[ARCHIVED THREAD] - Filipina dating thread (Page 1 of 3)
Posted: 7/16/2010 1:13:27 PM EDT
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Inspired by the Red head dating thread Anyone have any experience with filipinas? I met one a couple weeks ago and we've been getting along great so far. I'm curious about what ARFCOM can tell me about what I'm getting myself into here.  Good stories, bad stories, funny stories. Share your experiences. And, since I know ARFCOM cannot make an informed decision without pics, here's a little reference material.  |
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Quoted: Inspired by the Red head dating thread Anyone have any experience with filipinas? I met one a couple weeks ago and we've been getting along great so far. I'm curious about what ARFCOM can tell me about what I'm getting myself into here. Good stories, bad stories, funny stories. Share your experiences. And, since I know ARFCOM cannot make an informed decision without pics, here's a little reference material. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v632/zack3gpics/94f5847b-1.jpg Never dated one before, but damn, she is a cutie Zack.  |
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Having grown up in SE Asia, I can tell you that Filipinas are the Redheads of Asia: Crazy in bed, Crazy in the head.
When you date or marry one, you date or marry her whole family. If they don't like you, you're as good as dead. Butterfly knives were invented there. Guess what that means. |
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Quoted: You marry one from overseas, you might have to bring the whole family over. I dated one once, but she wanted me to convert to Catholic and da debil would have nothing to do with it. Her family is Catholic, and she was raised that way but currently is not a big fan of organized religion and shares my viewpoint of "Maybe, but I wanna see some proof."  |
| i've dated two and they were about as different from each other as night and day, one was insanly jealous and tempermental, the other was actually quite pleasent great to go places with and very nice to be around. both had extremly high sex drives. so take it for what it's worth. |
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Quoted: i've dated two and they were about as different from each other as night and day, one was insanly jealous and tempermental, the other was actually quite pleasent great to go places with and very nice to be around. both had extremly high sex drives. so take it for what it's worth. So far (like i said i've only known her a few weeks) she would fit the description of the second one. I've tried to make her mad. It doesn't work. She's a very calm and level headed girl. I asked her if she had ever been in a fight, she told me that she once beat the hell out of a guy that stole her purse (or wallet or bookbag or something like that) back in high school She doesn't strike me as being overly violent, moody, jealous or prone to quick mood changes. |
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she probably has a kid but you wont find out until you go visit her in the PI
she wants to get a fiance visa so she can come to the USA, after two years she becomes a permanent resident then she will want you to help her sponser the rest of her family to come here |
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Quoted: 1) noshe probably has a kid but you wont find out until you go visit her in the PI she wants to get a fiance visa so she can come to the USA, after two years she becomes a permanent resident then she will want you to help her sponser the rest of her family to come here 2) no, see #3 3)extremely unlikely, her family is fairly well off and in a pretty good place there. |
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Quoted: Quoted: 1) noshe probably has a kid but you wont find out until you go visit her in the PI she wants to get a fiance visa so she can come to the USA, after two years she becomes a permanent resident then she will want you to help her sponser the rest of her family to come here 2) no, see #3 3)extremely unlikely, her family is fairly well off and in a pretty good place there. she probably wants to cut off and deep fry your balls |
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Quoted: I sure hope not, I'm kind of attached to them. Quoted: Quoted: 1) noshe probably has a kid but you wont find out until you go visit her in the PI she wants to get a fiance visa so she can come to the USA, after two years she becomes a permanent resident then she will want you to help her sponser the rest of her family to come here 2) no, see #3 3)extremely unlikely, her family is fairly well off and in a pretty good place there. she probably wants to cut off and deep fry your balls  |
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Quoted: Quoted: It ended with her taking throwing a pints of ice cream at me.  I'm not entirely sure where you're going with this, but you didn't mention knives so I'll consider this a story on the positive tally. You know that I am the epitome of level headed and could not possibly have done anything to deserve such a volatile reaction. |
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i've dated two and they were about as different from each other as night and day, one was insanly jealous and tempermental, the other was actually quite pleasent great to go places with and very nice to be around. both had extremly high sex drives. so take it for what it's worth. So far (like i said i've only known her a few weeks) she would fit the description of the second one. I've tried to make her mad. It doesn't work. She's a very calm and level headed girl. I asked her if she had ever been in a fight, she told me that she once beat the hell out of a guy that stole her purse (or wallet or bookbag or something like that) back in high school
She doesn't strike me as being overly violent, moody, jealous or prone to quick mood changes. I'm married to one. It takes alotttttttt for her to become angry but if she is.....just think Tasmanian devil. Roy |
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Quoted: I've known many, many guys who dated/married flips and honestly can't think of ONE that ended well. Don't do it. I am not entirely sure about your position here, but I did realize one thing. Going by the posts in GD and team, ARFCOM has a collective divorce rate of about 105%, so perhaps they aren't the best focus group for a study like this |
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Was married to one for 10 years. Never again. Great in bed though..... Import or domestic? What happened? Short Version Friend of mine had a Filipino wife and it was a disaster. He was in the Air Force and met her at a "club" in Germany. According to him, the pretty Filipino girls are sent by their families to these "clubs" to marry Americans. Guys begins to date her. Is required to begin sending money to her family. ($300 per month) She has a green card in works but needs additional money. Flies down to the Phillipines to meet family etc. She is incredible in bed and with no sexual limits. He is told she has some cousins/uncle in the Chicago area who will help them etc. Pays girls family $2000 to marry her. PCS's to San Antonio. During this time she visits her "cousins/uncle" in Chicago several times at his expense. Guy gets deployed for 6 months. During this time "wife"leaves and go to "stay with family" in Chicago. Never sees her again! Calls the police. Finds out the "cousin/uncle" is actually her real husband! The only good thing out of the whole fucked up situation was that he was not legally married to her. $25,000 bad experience. |
and even mentioned bringing her family over to the US
. I played along for a little while because I like pie but after a while it wasn't worth it.
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I've known many, many guys who dated/married flips and honestly can't think of ONE that ended well. Don't do it. I am not entirely sure about your position here, but I did realize one thing. Going by the posts in GD and team, ARFCOM has a collective divorce rate of about 105%, so perhaps they aren't the best focus group for a study like this
During my military career, I've known a TON of guys who dated and/or married Philipino women. Sure, a lot were bargirls, but a lot of them weren't. No matter. I honestly don't know a single one that didn't have problems. To anyone here who's done it and it worked out...congratulations! You are a rarity. |
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1) They will cut a bitch and make chicken adobo without wasting one ounce of it.
2) The rice cooker is on 24/7. 3) I have scars in my hairline from the last one I dated. 4) They are however great in bed and are more than enthusiastic for scratching stuff off of your sexual bucket list. |
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WTH is with all the knife comments? I knew quite a few filipina's in High School, none where as batshit crazy as you guys think. LOL, I know. I think ARFCOM is fishing from the wrong lake. The odds of finding a "good one" at bars and beer taverns are extremely low.
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Had one at work I would have married in a heartbeat if I wasn't already married, she was a lumpia making machine. Good God could she cook and she was a looker!!!! We had a lovely Filipina at a previous job that cooked those dessert Banana Lumpias - oh my god... At one office party, I got down on my knees and begged her to marry me after I tasted one of those! She laughed; her husband, an Air Force guy, was there and foolishly said "well, what's you offer - maybe I will sell her to you". I found out from her the next day they had a hell of a fight over that comment. But she always made me a batch of Lumpia for my birthday until they moved away about five years later. |