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1/2/2011 3:20:47 PM EDT
A friend told me she felt as tho I gaslighted her. WTF does that mean.Nothing in my Websters makes sense.

Anybody?
1/2/2011 3:21:19 PM EDT
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A friend told me she felt as tho I gaslighted her. WTF does that mean.Nothing in my Websters makes sense.

Anybody?


Dutch Oven?
1/2/2011 3:22:19 PM EDT
[#2]
Bette Davis film.  Husband does things to make her think she is crazy.

http://bettesmovieblog.blogspot.com/2010/08/gaslight.html
1/2/2011 3:23:14 PM EDT
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Gaslighting on Wikipedia
Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse in which false information is presented to the victim with the intent of making them doubt their own memory and perception. It may simply be the denial by an abuser that previous abusive incidents ever occurred, or it could be the staging of bizarre events by the abuser with the intention of disorienting the victim. Gaslighting had a colloquial origin explained below, but the term has also been used in clinical and research literature.


Kharn
1/2/2011 3:23:40 PM EDT
[#4]





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A friend told me she felt as tho I gaslighted her. WTF does that mean.Nothing in my Websters makes sense.





Anybody?



Gaslighting - I





Gaslighting - II




 
 
1/2/2011 3:25:42 PM EDT
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Great Betty Davis Ingrid Bergman film.  Husband does things to make her think she is crazy.


Fixed.



Fixed again.



Also, it's Bette Davis, not Betty.



 
1/2/2011 3:26:43 PM EDT
[#6]
Thanks. I knew ARFCOM would come through.

And just for general purposes, I haven't done any of that.

I only told her to lay off the Lunesta and stay out of all  the conspiacy theory sites. And I get accused of gaslighting?
1/2/2011 4:31:29 PM EDT
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Maybe she learned a new word, was anxious to find a way to use it, and you were in the wrong place at the wrong time...


(or else she is trying to gaslight you)





1/2/2011 4:45:01 PM EDT
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Maybe she learned a new word, was anxious to find a way to use it, and you were in the wrong place at the wrong time...


(or else she is trying to gaslight you)









1/2/2011 7:13:32 PM EDT
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Great Betty Davis Ingrid Bergman film.  Husband does things to make her think she is crazy.

Fixed.

Fixed again.

Also, it's Bette Davis, not Betty.
 


Right on both counts.  Damn.
1/2/2011 7:37:01 PM EDT
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...I haven't done any of that.



I only told her to lay off the Lunesta and stay out of all  the conspiacy theory sites. And I get accused of gaslighting?


You told her she's drugging herself too much, and that she's too paranoid, yet you expected her to think it was constructive criticism.



 
1/2/2011 9:10:14 PM EDT
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Quoted:

Quoted:
...I haven't done any of that.

I only told her to lay off the Lunesta and stay out of all  the conspiacy theory sites. And I get accused of gaslighting?

You told her she's drugging herself too much, and that she's too paranoid, yet you expected her to think it was constructive criticism.
 


Exactly. I guess some people don't take constructive criticism very well.