Posted: 3/29/2013 11:38:31 AM EDT
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since my heart and soul walked out of my life. Our 14th anniversary is just around the corner and its getting harder, not easier as time marches on. I don't know if its pathetic or sad, or something else all together, that a group of strangers on an Internet gun board is the life line that drags me from one day to the next. I just want to say thanks to all for being here and letting me be a part of it.
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I'd recommend changing out of your skirt and puttin on your big boy pants and get the fuck over it.
Women come and go and are easily replaceable. It's NOT your 14th anniversary. Just the 14th date from once u got married or whatever. Be a man and stop feeling sorry for yourself Arfcommers amaze me how tough the come across yet and compete blubbering babies when it comes to women who are easily replaced. |
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I'd recommend changing out of your skirt and puttin on your big boy pants and get the fuck over it. Women come and go and are easily replaceable. It's NOT your 14th anniversary. Just the 14th date from once u got married or whatever. Be a man and stop feeling sorry for yourself Arfcommers amaze me how tough the come across yet and compete blubbering babies when it comes to women who are easily replaced.  Damn man. I love how you speak your mind.
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I'd recommend changing out of your skirt and puttin on your big boy pants and get the fuck over it. Women come and go and are easily replaceable. It's NOT your 14th anniversary. Just the 14th date from once u got married or whatever. Be a man and stop feeling sorry for yourself Arfcommers amaze me how tough the come across yet and compete blubbering babies when it comes to women who are easily replaced. This. Man the fuck up. 
Bitches are a dime a dozen. I am on wife #3...we have been married 13 years, but if she knows if she gets out of line I will kick her ass to the curb. |
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A year is a long time, probably long enough for you to finish mourning your lost relationship.
Figure out on the calendar exactly when the anniversary date is and plan a party night for then. Have a good time and meet some new women, time to move on with your life. Or else you can spend another year moping around about your ex. Your choice. |
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Take this time in the dark season of your life to get to know God. Listen closely for the lessons he is offering to teach you right now. Listen to what your heart is saying. It is very painful I know this first hand but I can assure you that you will come out of this a better man, a better mate, and at some point in time a better husband. It requires alot of prayer and a lot of depending on God to get you past this. I pray that God will keep his hands around your heart and mend the shreds of your soul. I pray that God keeps his guiding hand on your shoulder and leads you on your path back into the sunlight of your life. Amen. Surrender yourself to Him, he will not hurt you. He loves you more than she did and He always has. Try a little faith and remember He answers prayers in His time, not yours. Learn the lesson of patience that He is teaching you now.
I am 1 year past where you are now. I may sound like a "Jesus freak" in this post but the things I've said above worked for me. I promise it will work for you too. Pray daily. Praise His name and let Him heal your heart. It's amazing the changes He'll make in your life.Take care brother and allow Him to heal your heart and life. |
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I'd recommend changing out of your skirt and puttin on your big boy pants and get the fuck over it. Women come and go and are easily replaceable. It's NOT your 14th anniversary. Just the 14th date from once u got married or whatever. Be a man and stop feeling sorry for yourself Arfcommers amaze me how tough the come across yet and compete blubbering babies when it comes to women who are easily replaced. Remember...some of these guys are seriously wierd, they barely got one woman and for them to ever get another is literally impossible. |
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Quoted: since my heart and soul walked out of my life. Our 14th anniversary is just around the corner and its getting harder, not easier as time marches on. I don't know if its pathetic or sad, or something else all together, that a group of strangers on an Internet gun board is the life line that drags me from one day to the next. I just want to say thanks to all for being here and letting me be a part of it. just stopping by to say HI  |
| OP, what you need to do is make friends with a few guys who don't have a moral compass or standards. The guys who only hook up with fat or ugly chicks and brag about how much they get. Those are the guys you want to be with right now. They're annoying as shit when you're doing ok, but when you're down, these guys will help you better than anyone else. Normally with hookers and blow. |
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since my heart and soul walked out of my life. Our 14th anniversary is just around the corner and its getting harder, not easier as time marches on. I don't know if its pathetic or sad, or something else all together, that a group of strangers on an Internet gun board is the life line that drags me from one day to the next. I just want to say thanks to all for being here and letting me be a part of it. it took me 5 years...but it did get better... I tried my hardest to fill that hole  by filling holes.... it does not work ..but it helps...
now I am a loving and fathful husband to a much better women... with my first wife.."I CHOSE POORLY" |
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Bill Hicks said it best, "it's hard to have a relationship in this business. You're always traveling, keeping weird hours, and it's going to take a very special woman...or...a bunch of average ones."
Hell, even Frank Sinatra got his heart ripped out by Eva Gardner. He was suicidal when she left him. It gets better, but we're hard-wired in village mentality to only track a few people in our hearts and minds when there are literally MILLIONS of eligible people who can fill those roles. |
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Dude, pick yourself up by your bootstraps. Be a person that you would admire.
That relationship is over. There is no other reality so stop seeing her as your one-and-only. These guys? It is a community, but this is the internet. Go mix it up with real people. Do the wellness stuff like getting sunshine and exercise. Don't drink every day. Clean your living space. Throw stuff away. Go to church. Having a hard year is fine. But don't let a past relationship define you. Fourteen years is what, less than one-fifth of your life? What about the rest of it? |
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I'd recommend changing out of your skirt and puttin on your big boy pants and get the fuck over it. Women come and go and are easily replaceable. It's NOT your 14th anniversary. Just the 14th date from once u got married or whatever. Be a man and stop feeling sorry for yourself Arfcommers amaze me how tough the come across yet and compete blubbering babies when it comes to women who are easily replaced. Read my tag line, 
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Take this time in the dark season of your life to get to know God. Listen closely for the lessons he is offering to teach you right now. Listen to what your heart is saying. It is very painful I know this first hand but I can assure you that you will come out of this a better man, a better mate, and at some point in time a better husband. It requires alot of prayer and a lot of depending on God to get you past this. I pray that God will keep his hands around your heart and mend the shreds of your soul. I pray that God keeps his guiding hand on your shoulder and leads you on your path back into the sunlight of your life. Amen. Surrender yourself to Him, he will not hurt you. He loves you more than she did and He always has. Try a little faith and remember He answers prayers in His time, not yours. Learn the lesson of patience that He is teaching you now. I am 1 year past where you are now. I may sound like a "Jesus freak" in this post but the things I've said above worked for me. I promise it will work for you too. Pray daily. Praise His name and let Him heal your heart. It's amazing the changes He'll make in your life.Take care brother and allow Him to heal your heart and life. Whoa! An adult entered the room. This is some good advice. Banging hookers......not so much. |
