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Well, it has been 10 weeks now and I can't take it anymore. Wife has been on the "mini pill" for 2 weeks today, so it's time for some fun. Honestly, I'm a little nervous. She had a "stage 2" tear which apparently isn't that bad. I've seen the healing, it looks mostly normal. But I'm still hesitant for some reason. Not to be too graphic, but before the baby she was uh....very tight. It was (being honest here) one of the things that made our sex life so great. She just had an amazing vagina. 
Anyway, this is a serious thread about a serious topic. How did you first time after a kid go? Anything to watch out for? Were you disappointed because it felt differently? Did it feel just as good? Fill me in and ease my mind, please. Might hurt hurt her for a round or two, then she'll be gtg. |
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OP and others with fresh newborns. Buy this for your wife RIGHT NOW. https://s7d1.scene7.com/is/image/BedBathandBeyond/189138134254c?$478$ My wife was a size 4 before our first kid and after the kid her hips expanded like almost all women do after childbirth and they stayed that way to were she was a size 6. After our second child she used this as direct and is actually now a size 2! This shit WORKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Buy it and if she bitches remind her that this is for HER not you as she will be MORE pissed as fuck once she misses this window and her body is not like it was before. Engineered for extended wear and greater pelvic support, it has an anti slip strip inside belt to help keep it in position and wide width Velcro?. It also includes Hip Check measuring tape and a tracking chart. Shrinkx Hips works thanks to the hormone relaxin, which loosens pelvic joints and ligaments in preparation for childbirth. The relaxin then stays in the system up to eight weeks before pelvic joints and ligaments harden in place. Wearing Shrinkx Hips during this time provides constant pressure to help gently guide areas back to their pre-pregnancy position. https://www.bedbathandbeyond.com/store/product/ultra-shrinkx-hips/134254?skuId=18710889&mcid=PS_googlepla_nonbrand_baby_&product_id=18710889&adpos=1o1&creative=43742623309&device=c&matchtype=&network=g&gclid=CIKBwZitkNQCFVW1wAodoXQJPw |
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Beautiful man. Congrats. Miss my 3wk old niece 2 states away. 
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Well, it has been 10 weeks now and I can't take it anymore. Wife has been on the "mini pill" for 2 weeks today, so it's time for some fun. Honestly, I'm a little nervous. She had a "stage 2" tear which apparently isn't that bad. I've seen the healing, it looks mostly normal. But I'm still hesitant for some reason. Not to be too graphic, but before the baby she was uh....very tight. It was (being honest here) one of the things that made our sex life so great. She just had an amazing vagina.
Anyway, this is a serious thread about a serious topic. How did you first time after a kid go? Anything to watch out for? Were you disappointed because it felt differently? Did it feel just as good? Fill me in and ease my mind, please. Honestly, is it really going to matter after 2 1/2 months of jerking off? |
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No offense or anything, but if my husband started a thread like this with very personal info and then posted my picture as well... Let's just say he'd have to worry more about his healing than mine. Seriously.
Maybe your wife doesn't care, I hope that is the case.  could turn into this 
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You won't notice a difference. My wife had 27 stitches, and that was just from the first time I hit it.
Kidding, I'm not equipped that well. She had 27 stitches for real, poor thing. She was tiny, she's still a size 2 at 45 years old. She'd been a gymnast up until her last couple of years at high school. |
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Whoa...nice! I hope you don't look anything like your avatar, she deserves better than that.
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No offense or anything, but if my husband started a thread like this with very personal info and then posted my picture as well... Let's just say he'd have to worry more about his healing than mine. Seriously. Maybe your wife doesn't care, I hope that is the case. could turn into this |
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So, uhhh, update.
Everything is good to go. It felt different I think? But not loose by any means, still was amazing. It had been a while for both of us so needless to say it was great. You fuckers have me paranoid about irish twins so I still haven't planted any seeds yet. She's been on the "mini pill" for almost a month now but I'm still paranoid thanks to you guys.
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So, uhhh, update. Everything is good to go. It felt different I think? But not loose by any means, still was amazing. It had been a while for both of us so needless to say it was great. You fuckers have me paranoid about irish twins so I still haven't planted any seeds yet. She's been on the "mini pill" for almost a month now but I'm still paranoid thanks to you guys. 
