[ARCHIVED THREAD] - Online Dating Help. (Page 1 of 3)
Posted: 1/24/2011 5:04:14 PM EDT
|
For those of you with online dating experience, your advise is appreciated.
I'm currently chatting with a young lady that has the highest match percentage with me I've ever seen, she is attractive, and actually messaged me back. I'm running out of conversation topics quick. Give me some ideas. |
|
Quoted:
Find out what she has on her bucket list, it may match yours, you could seek a common bond, and find maybe what everyone is searching for - everlasting love ........ or you could just see if she likes to fuck. .. ..... kids these days !? That's actually a good one. I'm using it now. |
|
Quoted: Quoted: Post a pic of her so we can evaluate her to determine possible conversation topics. http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y238/tboneguy915/okc.jpg in before someone knows her and tells her to read this thread   |
|
Quoted:
Quoted:
Find out what she has on her bucket list, it may match yours, you could seek a common bond, and find maybe what everyone is searching for - everlasting love ........ or you could just see if she likes to fuck. .. ..... kids these days !? That's actually a good one. I'm using it now. Her Response: yeah well i did. I gave it to my ex and he never gave it back but it's in my head. what about u? wtf? 
That really helps perpetuate the conversation. |
|
Quoted:
Quoted:
Don't be a pussy, ask her out to "brunch" or "a light dinner". How about drinks? Both brunches and "light dinners" don't sound like they have enough liquid courage to build up my confidence. Be unique. Chicks like those phrases. Also it makes you appear confident and not a time waster, both good things. Pre party to the appropriate level before you meet up with her. ETA: stay away from lunch unless you just want to be her pal |
|
Quoted:
Quoted:
Quoted:
Don't be a pussy, ask her out to "brunch" or "a light dinner". How about drinks? Both brunches and "light dinners" don't sound like they have enough liquid courage to build up my confidence. drinks or coffee, don't be a pussy - are you ugly? Not extremely 
|
|
Quoted:
For those of you with online dating experience, your advise is appreciated. I'm currently chatting with a young lady that has the highest match percentage with me I've ever seen, she is attractive, and actually messaged me back. I'm running out of conversation topics quick. Give me some ideas. You're on OkCupid too? Start asking her some really deep questions: "If money was no object, where would you go and why?" "If you could have a superpower, what would it be and why?" |
|
Quoted:
Quoted:
Don't be a pussy, ask her out to "brunch" or "a light dinner". How about drinks? Both brunches and "light dinners" don't sound like they have enough liquid courage to build up my confidence. That ones easy, have some drinks before you meet her. Save some bucks. |
|
what area of town do you live in, and is that where you grew up?
then you "im on this side of town, but i grew up in such and such. play any musical instruments? what are you favorite foods or resturants? like cooking? what are you good at making? any brothers and sisters? how often do you visit family? any pets? like sports? |
|
Quoted: Slow down? Why slow down? You have been talking with her for 2 hours, do you understand how good that is when it comes to online dating? just ask her out already!Quoted: go for broke and ask her out. I've been speaking to the girl for about two hours. Slow down hoss. |
|
Quoted:
Quoted:
Quoted:
Find out what she has on her bucket list, it may match yours, you could seek a common bond, and find maybe what everyone is searching for - everlasting love ........ or you could just see if she likes to fuck. .. ..... kids these days !? That's actually a good one. I'm using it now. Her Response: yeah well i did. I gave it to my ex and he never gave it back but it's in my head. what about u? wtf?
That really helps perpetuate the conversation. 
|
|
Quoted:
Quoted:
is this an internet IM chat, or are you emailing back and forth? Messaging on the site. Not instant, more like email, just on the actual dating website. the trick is to ask questions that she can respond to, that give her the opportunity to ask back the same thing, or if she doesnt, that still allows you to segway your answer to the same question into the topic. |