[ARCHIVED THREAD] - How often (Page 1 of 2)
Posted: 12/30/2013 4:43:48 AM EDT
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does your SO get you off?
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No offense but I would eject or have some serous talks. Good luck man. Quoted:
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A couple times a year if I'm lucky. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile No offense but I would eject or have some serous talks. Good luck man. I can't imagine being that sexless and married. I've never been a cheater, but I think I'd have the "I'm going to have sex more regularly and I hope it's with you" talk. |
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Quoted: That will change grasshopper...that will change Quoted: Quoted: Married two years now. We average 3-4 times a week usually. Sometimes more, sometimes less. She has told me that anytime I really need it or want it, she is there.  That will change grasshopper...that will change  How true |
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Married two years now. We average 3-4 times a week usually. Sometimes more, sometimes less. She has told me that anytime I really need it or want it, she is there.
That will change grasshopper...that will change How true
Jesus that's depressing. 
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Married two years now. We average 3-4 times a week usually. Sometimes more, sometimes less. She has told me that anytime I really need it or want it, she is there.
That will change grasshopper...that will change How true
Jesus that's depressing. Of course I can see drive diminishing, and when kids come, them getting in the way. But we have discussed the subject, even before marriage(we waited until marriage), about sex and it's importance, especially to the male. I am not a personality that would cheat on her. I really can't see myself doing that even if I were frustrated. But she knows that in order to further minimize that possibility, she needs to do the do. So she knows, and has said she will, and even done, even when she is not really in the mood. Because I need it. If other things have gotten in the way and we have gone 4 days without, she starts apologizing. 
Also, so many men seem to make it about themselves and not really care about whether their wife gets off too. If you put in extra effort so she likes it too, she will want to more often. Simple logic.
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Marriage is all about compromise. I want it 7 times a week. She wants it 0 times a week. So, we originally compromised somewhere around 3.5, but the power of the pun-tang won over so it's more like 2.5 times a week. I mean no offense and if you want me to edit I will. I'm new to this game so... Was it always like that? Does she really want it or is she doing it just for you? Is the sex actually good or is it just getting off? |
We realized how much life and kids and being tired at the end of the day had taken its toll so we set some parameters. Wednesdays and Saturdays are non-negotiable just to avoid the, "Oh shit, it's been 2-3 weeks...." thing. Any extra stuff thrown in there is all good too. 
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We realized how much life and kids and being tired at the end of the day had taken its toll so we set some parameters. Wednesdays and Saturdays are non-negotiable just to avoid the, "Oh shit, it's been 2-3 weeks...." thing. Any extra stuff thrown in there is all good too. Luckily I have no kids to worry about......yet
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We realized how much life and kids and being tired at the end of the day had taken its toll so we set some parameters. Wednesdays and Saturdays are non-negotiable just to avoid the, "Oh shit, it's been 2-3 weeks...." thing. Any extra stuff thrown in there is all good too. Also this is a fantastic idea. |