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Absolutely beautiful little girl. Congrats man!
Unrelated to the topic at hand, but truly enjoy the time with your new family. It goes way to quick. |
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Just take it easy for a while if she hurts.
My wife has breastfed exclusively all 8 of our children for the first year. She does not get fertile until after they start on baby foods which is about 14-16 months. All our kids are roughly 2 years apart. No birth control or pulling out ever. Breastfeeding is natures way of child spacing. |
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Well, it has been 10 weeks now and I can't take it anymore. Wife has been on the "mini pill" for 2 weeks today, so it's time for some fun. Honestly, I'm a little nervous. She had a "stage 2" tear which apparently isn't that bad. I've seen the healing, it looks mostly normal. But I'm still hesitant for some reason. Not to be too graphic, but before the baby she was uh....very tight. It was (being honest here) one of the things that made our sex life so great. She just had an amazing vagina.
Anyway, this is a serious thread about a serious topic. How did you first time after a kid go? Anything to watch out for? Were you disappointed because it felt differently? Did it feel just as good? Fill me in and ease my mind, please. We had a saying in college, "it was like a warm glass of water and you don't touch a side".
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THANKFULLY all three of mine were born via c-section. Wife wasn't too happy as she felt 'cheated'
I so miss playing with lactating boobies. Wife went from A's to very heavy C's and they were AWESOME. Of course the little bastards sucked all of the life outta them. You might have to take it easy for a while yet, lube will be your friend. Just wait until the little one decides he/she wants mom every couple of hours. Sex will be the furthest thing from your wife's mind 
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Just take it slow and gentle. After our first, I'd have to say sack time was even better after she was healed up, but it was so good she was pregnant again in no time. Immediately after our second baby was born, my wife developed a hematoma down there and had to have surgery/have it stitched and packed...It took a long time for her to heal and she's still tender sometimes even after 5 months. There is a noticeable difference now due to, I'm guessing, a little scar tissue, but she can squirt now so...
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Geez, that's a really cute baby girl. It is easy to see your wife's genetic contribution, but if that is you in your avatar, you should drop to your knees and thank Providence you come from a weak gene pool.
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OP and others with fresh newborns. Buy this for your wife RIGHT NOW. https://s7d1.scene7.com/is/image/BedBathandBeyond/189138134254c?$478$ My wife was a size 4 before our first kid and after the kid her hips expanded like almost all women do after childbirth and they stayed that way to were she was a size 6. After our second child she used this as direct and is actually now a size 2! This shit WORKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Buy it and if she bitches remind her that this is for HER not you as she will be MORE pissed as fuck once she misses this window and her body is not like it was before. Engineered for extended wear and greater pelvic support, it has an anti slip strip inside belt to help keep it in position and wide width Velcro?. It also includes Hip Check measuring tape and a tracking chart. Shrinkx Hips works thanks to the hormone relaxin, which loosens pelvic joints and ligaments in preparation for childbirth. The relaxin then stays in the system up to eight weeks before pelvic joints and ligaments harden in place. Wearing Shrinkx Hips during this time provides constant pressure to help gently guide areas back to their pre-pregnancy position. https://www.bedbathandbeyond.com/store/product/ultra-shrinkx-hips/134254?skuId=18710889&mcid=PS_googlepla_nonbrand_baby_&product_id=18710889&adpos=1o1&creative=43742623309&device=c&matchtype=&network=g&gclid=CIKBwZitkNQCFVW1wAodoXQJPw 
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Just take it slow and gentle. After our first, I'd have to say sack time was even better after she was healed up, but it was so good she was pregnant again in no time. Immediately after our second baby was born, my wife developed a hematoma down there and had to have surgery/have it stitched and packed...It took a long time for her to heal and she's still tender sometimes even after 5 months. There is a noticeable difference now due to, I'm guessing, a little scar tissue, but she can squirt now so... Sorry that happened, I'm sure that was no fun for either of you guys. But.....jealous.
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My ex was tight as hell for about a half of an inch then the bottom and sides fell out. It was about 3 months before things were somewhat back to normal. He was almost 10 pounds and tore her all of the way into her asshole.
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