[ARCHIVED THREAD] - Grrrrr.... (Page 1 of 2)
Posted: 5/26/2007 7:04:07 AM EDT
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It has come to my attention that a friend of my husband has been tracking my activities on this site. He sent an email to my husband with every post I have made on this site, whether it be a thread of my own, or a comment I’ve made on another’s thread. This actually pissed me off because this friend of my husband is really just a friend of convenience. He’s only a friend when he needs something, or as it seems, when he has something he needs to tattle about. Now, I know that when I post, every member of this site can see it, thus the basis of its appeal. However, what I did not expect was a nark, per say, who was going to leak my every move. To be completely fair, I haven’t done anything worth hiding, and my husband was the one who got me hooked on this site. So leaking anything back to him would be moot. Anyway… Any of you ever have a friendship in which it was based only on convenience? What did you do? Any of you ever have a spouse with a friendship like this? Did you look the other way, or did you intervene? |
I dont want anything to get 'good' I just wanted to vent. He crossed some boundries by sending all 300 -/+ posts of mine to my husband. Most of which he had already read. And no, I doubt he'll post. |
I kicked all my false friends to the curb so to speak. Unfortunantly one had to stab me in the back for me to find out. My wife has done the same. |
I've had friends like this also... and I did the same. Who has time for fake people? |
LOL My husband is very laid back... He knew I was going to write an email to the friend, although he dosnt know about the thread... We'll see.. 
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Apparently he did a search for my SN, and it came up with all my posts. Why would you want to? I have no idea, it's not like Im the most exciting person EVER.. really, Im very lame. And it's not like I was hiding anything to begin with... My husband has read all my posts. |
Yeah, but WTF is the point in sending all this stuff to your husband. I would never EVER trust that guy to be around me or my family. What is his agenda? I'd tell that guy to get lost. Oh yeah, restraining order = no guns. The suggestion should be enough to remove him from your personal life. |
I have no idea what his deal is/was. As long as I have know him, the friend, I really havent cared for him.. Maybe he knows? I dont know.. It's just odd. And even tho I dont care for the guy... It's not like he's around much. Like I said, he's only around when he needs something. I'm not going to try and make my husband kick him to the curb, thats his decision to make, not mine. |
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Okay... devil's advocate here... Perhaps this man thinks he is doing his friend (your husband) a favor by pointing out what you are posting. Consider this... this is your husband's play area. Yes, he introduced you to it but he was here first and these are "his" friends. From what I have seen of your posts you have asked every man on here if you look like you are bisexual (clearly asking for attention), complained in the women's forum that your husband of one month isn't romantic enough and can't read your mind to figure out what you want and that he has already complained about the amount of time you are spending on the computer. Do you think starting another thread is the best way to deal with this? Perhaps you might want to log off and tend to your relationship. Arfcom has a long history of divorces and infidelity. It's normal for a lot of them to be suspicious. And I do believe you've given enough reasons for your husband's friend to be concerned about your behavior. |
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it sounds to me like he's secretly jealous of snack_shack and wants her husband's bod. either way, if someone is actually copying a users posts like has been stated, they need to be perma-banned. then they need to go get a fucking life and learn how to stop meddling with other people's marriages. |
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Dusty, Shut it.  I have a number of guy friends that trust me more than any other women they know...in some cases this includes their SOs.  Part of the reason is they know I will be honest with them if something doesn't sound right. There may be NOTHING wrong in her relationship but the image she is projecting SHOULD cause concern. All I'm saying is she ought to consider how this all reflects on her husband. His wife is posting on a board where he is known and as a spouse you need to act accordingly. Try not to disrepect them. I would seriously hope that she wouldn't go up to a group of his friends in person and complain about him or act this way. Your relationship is sacred. It's integrity should be guarded and the first priority. |
Oh snap. |
+10qw34it309831479587345 Wise words from the other side of the situation. My girlfriend does this crap to me all the time, and now her parents hate me. She is very happy with our relationship, and tells everyone the same. The problem comes up when we have a fight she won't talk with me to work things out, she goes to her family. |