[ARCHIVED THREAD] - GD relationship advice (Page 1 of 3)
Posted: 7/27/2016 11:59:27 AM EDT
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OK, need some help deciphering a new girl at work. I've been crushing on her like I never have before (she doesn't know it) for a few months and don't want to go down wrong path. I have no one I can trust personally to keep this under wraps, that's where you guys come in.
Her: divorced, 3 kids, 3 dads. 12 years Army Me: 8 years her senior, no kids Signs: She seems excited every time we find out we have something in common. Talks about how much she respects me and how I inspire her. Used to talk about her boyfriend but about 3 weeks ago told me she was single (after i asked about him) Talked about she wanted to play darts (not specifically with me) walking out after work, I didn't pursue. She didn't end up going. She seems stuck on the same small harmless (funny) insult to me. Says dating sites don't have what shes looking for. When telling her I lost weight said she doesn't mind bigger guys. (200) Has no problem with me getting close to her, and she often comes in close to me (touching side by side talking etc) BUT... Has, but rarely asks about my personal life. Says she doesn't drink with co-workers anymore. (I didn't offer yet) Is she just being friendly or sending signals? My thought is, maybe she is just used to having a lot of guy friends so she's open with me. I don't want to put her in an awkward position since we work together. What is she looking for? She is well respected, confident, mature woman. |
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OK, need some help deciphering a new girl at work. I've been crushing on her like I never have before (she doesn't know it) for a few months and don't want to go down wrong path. I have no one I can trust personally to keep this under wraps, that's where you guys come in. Her: divorced, 3 kids, 3 dads. 12 years Army Me: 8 years her senior, no kids Signs: She seems excited every time we find out we have something in common. Talks about how much she respects me and how I inspire her. Used to talk about her boyfriend but about 3 weeks ago told me she was single (after i asked about him) Talked about she wanted to play darts (not specifically with me) walking out after work, I didn't pursue. She didn't end up going. She seems stuck on the same small harmless (funny) insult to me. Says dating sites don't have what shes looking for. When telling her I lost weight said she doesn't mind bigger guys. (200) Has no problem with me getting close to her, and she often comes in close to me (touching side by side talking etc) BUT... Has, but rarely asks about my personal life. Says she doesn't drink with co-workers anymore. (I didn't offer yet) Is she just being friendly or sending signals? My thought is, maybe she is just used to having a lot of guy friends so she's open with me. I don't want to put her in an awkward position since we work together. What is she looking for? She is well respected, confident, mature woman. That's the kind of thing school girls say. A.W.D. |
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Quoted: Probably not. Judging by the info we have available, she'd be mildly amused at best. Seems she's seen plenty of helicopters as it is.   Quoted: Quoted: Pull out your dick and helicopter in front of her desk. She will be impressed with your boldness Probably not. Judging by the info we have available, she'd be mildly amused at best. Seems she's seen plenty of helicopters as it is. What do you suggest? The Wristwatch? Hamburger? Possibly even the all impressive Goat? |
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It doesn't matter. Listen kid you don't want to see my other side. I have a wolf inside me with a muzzle on, but the muzzle is about to come off. You broke her heart, and I will break yours. She is a nice girl, how dare you use her like this. How come people like you get to date her? Then people like me have to sit in the shadows and be the shoulders to cry on. Listen Kid, I don't have time for FUCKING games. I am a nice guy, but when you make a nice guy angry; the world shakes. Don't do it again.
... You will regret this the next FULL MOON. You mess with me you mess with the pack bud. FUCK you. Get ready. |
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Leave this on her desk written in your blood "I can imagine myself walking in the sunset, holding hands and smiling. Hearing the crash of the waves as a gentle breeze flows through my body and hair. Walking miles and miles, while the moon rises high into the sky. The whole world is asleep, but I am the only one living a dream. The graceful peace, settling into my heart. For once I actually feel alive. This is what it should feel like. This is how you're supposed to live. A longing sense of comfort. And as we lay on the sand staring into the night sky, the stars become brighter and multiply. Soon enough, the dark sky is brightened by each star's shine. We close our eyes, hand in hand and lie in a moment of silence when all we can hear in the background is the calm waves alining upon the shore and the light night breeze. We make a wish and lie together in a few more moments, appreciating eachother for everything we are. We then both open our eyes to the diamond-like sky, staring for a brief moment as we then both turn to eachother, lying on our sides. I am looking into your eyes and you are looking into mine. I look at every inch of your body, then interlocking my eyes into yours once again. I inhale as you take a deep breath. I then begin to speak in a soft whisper. I tell you this is everything. You are all I've wanted. You were in all my dreams. You love me the way I wanted. You care for me like no one else has. I appreciate everything you've ever done for me, everything you've spent on me, everything you've said to me and everything you've felt for me. You are the only one I want. I am in love with you. Please keep me forever. Locked away in the eternity of time. You are different. You give me ideas. Thoughts, feelings, unlived visions of places I've never been or never knew existed, walking beside you in every one. It may be simple to state how I feel