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Posted: 5/21/2011 12:00:31 AM EDT
she has figured out how to find my posts  I mean shes my ex, no one ever praises their ex, I could still be head over heals in love with her, but obviously I'm going to try as hard as I can to focus on the negative to try to rid myself of the pain that she left me. I feel bad now, because she has to see all the stuff Ive posted on here, I mean at the same time, its totally anonymous here, none of you know who I am and I dont know any of you, and no one knows her nor do they care. but of course now I feel like an ass because shes gonna see things I said on here (although I think she has probably seen it all by now). I use this place as kind of a home away from home, where I can express my thoughts to complete strangers, laugh at stuff, learn stuff about my hobbie, and just relax and be entertained, but now ARFCOM has been infilitrated by my REAL life. It is no longer an escape for me..  I'm sorry Chen , I hope my posts didnt hurt your feelings too much, I was only trying to vent a lil bit of my frustration and pain by communicating it to other people instead of keeping it bottled up inside.
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Quoted: 1) Why do you care? 2) Why should we care? 3) Why do you feel the need to make us aware of the meaningless (unentertaining!) drama in your life? That post was for her to read next time she looks me up on here. I dont care what anyone thinks about it, I have the right to post someting like that here, it is not offensive and is CoC compliant |
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Do you still see her or pal around with her? If not then who cares? You need to realize something, THE BITCH IS STALKING YOU ONLINE! She is actively looking for your posts here and probably elsewhere. She doesn't deserve your pity or any kind of apology from you. |
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Quoted: well if she is your ex she probably deserves whatever you said about her otherwise you would still be with her. Fuck her and her bullshit. Bitch if you are reading this get a life and quit stalking your ex She dumped ME, yet we still spoke for a while and it didnt work out.. no one is stalking, she did this shit even when we were going out.. she looks me up on the internet. I dont have facebook so I guess this is her only option |
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Quoted: Quoted: well if she is your ex she probably deserves whatever you said about her otherwise you would still be with her. Fuck her and her bullshit. Bitch if you are reading this get a life and quit stalking your ex She dumped ME, yet we still spoke for a while and it didnt work out.. no one is stalking, she did this shit even when we were going out.. she looks me up on the internet. I dont have facebook so I guess this is her only option it's called stalking . my statement stands. |
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Quoted: Do you still see her or pal around with her? If not then who cares? You need to realize something, THE BITCH IS STALKING YOU ONLINE! She is actively looking for your posts here and probably elsewhere. She doesn't deserve your pity or any kind of apology from you. Yes, we still speak.. she left me, but we were trying to be "friends".. isnt gonna work, and at this point, I dont care anymore...things have been awful for both of us for a while now and I want it to just end peacefully |
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Quoted: Quoted: Do you still see her or pal around with her? If not then who cares? You need to realize something, THE BITCH IS STALKING YOU ONLINE! She is actively looking for your posts here and probably elsewhere. She doesn't deserve your pity or any kind of apology from you. Yes, we still speak.. she left me, but we were trying to be "friends".. isnt gonna work, and at this point, I dont care anymore...things have been awful for both of us for a while now and I want it to just end peacefully bad relationships do not lead to good friendships. I know from experience. |
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Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Do you still see her or pal around with her? If not then who cares? You need to realize something, THE BITCH IS STALKING YOU ONLINE! She is actively looking for your posts here and probably elsewhere. She doesn't deserve your pity or any kind of apology from you. Yes, we still speak.. she left me, but we were trying to be "friends".. isnt gonna work, and at this point, I dont care anymore...things have been awful for both of us for a while now and I want it to just end peacefully bad relationships do not lead to good friendships. I know from experience. I know, you are without a doubt totally correct. I think both me and her are having trouble letting go a little bit.. Obviously I would, since i was the one who was dumped..but at the same time I sometimes think that she is still slightly attached to me or has some sort of feelings. But our interaction is generally so unpleasant that its not worth even trying anymore |
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Quoted: Quoted: well if she is your ex she probably deserves whatever you said about her otherwise you would still be with her. Fuck her and her bullshit. Bitch if you are reading this get a life and quit stalking your ex She dumped ME, yet we still spoke for a while and it didnt work out.. no one is stalking, she did this shit even when we were going out.. she looks me up on the internet. I dont have facebook so I guess this is her only option It's weird and creepy. Chen if you're reading this, get over your ex fucking boyfriend and move on with life.  I'm sure she'd appreciate the OP cyber stalking her, because that's exactly what it is. It's called an obsession. Seek help. |
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Quoted: Seriously though, tell your fucking ex to get a life and move on. And this is how we deal with relationships on arfcom  I have to work on this as well, I didnt rly intend for this thread to imply that I am over her and she is stalking me.. that is NOT the case, both of us still communicate regularly but rarely hang out anymore. I miss her, but our relationship was awful.. I think she misses me sometimes too but I dont know, she says lots of really mean stuff to me but then she decides to change her mind and act like it never happened, its so confusing, I think its some type of head game, I think she knows what shes doing, shes slick
