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Posted: 3/19/2014 7:20:05 PM EDT
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as arfcom reccomends though
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ARFCOMers get touchy about the pie option  Quoted:
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I think voting for yes and pie is the same thing. ARFCOMers get touchy about the pie option Just as you should be getting touchy with both wimenz pie options. BTW, I voted pie but there really should be a Get Both - Pie option. |
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So you and Girl 2 start getting serious after a couple of months. Then you find out she's been fucking another guy the whole time just for fun. What's the big deal? You weren't technically attached, right? She very well could be, it has happened in the past  If she actually wanted to date/be committed I would stop, and debating if I should anyway(why I'm here).
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That is the problem, who knows if #2 ever will. But if so I don't want to mess it up  But she hasn't said anything about be committed, so.....Quoted:
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Both are no-go if you’re looking for a keeper. #1 obviously serves the other purpose. Tell #2 to kick rocks. But she hasn't said anything about be committed, so.....Her loss. She should have been clear about her intentions. My guess, she’s playing the game and wants to see what she can get. Her prize should be getting kicked to the curb. |
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This is such a stupid question, not stupid that you asked it, but the fact that the ARFCOM white nuts are gonna cloud this threat with bullshit.
The bottom line IS, neither wants to commit to you. Them saying well I just want to fuck, means my eye is on something else but your cock will keep me happy in the mean time. The one that says maybe down the road, is entertaining other prospects as well. Date them both, and date other women too. There is no commitment there, they are keeping you in the dark for a reason, no reason to shed light on your personal life. When you meet a woman, that seems genuine in exploring how far things can go in a relationship sense, thats when you quit all the other bullshit. Not until. If anything it will help your game that you see alot of women. One it will giv eyou experience, two it will make you valuable in other womens eyes, they are catty like that. Also, I had a rule growing up....never bang more than one woman at the same time. Bad juju that is, keep it safe and have fun. |
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She very well could be, it has happened in the past If she actually wanted to date/be committed I would stop, and debating if I should anyway(why I'm here).Quoted:
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So you and Girl 2 start getting serious after a couple of months. Then you find out she's been fucking another guy the whole time just for fun. What's the big deal? You weren't technically attached, right? She very well could be, it has happened in the past If she actually wanted to date/be committed I would stop, and debating if I should anyway(why I'm here)."It happened in the past "
Apparently that rustled you. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you... The first woman obviously isn't wife material, so if you are into girl #2, I'd stay away from #1. |
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This is such a stupid question, not stupid that you asked it, but the fact that the ARFCOM white nuts are gonna cloud this threat with bullshit. The bottom line IS, neither wants to commit to you. Them saying well I just want to fuck, means my eye is on something else but your cock will keep me happy in the mean time. The one that says maybe down the road, is entertaining other prospects as well. Date them both, and date other women too. There is no commitment there, they are keeping you in the dark for a reason, no reason to shed light on your personal life. When you meet a woman, that seems genuine in exploring how far things can go in a relationship sense, thats when you quit all the other bullshit. Not until. If anything it will help your game that you see alot of women. One it will giv eyou experience, two it will make you valuable in other womens eyes, they are catty like that. Also, I had a rule growing up....never bang more than one woman at the same time. Bad juju that is, keep it safe and have fun. Thanks |
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No. Same rules apply to you as do her. How would you feel if you had been "seeing" a woman for a few months, then found out the whole time you had been "seeing" her she was banging some other dude? If you truly like someone, it doesn't matter if the relationship has turned sexual or not, you will stop having sex with other people. Simply put, you won't be interested to have sex with others if you really like someone. Actions speak louder than words. Don't let your actions say things to said woman that you can't take back. |
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Quoted: As much as I would like to say yes, my honest answer is no. Unless girl #2 knows about girl #1 and is OK with it I think it would be wrong. Sorry, my usual response is get both, but not in this case. |
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Neither one wants to make a commitment. Thus, you are free to do as you please.
Just be honest with them about it. When girl 2 asks if you are free to hang out Friday, but you have plans with girl 1 already, just say, "Sorry, I have a date Friday. would Saturday night be okay?" Hang in there with both of them until the whole thing blows up in your face. |
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If you're looking for a stable relationship, then woman number 2 should be the only one you go after. If you're just looking to get laid, then woman number 1 is the obvious choice. While there is no formal commitment between you, and no reason you can't date both or anyone else for that matter, it's pretty clear woman number 2 is looking for someone to settle down with. I highly doubt she would be pleased if you bang woman number 1 while dating her at the same time. |
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Withholding judgement based on age of op. If ur young, Fuck it, tap out both of them because it's never gonna work anyway with girl #2. If you are both a little older say, 30ish and up, maybe see where things with girl #2 goes or be honest with #2 about #1 up front. Also the wild card, Girl #1 says it will never be anything more than booty but in my experience they are the ones that can never keep it that way and fall in love with the D stick then want a relationship. This fucks everything the fuck up. Additionally, girls are dumb and never know what the fuck they want and this is most likely a wild card situation... After re-evaluation, fuck em both. Who cares what they say..
(edit) Additionally, this is sound advice. Take my word for it. I'm no bitch ass basement dweller and have slayed much poon in my 34 years on this rock... Maybe it's just the women here or maybe I have shit luck with girls that don't have some sort of mental deficiency or are just plain fucking crazy. I won't lie though, most of them were hot and I don't regret a thing. Except not finding one to settle down with. I can assure you these girls have more baggage than I can carry at my age. I wonder if I will ever find one anymore... |