Posted: 9/30/2010 8:08:00 AM EDT
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I GET MARRIED! To this little lady: (I knew you'd ask anyways)   Any last minute arfcom advice?  *title edited for chronology* |
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Quoted: 10/10/10 is an important and easy day to remember. If you forget, you will never, ever, know a scorn worse. I had a flask made with X.X.X engraved in it just so I can remember... ETA: raysheen and Mr. Harry: That's us! We have been best friends for about 5 years, about a year ago it made sense to keep her around 'Til Death. We have planned our entire wedding around "just having a good time" for our friends and family. She's definitely a keeper.
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Quoted: dont be a dumb ass and fuck it up your promise to each other are not just words . thats all i got edit : congrats// now go do her sister before its technically wrong to do so She only has a younger brother and I think that would just make things awkward.... |
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Stand in front of the mirror and practice saying "Yes, dear."
"The purpose of women is to civilize men. The purpose of men is to cherish women." Allow yourself to be civilized; don't try to resist. Cherish her as if she were a goddess sent to you from Heaven, because that's what she is, so be grateful and count yourself lucky. Don't just "show" her that you love her; tell her, often, for any reason or for no reason –– say the words. Also, tell her frequently that she is beautiful, for any reason or for no reason. Don't argue about small stuff, and by the way, it's all small stuff. She ate the last peanut butter, and you wanted some? BFD. She is a goddess, remember? Also, every time you or she leaves the house, or ends a phone call, your last words should be "I love you." If one of you is hit by a truck, it would nice for the survivor to remember that the last words ever spoken were "I love you." As you walk down the aisle, as you stand there in front of the parson, remind yourself that this is the best thing you ever did, because it is. You should feel a great sense of calm. And here's a practical tip for the wedding ceremony: when you see grooms or brides crying or giggling uncontrollably, or sometimes fainting, that is almost always the result of forgetting to breathe. Sounds silly, but remember to breathe. If you find yourself crying or laughing or feeling faint, just resume breathing and it will pass. |
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Quoted: I will give you the best advice I was ever given and It has served me well for over 25 years of marriage "Make Your Wife Your Best Friend" If you can do that one thing you have it made. +1 and as long as she's happy, everyone's happy. Don't forget to tell her how much she means to you more than once a year either. |
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1) If it isn't going to be important 5 years from now, it isn't worth arguing about.
2) Let her handle what goes on in the house. It is her domain. Do try to get yourself a man cave, but that is it for you. Rest of the house is hers. 3) Have kids. 4) Never disagree in front of the kids on issues relating to them. Always back your spouse when they are saying yes of no the what they ask. If you don't agree with what is happening, take it offline and get back to them as a united front ALWAYS!!!! Kids are natural born lawyers. Just remember you (Wife/Husband unit) are the judge and they are only lawyers. 4) Save some money for after the kids are gone. Great time to reacquaint yourself to your spouse. 5) Listen to all the advice above it is pretty good stuff. |
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I will give you the best advice I was ever given and It has served me well for over 25 years of marriage "Make Your Wife Your Best Friend" If you can do that one thing you have it made. +1 and as long as she's happy, everyone's happy. Don't forget to tell her how much she means to you more than once a year either. Indeed tell her what a babe she is to you Everyday. And remember being her best friend means taking an interest in her as well. My wife is a quilter I know enough to be able to hold an end of the ruler etc and Likewise she may not know a lot about guns but she can shot a lot better than I can sew
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Watch what you say. She doesn't even lean |
What in the hell is wrong with you ? Are you already tired of pie? 'Cause it's gonna go away......... the next words after 'I do' is 'yes, dear' Stay engaged forever.......... Last time I proposed, we agreed to do it 'some time this century'. Unfortunately, it was in 1997.....  Right now, you could probably use this line. And get a pre-nup. |
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What in the hell is wrong with you ? Are you already tired of pie? 'Cause it's gonna go away......... the next words after 'I do' is 'yes, dear' Stay engaged forever.......... Last time I proposed, we agreed to do it 'some time this century'. Unfortunately, it was in 1997.....
Right now, you could probably use this line. And get a pre-nup. You are doing something wrong 25 years married and never had "That", has only gotten better and bettter |