about you and say I love you a thousand times, but it is all too complex to fully give you the understanding of the meaning of the immense amount of love and appreciation I have for you. I tell you you're the one. You're everything anyone could ever ask for. I am thankful to have you in my life. I love you. I then pause and look into your eyes. You don't say anything. You can see the moon reflecting onto the calm ocean. A warm chilling feeling flows throughout my body as I watch you begin to slowly close your eyes and bring your body closer to me. Your face inching towards mine. As I close my eyes, I take one deep breath, tasting the chilled ocean air. I slowly bring myself closer to you, as you put your arms around me. I can feel your body heat and your soft hands touching my body. Our lips then touch. We kiss. Passionate, gentle, everlasting. This one kiss expresses all my thoughts, feelings, emotions and every little detail of every little existing idea, dream, form of all the words and feelings that I've developed for you. That moment, it was all unveiled. We lied there for minutes, sharing this dream we both created together. As we slowly move our faces away, I lay my head upon your shoulder and your arms around my body. The night had never seemed so bright and beautiful up until this day. It's like the world turned and everything completely changed. Everything was clear and I can actually breathe and feel each beat of my heart pound against my chest, as the blood slowly flows through my body. I can feel, hear, touch, taste, see, smell and understand everything, in what now feels like what is heaven. Lifelessly floating on a cloud, feeling fully alive. The feeling of being so unrealistically content and that a perfect life and person can exist is far beyond anything I could have ever perceived. You are my savior and meaning for existance. I thank you for everything you will do and being there, always. We lie, staring into the sky feeling the air get colder as the night becomes later. It doesn't bother me though. My body is filled with a warming sense of completion. Everything I'd dreamed of having is fulfilled, finally. I close my eyes and daydream once again of having and sharing this same exact moment with you. Soon enough the stars slowly fade away as the sky becomes lighter and the light of the sun pierces through the sky, slowly rising as time repeats itself once again. But this time is new. The feeling of being reborn into a life that you feel you've lived every single day. It feels so right. Life is beautiful with you. I appreciate things much more thoroughly. I love you. I always will." |
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OK, need some help deciphering a new girl at work. I've been crushing on her like I never have before (she doesn't know it) for a few months and don't want to go down wrong path. I have no one I can trust personally to keep this under wraps, that's where you guys come in. Her: divorced, 3 kids, 3 dads. 12 years Army Me: 8 years her senior, no kids Signs: She seems excited every time we find out we have something in common. Talks about how much she respects me and how I inspire her. Used to talk about her boyfriend but about 3 weeks ago told me she was single (after i asked about him) Talked about she wanted to play darts (not specifically with me) walking out after work, I didn't pursue. She didn't end up going. She seems stuck on the same small harmless (funny) insult to me. Says dating sites don't have what shes looking for. When telling her I lost weight said she doesn't mind bigger guys. (200) Has no problem with me getting close to her, and she often comes in close to me (touching side by side talking etc) BUT... Has, but rarely asks about my personal life. Says she doesn't drink with co-workers anymore. (I didn't offer yet) Is she just being friendly or sending signals? My thought is, maybe she is just used to having a lot of guy friends so she's open with me. I don't want to put her in an awkward position since we work together. What is she looking for? She is well respected, confident, mature woman. 
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Quoted: Leave this on her desk written in your blood "I can imagine myself walking in the sunset, holding hands and smiling. Hearing the crash of the waves as a gentle breeze flows through my body and hair. Walking miles and miles, while the moon rises high into the sky. The whole world is asleep, but I am the only one living a dream. The graceful peace, settling into my heart. For once I actually feel alive. This is what it should feel like. This is how you're supposed to live. A longing sense of comfort. And as we lay on the sand staring into the night sky, the stars become brighter and multiply. Soon enough, the dark sky is brightened by each star's shine. We close our eyes, hand in hand and lie in a moment of silence when all we can hear in the background is the calm waves alining upon the shore and the light night breeze. We make a wish and lie together in a few more moments, appreciating eachother for everything we are. We then both open our eyes to the diamond-like sky, staring for a brief moment as we then both turn to eachother, lying on our sides. I am looking into your eyes and you are looking into mine. I look at every inch of your body, then interlocking my eyes into yours once again. I inhale as you take a deep breath. I then begin to speak in a soft whisper. I tell you this is everything. You are all I've wanted. You were in all my dreams. You love me the way I wanted. You care for me like no one else has. I appreciate everything you've ever done for me, everything you've spent on me, everything you've said to me and everything you've felt for me. You are the only one I want. I am in love with you. Please keep me forever. Locked away in the eternity of time. You are different. You give me ideas. Thoughts, feelings, unlived visions of places I've never been or never knew existed, walking beside you in every one. It may be simple to state how I feel about you and say I love you a thousand times, but it is all too complex to fully give you the understanding of the meaning of the immense amount of love and appreciation I have