stop drinking
2. Stop whining and blaming others 3. Separate yourself from everyone and everything holding you back 4. Ask for help 5. Get your life back on track. Easier said than done, I know, but that's why there's a progression. Start with 1, when you've gotten that handled move on to 2, etc, etc. Good luck. |
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Come on, your kids need you. Go off the grid if you have to make a living. Plenty of guys do it (not that I am advocating avoiding court orders etc) 
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Take it for what it's worth but from the few close people who were left behind after a suicide they had a dream with the person who killed themselves.
In normal cases, a deceased person is okay and let's them know everything will be alright and not to cry for them. But in almost every suicide case, the loved one left behind see's the deceased amongst a sea of others. No happiness. Lost with the others. Depressed and regretful souls. You will not find any happiness or your soul will not be at rest after you kill yourself. You will be stuck, and will not be able to move on. Can't ever go back. You can make your life better starting now. You owe it to your kids and yourself. |
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Come on, your kids need you. Go off the grid if you have to make a living. Plenty of guys do it (not that I am advocating avoiding court orders etc) |
| Don't let the one lasting memory you leave behind be that of family scraping you off the wall. Life is hard, but so are you. Dry up, get some professional help and be the man you always envisioned yourself being. It's never too late until you are dead. You can PM me, I will listen. |
| Get some help OP. Check out Dadsdivorce.com. There are a LOT of guys that have been in your shoes (feeling like there's no hope), but managed to come out the other side ok after a divorce. Start documenting everything. ex. You wanting to get treatment for your addiction. |
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Suicide leaves such nasty consequences for the people who love you, especially kids. Don't do it brother! Suicide is contagious, do you want your family to do it? If not, then get help right now. Your kids, your friends, your family other than your wife( her too, but she sounds a little toxic to your well-being) they may never recover.
Don't DO this. Get help right NOW!!!! |
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Some thoughts from "Old Blue Eyes":
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v9pUoVy_wW0 |
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“…Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by your name; You are Mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; And through the rivers, they shall not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you shall not be burned, Nor shall the flame scorch you. For I am the Lord your God, The Holy One of Israel, your Savior;
-Isaiah 43:1 |
[ARCHIVED THREAD] - Its been fun (Page 1 of 12)
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