All my life I have thought my sister has kept me from dating the local girls around here. She is friends with most of the datable one around here , but none of them will  date me. I dont have a problem with getting dates outside of town ,but to this day I have not been able to date a local girl. Well the other week she makes friends with a girl that just moved here , 21 yo very cute from the little Ive saw her. My sister carrys her out to meet her guy friends (Im pretty sure a few are DU members) ,the next night her and Amanda go out again and my sister asked her what did she think of her friends and amanda told her they were ok but she was looking for a real man. My sister asked her what did she mean and she said she wanted a outdoors type that wore Tshirts and jeans ,that worked , that knew how to fix a car, that didnt give a shit what ppl said or thought about them. After my sister told me about that I asked her did she bring me up , she said no. Then the other day amanda called her while I was around she asked about me , my sister totally talked down about me to her. Man it pissed me off , after she got off the phone with her I asked her why did she do that , She said amanda wouldnt want to date you if she knew you. WTF thats supposed to mean ? She said" you are a right wing gun nut , plus you scare most of my friends" I told her the only reason there scared of me is because I might bust them smoking pot and I have told most of the guys I dont like them hanging around my sister. Welp so it looks like my thoery was right , Sorry for the rant.

So, ask her out yourself.

Grow a pair and stop blaming your sister for you being a pussy.

Get it while it's hot!!!

ETA to add the smiley just in case you really are a pussy and get your undies in a bundle.

Your sister is a bitch...sorry to be the one to tell you.  Call Amanda on your own and hook up with her.  Down the road, don't invite your sis to the wedding.

Then the other day amanda called her while I was around she asked about me , my sister totally talked down about me to her.

I have told most of the guys I dont like them hanging around my sister.

Sounds like you two are doing the CB on each other.

She doesnt have a home phone only cell , my sister will not give me her digits . Ive been tring to bump into somewhere but so far I havnt had any luck. I had reason to tell those guys to back off 1 is they are drug users and I dont want my sister to get tangled up with them second Im not CBing she has a bf.

Snag your sister's phone when she's in the can, get the girl's number and ask her out for coffee.

Kharn

Sounds like you need to knock your sister the hell out.  Then ask her friend out ... and post pics.

SBG

Make a note to yourself....."For further reference, do not use sister to get Dates."

Patty

HIT IT!!  Take Pictures!!  Show them to your sister

Ask her "Still don't think she'd like me biotch?"

It sounds like Amanda wants some "right wing nut" ... give her some !

how old is everybody in this mix? Hook up one of your buddies with your sister. He'll have her cleaning his gun(s) in no time. She'll be too busy to be a pain.

Quoted: how old is everybody in this mix? Hook up one of your buddies with your sister. He'll have her cleaning his gun(s) in no time. She'll be too busy to be a pain.

1st post!  welcome to the forum !

Quoted: ...she was looking for a real man. My sister asked her what did she mean and she said she wanted a outdoors type that wore Tshirts and jeans ,that worked , that knew how to fix a car, that didnt give a shit what ppl said or thought about them, and doesn't have his personal life controlled by his sister.

Fixed it for ya!  No need to thank me!

Quoted: She doesnt have a home phone only cell , my sister will not give me her digits . Ive been tring to bump into somewhere but so far I havnt had any luck.

You pussy! wha wha wha is all I hear.  You already know she wants a real man, someone that takes charge and doesn't care what other think...so why are you being such a pussy by intentionally "accidentally" bumping into her?  Be a man, go to her house, knock on the door and tell her to get her stuff because you are taking her out.  It doesn't matter if she is available or not ready, she'll tell you if she can't go at that moment.  You'll at least break the ice and you can get her number that way.  If you don't have a set of balls that big then just steal your sisters cellphone when she isn't looking at get the number from there.  While you are sitting around feeling all sad blaming your sister for your failures, so other guy that has a set of balls is getting another step closer to asking Amanda out.

If you and your sister are cock blocking each other, you might as well just sleep with her....After all, you are in Virginia...

Quoted: So, ask her out yourself.

Sick! That's his sister, besides he's in Virginia not West Virginia.

Call the chick yourself.

Do whatever you have to to get her number or speak to her the next time you see her in person.

This can only end in tragedy.

Take your sister to the car wash, you know what to do then

Quoted: She doesnt have a home phone only cell , my sister will not give me her digits .

You need to display some adaptability and initiative here.

You need your sister to meet women?

The next time you see your sisters friend be a polite gentleman. Talk good about  your sister and tell her how you just know your sister is talking bad about you and you don't know why. The new girl will see the true colors of your sis.

It's all a game.

Best of luck to ya.

Where do you live, Mayberry?  Your sister knows EVERY datable chick in town?

what are there, 10?

jeez.  Go out in the real world and find a real girl.

This chick probably won't like you anyway because she likes guys who use paragraphs!

WTF?

It seems to me there are two possible problems here:

1)

Quoted: All my life I have thought my sister has kept me from dating the local girls around here.

That points to either a major pussy, or . . . . . ..

and 2)

She said" you are a right wing gun nut , plus you scare most of my friends" I told her the only reason there scared of me is because I might bust them smoking pot and I have told most of the guys I dont like them hanging around my sister. Welp so it looks like my thoery was right , Sorry for the rant.

Someone who never really learned to play with the other children very well.