for you. I tell you you're the one. You're everything anyone could ever ask for. I am thankful to have you in my life. I love you. I then pause and look into your eyes. You don't say anything. You can see the moon reflecting onto the calm ocean. A warm chilling feeling flows throughout my body as I watch you begin to slowly close your eyes and bring your body closer to me. Your face inching towards mine. As I close my eyes, I take one deep breath, tasting the chilled ocean air. I slowly bring myself closer to you, as you put your arms around me. I can feel your body heat and your soft hands touching my body. Our lips then touch. We kiss. Passionate, gentle, everlasting. This one kiss expresses all my thoughts, feelings, emotions and every little detail of every little existing idea, dream, form of all the words and feelings that I've developed for you. That moment, it was all unveiled. We lied there for minutes, sharing this dream we both created together. As we slowly move our faces away, I lay my head upon your shoulder and your arms around my body. The night had never seemed so bright and beautiful up until this day. It's like the world turned and everything completely changed. Everything was clear and I can actually breathe and feel each beat of my heart pound against my chest, as the blood slowly flows through my body. I can feel, hear, touch, taste, see, smell and understand everything, in what now feels like what is heaven. Lifelessly floating on a cloud, feeling fully alive. The feeling of being so unrealistically content and that a perfect life and person can exist is far beyond anything I could have ever perceived. You are my savior and meaning for existance. I thank you for everything you will do and being there, always. We lie, staring into the sky feeling the air get colder as the night becomes later. It doesn't bother me though. My body is filled with a warming sense of completion. Everything I'd dreamed of having is fulfilled, finally. I close my eyes and daydream once again of having and sharing this same exact moment with you. Soon enough the stars slowly fade away as the sky becomes lighter and the light of the sun pierces through the sky, slowly rising as time repeats itself once again. But this time is new. The feeling of being reborn into a life that you feel you've lived every single day. It feels so right. Life is beautiful with you. I appreciate things much more thoroughly. I love you. I always will." Jesus Tomato-Picking Christ! That's a work of art! Where did you steal it from? |
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3 kids, 3 dads?
Dealbreaker right off the bat for me, no matter how "mature" she is now. No, no, no, no. Quoted:
Leave this on her desk written in your blood "I can imagine myself walking in the sunset, holding hands and smiling. ~ snip~ I love you. I always will." hahahahahahahahah 
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OK, need some help deciphering a new girl at work. I've been crushing on her like I never have before (she doesn't know it) for a few months and don't want to go down wrong path. I have no one I can trust personally to keep this under wraps, that's where you guys come in. Her: divorced, 3 kids, 3 dads. 12 years Army Me: 8 years her senior, no kids Signs: She seems excited every time we find out we have something in common. Talks about how much she respects me and how I inspire her. Used to talk about her boyfriend but about 3 weeks ago told me she was single (after i asked about him) Talked about she wanted to play darts (not specifically with me) walking out after work, I didn't pursue. She didn't end up going. She seems stuck on the same small harmless (funny) insult to me. Says dating sites don't have what shes looking for. When telling her I lost weight said she doesn't mind bigger guys. (200) Has no problem with me getting close to her, and she often comes in close to me (touching side by side talking etc) BUT... Has, but rarely asks about my personal life. Says she doesn't drink with co-workers anymore. (I didn't offer yet) Is she just being friendly or sending signals? My thought is, maybe she is just used to having a lot of guy friends so she's open with me. I don't want to put her in an awkward position since we work together. What is she looking for? She is well respected, confident, mature woman. 3 kids 3 dads... you could be number 4 of 6 or 8. we don't know what women in our lives who we are intimately familiar  with are thinking, how the fuck do we know what some random bitch you barely told us about is thinking? Ask her out if you want. Stop being a pussy.
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OK, need some help deciphering a new girl at work. I've been crushing on her like I never have before (she doesn't know it) for a few months and don't want to go down wrong path. I have no one I can trust personally to keep this under wraps, that's where you guys come in. Her: divorced, 3 kids, 3 dads. 12 years Army Me: 8 years her senior, no kids Signs: She seems excited every time we find out we have something in common. Talks about how much she respects me and how I inspire her. Used to talk about her boyfriend but about 3 weeks ago told me she was single (after i asked about him) Talked about she wanted to play darts (not specifically with me) walking out after work, I didn't pursue. She didn't end up going. She seems stuck on the same small harmless (funny) insult to me. Says dating sites don't have what shes looking for. When telling her I lost weight said she doesn't mind bigger guys. (200) Has no problem with me getting close to her, and she often comes in close to me (touching side by side talking etc) BUT... Has, but rarely asks about my personal life. Says she doesn't drink with co-workers anymore. (I didn't offer yet) Is she just being friendly or sending signals? My thought is, maybe she is just used to having a lot of guy friends so she's open with me. I don't want to put her in an awkward position since we work together. What is she looking for? She is well respected, confident, mature woman. Do you want to be the 4th dad? Because that's how you become the 4th dad. |
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