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Quoted: So what kind of stuff have you said about her, the "she's an evil bitch" type or the "she screwed everyone I knew and glued my nuts to the bed" stuff? Something about how she couldnt cook, and how she became a sugar daddy seeker, which I think was only a phase, at least I hope it was |
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Do you still see her or pal around with her? If not then who cares? You need to realize something, THE BITCH IS STALKING YOU ONLINE! She is actively looking for your posts here and probably elsewhere. She doesn't deserve your pity or any kind of apology from you. Yes, we still speak.. she left me, but we were trying to be "friends".. isnt gonna work, and at this point, I dont care anymore...things have been awful for both of us for a while now and I want it to just end peacefully bad relationships do not lead to good friendships. I know from experience. I know, you are without a doubt totally correct. I think both me and her are having trouble letting go a little bit.. Obviously I would, since i was the one who was dumped..but at the same time I sometimes think that she is still slightly attached to me or has some sort of feelings. But our interaction is generally so unpleasant that its not worth even trying anymore
You may be finished with her, but she's not finished with YOU. She's stalking. That is all. |
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Quoted: Did you not take an ambien a little while ago? Stop posting on the fucking internet. You're going to regret it. ETA: On second thought, tell us more! I know, I considered this.. but honestly, I took that ambien like 45 mins ago or something now and I feel normal. |
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well if she is your ex she probably deserves whatever you said about her otherwise you would still be with her. Fuck her and her bullshit. Bitch if you are reading this get a life and quit stalking your ex She dumped ME, yet we still spoke for a while and it didnt work out.. no one is stalking, she did this shit even when we were going out.. she looks me up on the internet. I dont have facebook so I guess this is her only option It's weird and creepy. Chen if you're reading this, get over your ex fucking boyfriend and move on with life. I'm sure she'd appreciate the OP cyber stalking her, because that's exactly what it is. It's called an obsession. Seek help.
This. Move the fuck on. Both of you. |
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I'm just going to head this one off at the pass
I'm guessing Chen is way better off without you. |
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Don't really care too much about her stalking you, it happens, but if you don't mind, I'd like to make a suggestion. I'm not sure if it still holds true or not, but it used to be the only way to search was as a team member, or to use the username with site:www.ar15.com in a search engine. A, either she paid for a membership, or B, she knows you login, and you should change your password. I would stay on the side of caution with this one and change the password anyways.
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Did you not take an ambien a little while ago? Stop posting on the fucking internet. You're going to regret it. ETA: On second thought, tell us more! I know, I considered this.. but honestly, I took that ambien like 45 mins ago or something now and I feel normal. You're not normal. You're just posting on drugs. Whatever. |
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Quoted: I'm just going to head this one off at the pass I'm guessing Chen is way better off without you. she was here when I made that stupid thread, it was a JOKE.... it was all bullshit. Dont even bring that up in here, that was back when we got along and enjoyed eachothers company, we had fun with that thread when I made it, she liked being involved. It was cute, leave that shit out of here please, it does not even touch on what the serious issues during our relationship were. I never gave a fuck whether or not she would eat a cheeseburger, it was just a JOKE. She did however end up eating cheeseburgers and really enjoying them so go figure. |
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Quoted: Don't really care too much about her stalking you, it happens, but if you don't mind, I'd like to make a suggestion. I'm not sure if it still holds true or not, but it used to be the only way to search was as a team member, or to use the username with site:www.ar15.com in a search engine. A, either she paid for a membership, or B, she knows you login, and you should change your password. I would stay on the side of caution with this one and change the password anyways. Zach she has a membership.. but I think she just searches my posts on google. She doesnt know my PW on here, its unique. |
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Quoted: Step 1. Post shit about your old lady under assumed anonymity. Step 2. Find out she knows, and post an I'm sorry thread, to make up for dozens of earlier posts. Step 3. ????? Step 4. Profit? walk away the BETTER person in my opinion. I like to hold on to my dignity, I acted out of line by slandering my ex GF on here and I acknowledge that. I wouldn't appreciate if someone did something like that to me, so I dont think its right for me to do it to someone else. Hence the public apology. Its not a desperate plea for her to take me back, I dont care about that.. its out of the question and I'm ok with it, but I feel kinda bad for having said those things and I think she deserves an apology, even if she DID dump me. I shouldnt be saying anything about her at all. and I wont ever again. Its wrong to do stuff like that |
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Dude. WTF. Have some self respect. Don't be so pitiful. Quoted:
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I have white hairs around my nipples.  I trim my chest hair with a #4. Hey Bill you talking about my whit nipple hairs?  I happen to like them, they add character.
