Posted: 6/28/2010 12:51:27 AM EDT
| Hey guys, I feel like a dipshit. So I've been talking to this girl I've really liked for a while, we go really well together. We aren't dating or anything but I gotta say we are really close. But today I went to a movie with a girl I was only planning on talking with. Well we ended up kissing and the like and I feel awful. I just told the girl I actually like about what happened and she isn't angry but she is, as she stated. "Shocked and doesn't know what to think". I am an idiot, I stopped with the movie girl because I thought of the girl I liked when we were kissing and.. I know there is no surefire way to make it up to the other person, but what are your suggestions. I can't sleep and she just passed out because she has class in the morning. |
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Quoted: So, you feel that you cheated on a girl whom you are not now nor ever were dating?Hey guys, I feel like a dipshit. So I've been talking to this girl I've really liked for a while, we go really well together. We aren't dating or anything but I gotta say we are really close. But today I went to a movie with a girl I was only planning on talking with. Well we ended up kissing and the like and I feel awful. I just told the girl I actually like about what happened and she isn't angry but she is, as she stated. "Shocked and doesn't know what to think". I am an idiot, I stopped with the movie girl because I thought of the girl I liked when we were kissing and.. I know there is no surefire way to make it up to the other person, but what are your suggestions. I can't sleep and she just passed out because she has class in the morning.  That is how I am reading it, and I don't understand why the girl you like but are not dating is upset by it... Is there more to you and her than what you have said? |
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Hey guys, I feel like a dipshit. So I've been talking to this girl I've really liked for a while, we go really well together. We aren't dating or anything but I gotta say we are really close. But today I went to a movie with a girl I was only planning on talking with. Well we ended up kissing and the like and I feel awful. I just told the girl I actually like about what happened and she isn't angry but she is, as she stated. "Shocked and doesn't know what to think". I am an idiot, I stopped with the movie girl because I thought of the girl I liked when we were kissing and.. I know there is no surefire way to make it up to the other person, but what are your suggestions. I can't sleep and she just passed out because she has class in the morning. Kids these days, no social skills. |
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Yup you are a dipshit.. Would have been better to just quit messing around and call it a day.. She will hold it against you forever. ETA Sounds like you are in High school... Been there done that. 20 years ago. I know, I don't deny that one bit. Feels like high school. But yes there is something more to us, while we are not dating, she and I have been friends for a while and now were about to move into dating, and it feels dumb saying: oh look it was just a kiss har har, cause that is totally high school. But I didn't realize how much one thing could destroy what took such a long time to build up. Apart from my stupidity, which there is no cure for, what can be done to help this? Oh and Fuck Obama |
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well it ws stupid to tell her something like that. just have to point that out. all you can do is explain that you want her and don't want to date the other girl and say some sappy shit like I wish i was kissing you and have never done that. since you have taken all this time to build something and went retard on it your only hope now is to just go balls out and try to get the girl you like. Youll either win or lose. |
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Yup you are a dipshit.. Would have been better to just quit messing around and call it a day.. She will hold it against you forever. ETA Sounds like you are in High school... Been there done that. 20 years ago. I know, I don't deny that one bit. Feels like high school. But yes there is something more to us, while we are not dating, she and I have been friends for a while and now were about to move into dating, and it feels dumb saying: oh look it was just a kiss har har, cause that is totally high school. But I didn't realize how much one thing could destroy what took such a long time to build up. Apart from my stupidity, which there is no cure for, what can be done to help this? Oh and Fuck Obama I always try the kiss and make up,,,(PUN) do something special. Trip somewhere nice, somewhere she has not been but always wanted too.. I have done a few trips to the coast.. Seattle, even Disney world ,,,  Don't ask why on the Disney world trip... But I have been with the same girl since 1990.. Small things can make a big difference as well.. Try Flowers to her workplace or just a nice meal.
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Yup you are a dipshit.. Would have been better to just quit messing around and call it a day.. She will hold it against you forever. ETA Sounds like you are in High school... Been there done that. 20 years ago. I know, I don't deny that one bit. Feels like high school. But yes there is something more to us, while we are not dating, she and I have been friends for a while and now were about to move into dating, and it feels dumb saying: oh look it was just a kiss har har, cause that is totally high school. But I didn't realize how much one thing could destroy what took such a long time to build up. Apart from my stupidity, which there is no cure for, what can be done to help this? Oh and Fuck Obama I always try the kiss and make up,,,(PUN) do something special. Trip somewhere nice, somewhere she has not been but always wanted too.. I have done a few trips to the coast.. Seattle, even Disney world ,,, Don't ask why on the Disney world trip... But I have been with the same girl since 1990.. Small things can make a big difference as well.. Try Flowers to her workplace or just a nice meal.Alright, thanks for the advice and pointing out how stupid I was. I have a few ideas of things I can do. I will know in the morning if she is truly pissed or if we still have it. I'm surprised no one has asked for pics yet. |
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well it ws stupid to tell her something like that. just have to point that out. all you can do is explain that you want her and don't want to date the other girl and say some sappy shit like I wish i was kissing you and have never done that. since you have taken all this time to build something and went retard on it your only hope now is to just go balls out and try to get the girl you like. Youll either win or lose. +1 You aren't doing any good to your (potential) relationship by telling her that you kissed some other chick. Aside from the fact that NO good whatsoever will come of telling her (this isn't one of those moments where she's gonna appreciate how honest you are), it doesn't benefit her –– you're only telling her to take the weight off your chest. If this girl really liked you, then all you really did is hurt her to make yourself feel less guilty. |
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Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Yup you are a dipshit.. Would have been better to just quit messing around and call it a day.. She will hold it against you forever. ETA Sounds like you are in High school... Been there done that. 20 years ago. I know, I don't deny that one bit. Feels like high school. But yes there is something more to us, while we are not dating, she and I have been friends for a while and now were about to move into dating, and it feels dumb saying: oh look it was just a kiss har har, cause that is totally high school. But I didn't realize how much one thing could destroy what took such a long time to build up. Apart from my stupidity, which there is no cure for, what can be done to help this? Oh and Fuck Obama I always try the kiss and make up,,,(PUN) do something special. Trip somewhere nice, somewhere she has not been but always wanted too.. I have done a few trips to the coast.. Seattle, even Disney world ,,, Don't ask why on the Disney world trip... But I have been with the same girl since 1990.. Small things can make a big difference as well.. Try Flowers to her workplace or just a nice meal.Alright, thanks for the advice and pointing out how stupid I was. I have a few ideas of things I can do. I will know in the morning if she is truly pissed or if we still have it. I'm surprised no one has asked for pics yet. the time for little games and flirting around the subject have ended with what you did. You need to show your hand to convince her that you aren't going to do something like that again. A real commitment. You don't have to ask her to marry you but you need to make something official . |
