[ARCHIVED THREAD] - Daughters Friend (Page 1 of 2)
Posted: 7/22/2016 9:50:16 PM EDT
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My daughter has a friend, I CANT STAND this friend!!! She is a horrible, disrespectful little girl. My wife doesn't understand why I can't stand her. My wife always worries about my daughter running around with the wrong crowd. I can't understand why my wife can't figure out that this other little girl IS the wrong crowd!!
My wife really likes the mother of this other little girl, they are good friends but damn it! How does this blind her so much that she can't see that this other little girl is noting but trouble and our daughter should not be associating with her? Anyone else have this issue???? T2 |
| My wife is always having them together, the other girl is a total brat! I really don't think they would be friends except for the fact that my wife is always pushing the two of them together. I don't have any issue with any other of my daughters friends, just this one! She is rude, she is spoiled, she is disrespectful, and she is trouble! |
| I have made it abundantly clear to my wife and everyone that I don't like this little girl one bit. I need to sit back and let things play out and and just let everyone see exactly what I have warned them about. it just difficult to do, my daughter would be better off not associated with this little brat! |
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She is only 8. Based on your description, I was expecting 13 or 14. This here. True evil doesn't manifest itself until then. I'm living in the midst of it now. Problem is, half that time, I think it's my daughter that is the one that is bad seed. Just wait, and good luck. |
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My wife is always having them together, the other girl is a total brat! I really don't think they would be friends except for the fact that my wife is always pushing the two of them together. I don't have any issue with any other of my daughters friends, just this one! She is rude, she is spoiled, she is disrespectful, and she is trouble! sounds like the wife would trade her little girl's soul for the friendship of the brat's mom....I'd be upset too. mom needs a wake up call your child is more important than the needs of mom to have an overrated friend with a brat for a kid. |
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My wife is always having them together, the other girl is a total brat! I really don't think they would be friends except for the fact that my wife is always pushing the two of them together. I don't have any issue with any other of my daughters friends, just this one! She is rude, she is spoiled, she is disrespectful, and she is trouble! You don't have a problem with the kid, you've got a problem with your wife. That is what I would address. |
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sounds like the wife would trade her little girl's soul for the friendship of the brat's mom....I'd be upset too. mom needs a wake up call your child is more important than the needs of mom to have an overrated friend with a brat for a kid. Quoted:
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My wife is always having them together, the other girl is a total brat! I really don't think they would be friends except for the fact that my wife is always pushing the two of them together. I don't have any issue with any other of my daughters friends, just this one! She is rude, she is spoiled, she is disrespectful, and she is trouble! sounds like the wife would trade her little girl's soul for the friendship of the brat's mom....I'd be upset too. mom needs a wake up call your child is more important than the needs of mom to have an overrated friend with a brat for a kid. This is the exact issue!!!!!! I was wondering how long until someone saw it the same way as I did! |
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Quoted: Draw your line in the sand. And put some blankets and pillows on the couch for yourself later. Quoted: Quoted: She is only 8. Draw your line in the sand. And put some blankets and pillows on the couch for yourself later. |
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Quoted: My wife is always having them together, the other girl is a total brat! I really don't think they would be friends except for the fact that my wife is always pushing the two of them together. I don't have any issue with any other of my daughters friends, just this one! She is rude, she is spoiled, she is disrespectful, and she is trouble! Honestly nobody is rude in my house, if they are they leave. |
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Children are not rude in my house Your then man enforce standards. Honestly nobody is rude in my house, if they are they leave. Quoted:
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My wife is always having them together, the other girl is a total brat! I really don't think they would be friends except for the fact that my wife is always pushing the two of them together. I don't have any issue with any other of my daughters friends, just this one! She is rude, she is spoiled, she is disrespectful, and she is trouble! Honestly nobody is rude in my house, if they are they leave. I'd have to agree with this. Call her on her crap. Park your hate for the brat and teach her that in your house being rude and disrespectful means she leaves and can come back when she can prove she isn't. |
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I think your problem is better than if she were a screaming knock-out and you couldn't keep from drooling every time she came over. Ask me how I know! Hopefully that won't be happening to the OP for at least 8 more years (assuming the friend is the same age as his daughter). 
Only thing I can suggest for the friend though is... spelling out exactly what you dislike about the girl. Not just a general "she's rude" but exactly what she does that's rude etc. Sometimes it's easier to make someone else see what's wrong when you show them what to look at. |
| My oldest is 7. She has some friends from school, one or two have been over. They seem like nice kids, but they're 7... However there are some in her class that she cries about, they're mean, bratty, nasty little things... At age 7... already... I can imagine what this is going to be like in 5-6 years....and then I do it all over again as my youngest daughter is 5. Lol. Drama. |
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Children are not rude in my house Your then man enforce standards. Honestly nobody is rude in my house, if they are they leave. Quoted:
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My wife is always having them together, the other girl is a total brat! I really don't think they would be friends except for the fact that my wife is always pushing the two of them together. I don't have any issue with any other of my daughters friends, just this one! She is rude, she is spoiled, she is disrespectful, and she is trouble! Honestly nobody is rude in my house, if they are they leave. This right here. One of my boys copped an attitude with my wife in front of his friends, then left the house (this was a few months ago). I immediately went right down the street, snatched him up in front of his friends, verbally dressed him down, and ran him until he dropped. You're NOT going to pull that crap in my house. We enforce standards. He came back and apologized to his mother. |
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This is the exact issue!!!!!! I was wondering how long until someone saw it the same way as I did! Quoted:
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My wife is always having them together, the other girl is a total brat! I really don't think they would be friends except for the fact that my wife is always pushing the two of them together. I don't have any issue with any other of my daughters friends, just this one! She is rude, she is spoiled, she is disrespectful, and she is trouble! sounds like the wife would trade her little girl's soul for the friendship of the brat's mom....I'd be upset too. mom needs a wake up call your child is more important than the needs of mom to have an overrated friend with a brat for a kid. This is the exact issue!!!!!! I was wondering how long until someone saw it the same way as I did! OP, I saw it this way from your initial post. Now the question, what is it about the other girls mom that has your wife doing this? Is she big in the social scene? Lots of money? Country club? What? There's something a bit odd about this, but it does happen. As you well know, the kids a brat because of how she is being raised, yet your wife wants/desires that friendship. There's something more going on and your gut is steering you right to that conclusion. |
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My daughter has a friend, I CANT STAND this friend!!! She is a horrible, disrespectful little girl. My wife doesn't understand why I can't stand her. My wife always worries about my daughter running around with the wrong crowd. I can't understand why my wife can't figure out that this other little girl IS the wrong crowd!! My wife really likes the mother of this other little girl, they are good friends but damn it! How does this blind her so much that she can't see that this other little girl is noting but trouble and our daughter should not be associating with her? Anyone else have this issue???? T2 my 8yo daughter has disrespectful friends as well, I dont let her play over at "their" house, they always have to play at ours. I dont let the girl behave in a disrespectful way at our house. it's that way with everyone in my house. when we have a get together and other children are here, they all have to say please/thankyou yes sir/ no sir.. (that is the way we do things in the south) |
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Draw your line in the sand. And put some blankets and pillows on the couch for yourself later. your wife. Quoted:
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She is only 8. Draw your line in the sand. And put some blankets and pillows on the couch for yourself later. your wife. If you are going to man up, just go ahead and man up! |