Hey 30cal, I'm afraid that if I trim them, I might miss them and they can hang out on my keyboard and stalk the shit out of me on arfcom. I might even drop some cheeseburger crumbs on my keyboard and well you know. I'll think about it. |
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I'm just going to head this one off at the pass I'm guessing Chen is way better off without you. she was here when I made that stupid thread, it was a JOKE.... it was all bullshit. Dont even bring that up in here, that was back when we got along and enjoyed eachothers company, we had fun with that thread when I made it, she liked being involved. It was cute, leave that shit out of here please, it does not even touch on what the serious issues during our relationship were. I never gave a fuck whether or not she would eat a cheeseburger, it was just a JOKE. She did however end up eating cheeseburgers and really enjoying them so go figure. Yes, I've read some of it. The substance abuse, the cheating, the lifetime of drama in, what, a little over a year? Seriously, dude, you're young, you'll get over it, as will she. Stop being such a drama queen.  Just think of how much shittier it would be if the world had ended and you had to spend all of eternity never being able to find resolution. 
ETA: and I'm tagging the other thread to see if you remember any of this tomorrow. 
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Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: I'm just going to head this one off at the pass I'm guessing Chen is way better off without you. she was here when I made that stupid thread, it was a JOKE.... it was all bullshit. Dont even bring that up in here, that was back when we got along and enjoyed eachothers company, we had fun with that thread when I made it, she liked being involved. It was cute, leave that shit out of here please, it does not even touch on what the serious issues during our relationship were. I never gave a fuck whether or not she would eat a cheeseburger, it was just a JOKE. She did however end up eating cheeseburgers and really enjoying them so go figure. Yes, I've read some of it. The substance abuse, the cheating, the lifetime of drama in, what, a little over a year? Seriously, dude, you're young, you'll get over it, as will she. Stop being such a drama queen. I had a rough year just wanna get back on the right track and everyday there's a new speed bump getting in the way. I'm working on it, I really am. I think I'm just gonna have this thread locked. MODS.. LOCK MY THREAD, this shit is unnecessary and I aplogize for starting this thread to begin with
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Quoted: Quoted: Step 1. Post shit about your old lady under assumed anonymity. Step 2. Find out she knows, and post an I'm sorry thread, to make up for dozens of earlier posts. Step 3. ????? Step 4. Profit? walk away the BETTER person in my opinion. I like to hold on to my dignity, I acted out of line by slandering my ex GF on here and I acknowledge that. I wouldn't appreciate if someone did something like that to me, so I dont think its right for me to do it to someone else. Hence the public apology. Its not a desperate plea for her to take me back, I dont care about that.. its out of the question and I'm ok with it, but I feel kinda bad for having said those things and I think she deserves an apology, even if she DID dump me. I shouldnt be saying anything about her at all. and I wont ever again. Its wrong to do stuff like that Ex girlfriend? WTF you made it sound like a wife of somthing in your OP. You are starting to sound like these guys;  |
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Quoted: Quoted: ambien thread, thread about ex following you on the board..... doesn't sound like there is going to be a happy ending anywhere in sight...... the happy ending begins when I close my laptop and shut my eyes.. Your happy ending is only being held off by you still being on the laptop. Turn it off and go to bed. Have a good night OP. |
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well if she is your ex she probably deserves whatever you said about her otherwise you would still be with her. Fuck her and her bullshit. Bitch if you are reading this get a life and quit stalking your ex She dumped ME, yet we still spoke for a while and it didnt work out.. no one is stalking, she did this shit even when we were going out.. she looks me up on the internet. I dont have facebook so I guess this is her only option It's weird and creepy. Chen if you're reading this, get over your ex fucking boyfriend and move on with life. I'm sure she'd appreciate the OP cyber stalking her, because that's exactly what it is. It's called an obsession. Seek help.
This. Move the fuck on. Both of you. this |
